Aries and Virgo: the secrets of a harmonious relationship
Many, before starting any relationship, and even more so, marriage, find out what sign of the zodiac their partner belongs to, whether they are compatible. So, questions often arise about the interaction of the fire sign of Aries and the earthly Virgo. This article will tell you about the secrets of a harmonious relationship between Virgo and Aries.
Characteristic
Let's consider the main characteristics of each sign separately.
Aries
Aries is a fire sign. This includes everyone born between March 21 and April 20. In Latin, Aries sounds like aries and literally means a ram, so the main symbol is the head of a ram, and its governing planet is Mars. Aries are very stubborn, so arguing with such people is useless. The favorite word of the representatives of these signs is "I". They are very impulsive and not subject to their emotions. Therefore, this zodiac sign does first, and then thinks. Aries is a leader by nature, but too self-confident, if an Aries is wrong, you cannot prove him.
It is very easy for Aries to be carried away by a new occupation, and he throws all his strength on him, but as soon as the hobby loses its novelty, the enthusiasm disappears.
It turns out that this zodiac sign always has many projects, but they are not always completed, even if they brought good profit. Aries cannot sit still for a long time, he needs to learn something new all the time in completely different industries.
A certain childlike spontaneity is always inherent in this sign. The Aries man will always be a small child and rejoice in any things, even little things. It doesn't matter to him whether you gave him an ultra-fashionable car or bought a second-hand T-shirt - your attention is important for such men.
As for Aries women, they are almost always female models, they understand all new trends and styles of clothing, how to combine the incongruous. Girls are always dressed brightly and smartly. They give preference to light green, yellow, green colors.
The motto for the life of this sign, as in William Shakespeare's, is “All life is theater”. Based on this, Aries adore flattery and praise, there is no better motivation for them.
Aries have courage and courage, so for them to take the initiative in making any difficult decisions is not a problem. But very often this impulsiveness and thoughtlessness can lead to undesirable consequences. But if Aries loves you, then there will be no limit to his worries, it will not even be the sea, but the whole ocean.
Virgo
As for Virgos, their main characteristic is pedantry. Therefore, if a Virgo takes on something, she will definitely bring the matter to the end, moreover, she will bring it to mind, and will not do it somehow, if only something is ready.
Both positive and negative qualities of Virgos include the love of money: they will hurt themselves, they will sleep 2-3 hours a day, but greed will still prevail. Holders of this sign usually have an expensive car, an apartment in the city center and their own business. But Virgos very often replace love with money, without noticing it themselves, they can buy or sell friends, sexual pleasure, and just an attitude towards themselves.
The element of the Virgo zodiac sign is Earth, which is why she always stands firmly on the earth. Choosing between the actions "I must" and "I want", she will always do what is necessary first, and then, if there is time for entertainment, she will fulfill her desires.
Virgos obey the planet Mercury. This sign includes people born in the period from August 24 to September 23.
Virgos cannot live without rationalism, it is very important for them to put everything on its shelves. Such an order in their actions is necessary for the speedy implementation of what was conceived, this way their working capacity increases, and the daily routine is maintained. Virgo is a true fighter for justice.
A practical and critical mind allows Virgos to do everything on their own, so they will turn any project or business they start in their favor. Virgo's hobbies also cannot be classified as purely technical, humanitarian or creative.
Virgos need to constantly learn and learn something new, they often try themselves in new directions, and it doesn't matter, Is the solution of triple integral equations, climbing mountains, embroidering pictures with beads, playing the guitar or taking part in various quizzes and contests like “What? Where? When? ". They are absolutely interested in everything, they need to try everything. At the same time, Virgo is subject to everything: to master science and technology or to get carried away by writing a new fiction book.
The result will be positive in any case.
The pronounced shortcomings of this sign include excessive criticality of the mind, which does not allow Virgo to surrender completely to her emotions. What can we say about love, because it cannot be rationalized or at least analyzed. And although there are enough applicants to win the heart of this sign, they are still unhappy.
Virgos don't trust their intuition or their inner voice. In life, they rather adhere to a plan than spontaneous decisions or actions. This is why representatives of this zodiac sign rarely express their feelings and show affection. A marriage of convenience will be closer for them than for love, they will give preference to material well-being and career prospects. One of the mottos of the Virgins sounds like this: "Put me on the shelves, why we were made for each other."
As for money, Virgo cannot independently dispose of it, can spend everything right now, and even if there is a bright thought to put it aside, it does not last long. There is no rational link in these actions of the Virgo.
Famous people such as Sophia Loren, Greta Garbo, Leo Tolstoy and Henry Ford were born under this zodiac sign.
Pros and cons of the union
The tandem of Virgo and Aries can be described in four words - I found a scythe on a stone, but nevertheless it is not hopeless, it even has its own strengths. Although these signs have completely different characters and temperaments, everyone remembers from the school physics course that plus and minus are attracted. Therefore, the union of these zodiac signs is quite real, but they will have to work a little on their relationship.
Aries will motivate Virgo to carry out various rash acts.for example, to jump with a parachute, go to the mountains for a week without a tent, try puffer fish. And Virgo, in turn, will help Aries succeed and conquer all career peaks, not just mountains.
In such a tandem, Virgo will always be a pragmatist and analyst, but Aries will slightly adjust plans, adding zest to them. For such a relationship, you can paraphrase a well-known saying and say that Virgo is the head and Aries is the neck.
And:
- Aries will outline a list of profitable projects, Virgo will write an effective business plan for their implementation;
- Aries will come up with interesting locations to visit on vacation, and Virgo will plot a route and find out how to do it;
- Aries will figure out where to get the money for the trip, and Virgo knows how to get it and how to spend it more profitably.
Strictly speaking, if we apply military terminology, we can say that Aries acts as a strategist, and Virgo acts as a tactician.
How compatible?
To understand how Aries and Virgo are suitable for each other, it is necessary to consider two options for a tandem: Aries guy - Virgo girl and Virgo guy - Aries girl. After all, the compatibility of these signs of the zodiac also depends on the gender of their owners.
In friendship
Friendship between an Aries guy and a Virgo girl is quite acceptable, but only under several conditions, for example, if they are fond of the same business, have known each other for a very long time, or are simply relatives of each other (cousin and sister).
But at the same time, a strong friendship between them still will not arise - the maximum that can be counted on is friendly relations. But the guy and the girl will treat each other with a sense of respect.
The paradox of this combination is that their relationship grows stronger if these signs do not intersect for a long time. That is, this is friendship that they do not shout about, they do not need to call each other every day, it is enough for Aries and Virgo to know that they have each other, and that at a difficult moment each opponent of this union will come to the rescue, if necessary.
If we consider the tandem of the Virgo man and the Aries woman, then, at first glance, there is no similarity between them. Nevertheless, sweet communication, which does not imply any obligations, is possible between them. Of course, this cannot be called friendship, but also spoiled relations.
In this case, the Virgo man will be inclined to give all sorts of advice and instructions to the Virgo, perhaps even very intrusively, but the girl will be absolutely indifferent, because she herself knows what is better for her without any advice.
Such easy communication between Aries and Virgo usually does not lead to anything - the maximum that will come of it is to meet once every 2-3 months for a cup of coffee in a cafe and share some not very important news about the weather or politics. In most cases, they do not share something secret or important, as they say, conduct small talk, nothing more.
In a love relationship
As for the love feelings between an Aries man and a Virgo woman, the spark ignites either immediately or never. Despite all possible conflicts, passion will be a constant neighbor in love. A man will want to show his feelings everywhere, regardless of time and place. Aries will kiss and hug in transport, cinema, supermarket, theater.At first, a woman will be a little embarrassed by this, because her pragmatic brain and tact are not used to such a manifestation of feelings, but over time she will still succumb to the love charms of her chosen one.
In love, a man will show some kind of jealousy, but if the relationship becomes stable and permanent, Virgo will put him on the right path. After all, if a woman of this sign is truly in love, then she will let all her fans know that her heart is occupied by another, because Virgo is faithful to her choice until her last breath. But if Aries shows stubbornness in this matter, then there will be little time left before parting.
It will be difficult to identify a leader in such a relationship. Aries will make concessions to a woman in almost all matters, but if only the problem becomes a matter of principle for him, then he will take the reins for himself.
In tandem Aries man - Virgo woman, interest in each other and the ability to talk are very important. In order not to lose the relationship, they should go to the theater or cinema together, get carried away with one thing, so that the topics of conversation do not end.
Partners complement each other perfectly in bed. Their sex life can only be envied. In bed, the Virgo is greatly transformed, this woman, if she is with her beloved man, nothing can stop, all her energy will be spent on carnal pleasures. She is not afraid of experiments with dressing up, or role-playing games. Virgo forgets about her daily life, becomes more relaxed and simply exhausts her chosen one, thereby revealing all her hidden potential.
The Aries man, of course, always remains satisfied, because Virgo will not let him go without exhausting him to the end. After such relaxation, a man has energy for all his important affairs. Although a man in bed is very gentle and sensual, he will never leave the battlefield without bringing his woman to complete pleasure. But girls should remember that if the Aries man is somewhat tired, then let him rest - being unloaded and rested, he will be able to show you what a real thrill is.
The love tandem of the Virgo man and the Aries girl is almost impossible. After all, these signs are stubborn and do not like to make concessions.
Aries girl, as a rule, is charismatic and cannot live without flirting, and the Virgo man is still that jealous and does not tolerate such an attitude. Therefore, such a union is possible only if the chosen ones learn to control their hot temperament and feelings, and such an opportunity tends, unfortunately, to zero.
Only hot and passionate sex with torn clothes, the use of various devices, for example, bandage belts or a gag, will save such a couple from parting. And also the Aries girl and the Virgo man are not alien to sexual affection in extreme places: in the library, in the park, behind the curtains in the fitting room. After all, this only adds to the thrill of sensations. To summarize, such a relationship can last a long time only at the expense of carnal pleasures.
In family life
The possibility of creating a marriage bond in the relationship between an Aries man and a Virgo woman will directly depend only on him. Aries wants everything at once, that is, with an offer of a hand and heart, he will not pull. But the pragmatic Virgo needs to think over everything, weigh the pros and cons. Until a woman is convinced of the reliability of a man, she will never agree to marriage, and only on the condition that Aries gives in and shows patience, their wedding will still take place.
So, having overcome all adversity and adversity, a strong and reliable relationship is formed between the Aries man and the Virgo woman as a result. Virgo usually adheres to traditional views on marriage: the husband will always be fed, washed and well-groomed. Thanks to her perfectionism, a woman will create a cozy home from literally nothing: plant flowers, make cocoa with cinnamon, and turn on a family movie. The Virgo wife understands that her husband came home from work tired, so she gives him time to rest and relaxation.
An Aries man in such a tandem will also be a good and caring husband. An attentive Aries will always see when Virgo gets tired of everyday routine, so he will regularly pamper her with all sorts of little things: buying her favorite sweets or flowers, a gift in the form of a new dress, or just a walk in a cafe or watching a new performance at the theater.
As for children, they will only strengthen the marriage, and if you are in doubt about whether to have a child, then be sure that the Virgo woman, that the Aries man will completely give himself up to his offspring, because this is the most important thing that can only be in their lives.
In the union between a Virgo man and an Aries girl, marriage is not even visible on the horizon.
In such a tandem, both opponents strive to show all their shortcomings, that is, they do not even strive to save their marriage bonds during the devastation. Such a tandem can only be saved if only the husband and wife listen to friends or parents. If there is no outside support, then such a relationship is doomed.
Options "keep silent" that Aries, that Virgo in such a tandem is absent, and a quarrel can arise literally out of the blue from any trifle, even if these are garbage bags of the wrong color or someone wiped the dust with the wrong rag. The Aries wife is not prone to order and pedantry, moreover, scandals are her hobby. The husband, in principle, will not do this, because according to his concepts, the place of a woman is in the kitchen.
But if a child appears in such a family, then the priorities of both signs of the zodiac change. They devote all their strength to education and self-development in order to be a real example for their child.
In work
If we talk about compatibility in work between Aries and Virgo, then this is possible only if Aries is the leader. As already mentioned, Virgo is a good tactician and Aries is a strategist. Virgo will understand any difficulties and details, consider the task to the smallest detail. Aries does not need this, only the result is important to him, and not its stage-by-stage implementation.
The Aries leader will be a kind of brainstorming team, a generator of ideas. And Virgo does not need a detailed plan, she only needs the topic of the assignment, how to cope with it, she knows as soon as she heard it or read it.
If it is the other way around, Virgo is the leader, and Aries is the subordinate, then conflicts in work are simply inevitable due to a banal misunderstanding of tasks. After all, the Virgo boss will certainly lead the whole process, and give out the task not entirely, but in separate stages. As a result, Aries employees will simply not understand why they are doing this, what it will lead to, and what the result should be.
Possible Reasons for Disagreement
Despite the possible compatibility between Aries and Virgo, as well as their good and strong relationship (if any), as in any other relationship, conflicts cannot be avoided.
First of all, in such a pair, conflicts arise due to the stubborn nature of Aries., because Virgo always has her own opinion, and if the situation is fundamental for her, then a scandal cannot be avoided.
Aries' egocentrism is practically useless, and if he really does not love Virgo, then the earthly sign of the zodiac will never achieve self-respect, but will only suffer from emotional dependence. As soon as Virgo comes to terms with such an attitude towards herself and floats with the flow, from that moment the relationship is doomed to collapse, Aries will become uninteresting, and he will start looking for a new project for himself.
Virgo, regardless of gender, is the keeper of the hearth, while Aries, on the contrary, needs a constant holiday and an explosion of emotions. Routine, household chores are not interesting to him, and Virgo sometimes feels like a driven horse. If Aries sometimes helps with household chores, and Virgo sometimes rests, then conflicts and disagreements can be avoided.
Disagreements can arise over money and possible spending. If Aries is ready to pay a large sum for a hang-glider flight, then Virgo is better to buy a new frying pan and plates.
But all disagreements can be avoided by making concessions to each other. After all, it is difficult to build a relationship, but it is easy to destroy. Remember that a zodiac sign is just a zodiac sign, and you should not make your whole life dependent on what date you were born, and it does not matter at all where the sun was at that moment. Remember, you yourself are the master of your life, and the stars will not be able to prevent you from building it the way you want.
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