The causes of misandria and how to deal with it

Modern women have become self-reliant and independent of men. They can boldly express their thoughts and perform various actions. Therefore, the fairer sex is less and less dependent on men. Uncommitted women are increasingly taking over public space, displacing men. They have long since learned to live and work independently. Is it as good as it might seem to some at first glance? Let's try to figure it out.

The word misandria is translated from Greek as "hatred of the stronger sex." Moreover, in this case, gender discrimination is also envisaged.

In antiquity, it was believed that a man and a woman could not be equal due to significant natural differences. The fair sex took a lower step.

The negative male look emerged during the Art Nouveau era. It happened in 1800. Then the feminist movement arose. They started promoting man-hatred.

Psychology claims that this direction is a certain mental illness. Girls who hate male sex call themselves feminists. They clearly suffer from a disorder called dissociative or conversion disorder.

The factor in question manifests itself in a very pronounced hostile attitude towards men, up to the appearance of disgust.

Our prejudices are our enemies. However, they do not appear out of the blue. There are many reasons for their occurrence. The reasons can be completely different for both men and women. Let's consider the issue in more detail.

Female misandry can arise if fertile soil is prepared for this. To understand this issue, we will rely on some factors.

First of all, this destructive feeling can cause improper upbringing.... If the girl's mother treated her father with hostility, she told her that men can easily humiliate and offend a woman. At the same time, she emphasized that men should not be trusted, since they would certainly deceive. This direction in education discourages interest in the opposite sex. And this is fraught with consequences.

Another important point that can definitely provoke misandria is these are violent actions. This negative has ever been endured by a representative of the weaker sex on the part of a man. In this case, the desire to experience intimacy with the stronger sex in most cases completely disappears. Hate is taking over.

If a woman is overly susceptible, then she may suffer from misandria.

At times, there can be aloofness in her behavior.... It appears as a result of some tension caused by certain events. The closeness of such a person contributes to the emergence of various phobias and psychological barriers.

If both parents treat their daughter or son with indifference, frighten them with punishment, then the child will grow up as a person with great psychological problems. It will seem to him that the surrounding society has rigidity.

Feelings of personal insecurity will lead to the person becoming detached from other people. Negative manifestations will affect the relationship. In addition, such an individual will not believe in his own prospects, and thereby lose luck.

As a result, the individual will become unsociable and withdrawn.... And when such traits appear in a person's character, he becomes very cruel and can hate everything around.

A very developed intellect contributes to the fact that a person begins to think and reflect a lot. If a woman is endowed with such a property of consciousness, she automatically begins to consider men "under a magnifying glass." Such a person is able to discern the smallest character traits and flaws in her partner.

This factor encourages reflection on the behavior of other people. And also such a person analyzes his actions and the actions of strangers. Then a proud note appears in the behavior. And such manifestations are a direct path to the development of misandria.

Each person strives to achieve a goal. If it is not possible to achieve it, complete life dissatisfaction sets in. Then the woman begins to think that nothing will happen in her life.

As a result of the onset of depression, the person withdraws into herself and ceases to be interested in the world around her.

Misandry may come due to spiritual emptiness. Then a person begins to suffer from a wrong perception of the world around him. As a result, he stops communicating with people and becomes indifferent to everything that happens.

Such a person lacks all the incentives for further progress in life, and the craving for social interaction is lost.In order not to finally fall into a negative state, she begins to look for a way out. And he finds him in complete solitude.

Do not be surprised that men can also suffer from the above-described manifestation. True, it is found in the stronger sex much less often than in women.

Moreover, misandry in men is expressed in a special way: it manifests itself in increased requirements for the male sex. In addition, the male representative welcomes violence against his own kind and strongly supports the female position. For him, women's experiences are very important. Therefore, such subjects support the feminist movement.

First of all, misandria can cause rivalry, which is based on negative factors. Unhealthy rivalry can manifest itself not only when communicating with their peers, but also in the family circle.

For example: parents all the time praise one child, while the other is constantly scolded and cited as an example of a more successful brother or sister. In this case, misandry can completely capture the immature consciousness of an undeservedly offended child.

If there was a very tough patriarchy in the family, then the boy may develop misandria in the future.

Parental violence can also have a negative effect on the further development of the child's consciousness.

If the boy has experienced harassment from an adult man.

If the mother treated the boy's father with a lot of negativity. She kept saying: men are not capable of anything, and only troubles come from them. As a result, the young man absorbed this information, and over time, in a peculiar way, brought it to life.

If an event occurred in childhood that caused an aversion to secondary sexual characteristics.

If a man has experienced betrayal.

If the subject has an aversion to masculine traits such as dominance, self-confidence, rivalry.

Any manifestation of hostility is very difficult to miss. However, misandry causes not only hostility, but also gender discrimination. This manifestation is punished by the law. However, men still suffer from the above factor. And that's why.

We live in a modern society where men and women are equal. Therefore, men cannot be separated from feminist women in any way.

If a male representative works in an enterprise where his boss is a woman who hates men, then he will be constantly insulted and humiliated. In addition, his career will stand still due to the bias on the part of his superiors.

However, not all women are capable of showing feminist orientation so vividly. There are persons who have in their behavior only some notes of misandry, and this fact does not at all prevent them from being in relationships with men.

For example, there are women who fully coordinate their partner's behavior. Thus, they show distrust of him. In such a relationship, a man looks completely downtrodden and unhappy.

In more severe cases, representatives of the stronger sex may be attacked and beaten by some aggressive women.

There are also less noticeable factors that also indicate that a person suffers from misandria. Let's list them.

Human vices are irritating. For example, the subject may become infuriated by such manifestations as drunkenness, drug addiction, lying, and more. These factors seem extremely catastrophic for him.

A person wants to be alone all the time. The loss of social ties does not allow an individual to develop correctly.

People suffering from misandria value their personal space very much.Therefore, they do not love anyone and do not strive for rapprochement.

There are also manifestations that can be called specific. Some printed materials or individual TV programs may contain notes of misandria.

Misandry is a very bad phenomenon that should not prevent a person from living fully. When this type of destructive mental state goes beyond all reasonable limits, a person needs to start fighting for his future.

Concentrated feminism is misandry. If a person has been exposed to this factor, then his psycho-emotional state will be unstable. Therefore, he will have problems in building relationships.

This means that the subject must begin to take actions that will help him stop hating men. What do you need to do for this? Try to use the advice of psychologists.

A person suffering from a destructive feeling should understand that there is no universal advice for eliminating it. However, he must also acknowledge the problem first. If this is not done, then the subject will feel that nothing bad is happening to him.

He will continue to focus on the belief that he is on the right path. Therefore, you need to look around you, do not get hung up only on your opinion. Often times, people around you can tell you the truth, and you should not turn away from it.

Then you need to start looking for compromises. If the thought arises in your mind that you are doing something wrong, begin to finally make informed decisions. Therefore, before you are going to act, think a hundred times and analyze the result of your actions.

When a person is fixated on a certain problem, he tries to cope with such a difficult condition. Often such a subject acts on a subconscious level, believing that the best option in this case would be anger and solitude.

This is a very wrong approach. The more you are in this state, the more it will tighten you. Go contrary to your consciousness, and no matter what, try to find common ground with the people around you.

If you are a highly intellectual person, and therefore can no longer be in the same environment, find a society that meets your requirements and interests.

Positive recharging from your own kind will give you the opportunity to first relax, and then completely reboot. Rebooting of consciousness is a very important moment on which your whole future life will depend.

After your mind changes, try doing charity work. It doesn't matter in what area you work. It is important that you feel like a very necessary person.

Volunteering is another way to transform yourself. As soon as you do even one auspicious deed, you will feel a surge of new strength. This will give you the opportunity to start thinking in a positive way.

Misandria causes an unnatural condition. It is in no way characteristic of a normal person. So try your best to realize it. Once you admit that you were very wrong in your beliefs, everything will fall into place.