What to give friends for a silver wedding?
Twenty-five years of married life is a long time. The family usually celebrates this date with a wide circle of family and friends. A significant date requires careful preparation and worthy gifts. Their choice should be considered especially carefully. It is better if the guests agree among themselves so that the couple does not receive several identical gifts.
Traditional silver gifts
The Silver Wedding is an important holiday in the history of every family. If you are invited to it, it means that you are treated in a special way, showing great trust and respect. Therefore, preparation for the event should be in advance. A gift bought in a hurry on the occasion may be out of place and even offend the heroes of the day.
The present doesn't have to be expensive. But it should reflect your good taste and show consideration for your spouses. It should definitely be backed up with pleasant wishes from the heart. It is better if these are not rhymed phrases learned from the Internet, but simple words from a pure heart.
Despite the availability and wide selection of gifts, many people often wonder what they can give their friends for a silver wedding. Such an event is rare and requires good preparation. For 25 years from the date of the wedding, the spouses themselves usually give each other silver rings. They are worn on the middle finger of the right hand. A commemorative engraving will add originality and value to them. The other couple will not have the second such symbolic jewelry. According to another tradition, the spouses take off the gold rings and leave them until the golden wedding, and in their place they wear silver ones.
Other traditional and symbolic gifts: a tray, a bowl, a jug, a lucky horseshoe made of silver. Presenting them, one should tell about the history and purpose of these objects. So, a tray or bowl symbolizes wealth in the family and attracts it to the house. The jug, which is used for symbolic washing, relieves of troubles and worries. The horseshoe should be correctly positioned over the door of the house. If you hang it upside down, then it will become a family amulet from evil and envious people. If the top - will bring harmony to the house and strengthen the love between the spouses and all family members living under the same roof.
Most often, heroes of the day are presented with silver dishes: candy bowls, cup holders, sugar bowls, trays, and stacks. Despite the seeming banality, silver is a very valuable gift and will never be superfluous in a family. This noble metal gives health and longevity. Over time, it will become a heirloom, passed down from generation to generation.
If finances allow, then you can purchase a whole set or a set of cutlery. However, it is worth remembering that it is considered a bad sign to give stabbing devices (knives, forks). So that there are not several identical expensive silver sets among the gifts, you should find out in advance what other guests will buy for the holiday.
They also buy individual interior items and silver souvenirs as a gift: figurines, boxes, candlesticks, horseshoes. These presentations can be expensive for the budget. It's better to buy one big item than a bunch of little knickknacks. To do this, you can get together and donate one worthwhile thing from several guests.
If the heroes of the day are believers, an icon in a silver setting will be a good gift. Suitable for this is the choice of the image of Peter and Fevronia of Murom, the intercessors of the spouses and a symbol of loyalty and love.
Money should not be given for the 25th wedding anniversary. It would not be bad form to hand over collectible silver coins.
They also give jewelry and silver or silver-plated accessories. For a man, it can be a tie clip, a ring, cufflinks, a chain, a flask or watch, a silver pen or a car keychain. A woman will be delighted with any tastefully chosen jewelry: a ring, earrings, brooch, bracelet, chain. They can be made of sparkling light metal, reminiscent of the more expensive platinum, or artificially aged blackened silver.
Original and inexpensive gifts
There is also a huge list of inexpensive gifts. Ideas for them can be gleaned literally from everywhere. Such a gift option is suitable, for example, for children of heroes of the day, if they are not yet independent enough and are studying at school.
A video sequence or presentation will be a good and memorable gift. The modern generation will easily and quickly cope with this task. You just need to select and scan photos, add sound or accompany with text comments. Well, the most precious words will be found in the hearts of the young congratulators.
You can also give nice silver accessories with family symbols: twin bedside lamps, photo frames, photo album, vase, interesting interior figurine, candlesticks.
The wedding tradition is often repeated on the anniversary. “Newlyweds” are again presented with a bottle of wine or champagne with a unique label - a picture of a photo of the spouses and good wishes. You can also order a beautiful unusual cake or other designer delicacies for your table.
If the spouses have a great sense of humor, then present them with medals for success and achievements in married life. You can find ready-made solutions in gift shops or order engraving yourself. Order a kind friendly cartoon or pop art portraits, an advanced couple will love it. You can also make paired mugs or T-shirts with appropriate inscriptions. Even if the husband and wife only wear them at home, it will be a sweet gesture of attention.
If you have enough skills and experience in some area, you can make an original thing with your own hands. Handmade made individually with the warmth of the soul will be very useful. This can be pillow covers, a jewelry box, a still life in a silver frame, a toy amulet, a bonsai tree, an unusual panel, warm knitted items, or a recipe book.
Practical options
Practical gifts for home and family life will also be good for the 25th anniversary. This can be a refrigerator, oven, electric kettle, camera, multicooker or any other technique. If the design of the home of the heroes of the day allows, the technique is chosen in metallic color. Otherwise, you can simply decorate the box with silver-colored wrapping paper.
A good option would be a varied home style, made in silver: quality blanket, silk bedding, designer tablecloth set with napkins. Fresh solutions can be made to order, bought from a catalog or found in the online store.
The hosts of the holiday will also appreciate it if you approach their holiday with care and remember your hobby. A man can be presented with an expensive spinning rod or edged weapon in his collection. For a woman needlewoman, a set of natural yarn, a sewing machine.
Avid summer residents or those living in their own home can be presented with gifts related to outdoor recreation. These can be picnic sets, barbecue or smokehouse, garden swing, decorative figures, mini-fountain. And also the spouses will delight the technician: a lawn mower, a trimmer or a motor-cultivator.
You can also donate things to maintain health: exercise equipment, massage chair, luxury cosmetics for care. Recently, it has become very practical and convenient to give certificates for a certain amount. By doing this, you simultaneously show attention to the needs and interests of the spouses and give them the opportunity to choose. It can be an interior salon or a salon of furniture and household appliances. You can donate a separate item to each of the spouses, depending on his interests. The wife will appreciate the certificate at a jewelry or cosmetic store. The husband goes to a tool center or hobby market.
In addition to material presentations, you can give impressions. One gift for two will further strengthen the relationship, give new emotions and will be remembered for a long time. Naturally, when choosing, one should take into account the characteristics and preferences of both spouses. For example, you should not give a balloon flight if one of them is panicky afraid of heights.
Now in almost every city there is a company that offers a whole range of gifts and experiences. As part of their services, you can choose one experience or a whole set for a busy day of three or more events. This could be a horse ride, a spa break, a dance lesson, a parachute jump, or a helicopter sightseeing tour. If you have the time and desire, you can think over such a gift yourself.
Tickets to the theater for a fashion show or a concert of your favorite performer, a short tour of interesting places in neighboring cities or a picnic for two at a local country club - there are a lot of options. Such an interesting event will be remembered for a long time. Before buying, carefully inquire about the plans of the married couple at a time approximately close to the selected date, so that tickets are not wasted.
A table for two ordered and paid for in a beautiful restaurant will also become an unexpected and pleasant surprise. For caring for children, and then about grandchildren, spouses often forget about themselves. To escape from household chores, to be just alone, to have a great evening in a new place is a valuable gift for loving people.
How to choose flowers?
Traditionally, roses are given for such an event. These can be red or white buds. Usually they make up a bouquet of twenty-five pieces. But donating more is not forbidden. The main thing is that it should be odd.
The color red is known to symbolize passion and love. Professional florists recommend choosing white roses for a twenty-five year date.This color symbolizes the care, high feelings, tenderness that accompany the relationship of spouses with such a lengthy life together.
It is not necessary to give cut flowers, you can also choose plants in the original pot: so it will delight the gifted longer. If a woman in a married couple prefers flowers of a yellow or peach shade, then it is better to choose a bouquet in accordance with the taste of the hostess of the holiday. It may not necessarily be roses, she can be more happy with lilies, tulips or gerberas in an interesting composition.
Whichever flowers you choose, they should be the freshest and tastefully packaged. The latest trends in bouquets are minimalism. Flowers are either stacked in one growth and tied with a ribbon (while the thorns are removed from roses), or they are decorated with plain eco-paper in the form of a cobweb of beige, green or white shades.
Remember the main rule of the donor: the main thing is not the price of the gift, but the care and attention shown when choosing it. Consider all the little things and nuances when choosing. Remember what spouses love, what they dream of, what they truly value. The key to a successful decision can be memories, emotional moments, significant events, circumstances of acquaintance or funny moments at a wedding 25 years ago. Show a little creativity, a non-standard approach. Friends will definitely appreciate your surprise and will remember it for a long time, and you will always be a welcome guest in their house.
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