Aries and Gemini: is a union possible?
The duet of Gemini and Aries is a holiday for everyone. The stars claim that it is difficult to find hotter love, stronger friendship, and more successful cooperation. This article will analyze in detail all types of relationships between these signs, their pros and cons, development options and possible mistakes.
Characteristic
The Aries woman is a mystery woman. The first impression about her is always deceptive: at first she seems cold and unapproachable, refers to the opposite sex with a grain of mistrust and even arrogant. But once you get to know her a little closer, your opinion changes dramatically.
Aries have a crazy temperament, they are hot and unexpected in any form.
True, not everyone can cope with such powerful energy., so most applicants for her heart will be eliminated at the initial stage of courtship. Keeping up with the flight of her thoughts and maintaining this frantic pace constantly is another task. In addition, few Aries will bother with smoothing out sharp corners, so an unprepared partner can be shocked and offended by a biting, albeit truthful, remark.
This lady cannot be called frivolous, although she adores love adventures. Risky, jealous, chaotic, she expects constant emotional support from her chosen one in the form of an intriguing game. The best gift for her is compliments and sweet speeches, after hearing which, she will once again be convinced of her irresistibility. Aries needs constant confirmation of their own superiority. If jealousy suddenly leaped up in her, then it was not an excessive attention to another woman, but a lack of attention for her.
At first, she willingly demonstrates her wildness and at the same time inaccessibility, but she does not at all strive to be in the main house. She definitely does not need a man who will catch every word and look upwards.
The ideal companion is someone who can:
- prove your ability to keep any situation under control;
- will always have a reserve of energy for a new adventure;
- do not impose your opinion on her;
- constantly feed her ego with compliments.
The Aries man can be called the king of parting. Firstly, he does it beautifully and as respectfully as possible in relation to his passion. Secondly, he always tries to do it first, so as not to be "abandoned" in any case.
For all former girls, Aries manages to remain a good friend, with whom you remember your relationship with nostalgia.
If during a relationship this guy gives the girl all his tenderness, then at the initial stage he shows rigidity and pressure. He is not one of those who will admire the subject of passion and collect every look - only action and an early victory! Natural charm and great imagination allow you to quickly achieve the goal.
Just like the fair sex, the Aries man is very susceptible to flattery. Lack of admiration drives him into depression, which only unlimited patience and the extraordinary talent of a home psychologist will help to get out of. From his fighting girlfriend, he expects not partner, but truly family support. Despite leadership inclinations, sometimes Aries needs to turn from an almighty master into an insecure gullible child.
He will pay attention to a girl who:
- will be able to guide him, but will not press;
- knows how to listen and is attentive to the man's reflections;
- distinguished by elegance, modesty and restraint;
- does not give him a reason to be jealous, but attracts other men.
The Gemini woman belongs to the breed of people whom everyone loves and always waits for. And at a family celebration, and in the company of friends, and even at a business meeting, the attention of those present is involuntarily riveted to her. She does not make efforts for this, it is enough just to be herself - charming, attentive and sensitive. However, not many are given to cognize the full depth of the twin personality: it does not open the soul to everyone.
Gemini are kind and sympathetic people, but in difficult life situations they rely on common senserather than following an emotional urge. If the chosen one in a relationship has allowed the unacceptable, even a Gemini woman who is madly in love will not give a second chance. Attempts to force her to stay nearby at any cost are also doomed, since she will never prefer a golden cage to free floating.
The changeable nature makes the representative of this sign constantly seek, improve, and redo. This also applies to love: if a boyfriend has forgotten how to surprise and wants to be pacified, it is easier for her to find a new partner. Perhaps this contradicts the idea of creating long-term harmonious relationships, but for her, harmony is novelty and the absence of stagnation. Jealous people, owners and lovers of scandal have no access to the bright world of Gemini.
This girl will be conquered by a man:
- extraordinary, with an interesting inner world;
- easy-going, sociable, with a wide circle of acquaintances;
- strong, but not overbearing;
- able to surprise and capable of surprises.
Of all the signs of the zodiac, the Gemini man stands out for his paradox and complexity.
It is not so difficult to draw his attention to yourself, but keeping him is a task with an asterisk. Girlfriends change, as if in a kaleidoscope, and they are all completely different, both externally and internally.
A girl who did not plan to strike up an affair with him herself will not understand how she ended up in a hot embrace. The conquest of an impregnable rock is Gemini's favorite hobby, so he will use his eloquence, creative inclinations, and the ability to captivate with a joke.And this behavior is the only thing you can be sure of. Further actions sometimes represent a secret for himself. He does not like to give guarantees and swear in love - momentary pleasure is enough for him.
Over time, every woman turns into a set of disadvantages for Gemini. He is one of those who are not looking for their ideal, but simply - the ideal, and if the previous passion upset him with its excessive activity, then the current one can easily get a resignation due to what seems to be a quiet mouse.
Although these guys love to impress, the character of a girl is much more important to them than a chiseled waist or plump lips. A wayward, impudent, uncontrollable kid-girl is their dream. They will not be able to calculate this, it will not get bored and will not drive into anguish with the desire to get married as soon as possible.
Gemini will put a girl on the pedestal who:
- gives him freedom and does not pay attention to flirting;
- knows how to forgive and does it once and for all, and does not remember "past merits";
- the first to extinguish conflicts, even if he is to blame;
- constantly changing.
So, the general characteristics of the signs have been obtained, it's time to move on to the main thing - their compatibility.
Pros and cons of the union
Relationships between Aries and Gemini, regardless of their nature - business, friendship, love - are almost always successful, since each can give a lot to the other. The Gemini, who needs constant energy supply, more than gets it from the powerful Aries. Gemini become more confident in their abilities, a desire awakens in them to bring the matter to the end (which was not observed before), to create and create.
Aries, possessing a strong character and knowing how to keep control over relationships, easily cope with the inconstancy of their chosen ones. At the same time, they themselves often eluded their annoying companions, and it is impossible to get bored with Gemini. It may seem strange, but it is the combination of Aries' uncompromising nature and Gemini's duality that makes their union so strong.
This couple knows how to intrigue each other, which for everyone is an important point in an interesting life.
Life is boring and monotonous without problems, but how can these two afford to mope? For example, if a trivial argument arises, the battles can be serious. The stubborn Aries will not want to put up with even the most reasonable objections, and the talkative Gemini hates when his arguments are canceled in advance. They will have to learn to yield and find a middle ground, and this is for them - to surrender without a fight. However, the winner is the one who is the first to hang the white flag, and the reward will receive a softened and happy partner.
Another distinguishing feature of their communication is a lot of mutual grudges because of nonsense. However, they are momentary: although Aries are still proud, and Gemini remember every unpleasant word for years, they simply cannot be angry with each other for a long time.
How compatible?
One could safely say that Gemini and Aries are almost one hundred percent compatible, but not everything is so simple. Much depends on how the roles are distributed: the romance of the Aries woman and the Gemini man can develop according to the same scenario, and if they are changed with "zodiacal roles", it is completely different. In addition, the nature of the relationship is important, because a working partnership between signs may not be as ideal as, for example, sex games.
In friendship
You can shoot a series about the friendship of Aries and Gemini: this is the very relationship that often originates in childhood or adolescence and lasts for many years. People are easy and comfortable with each other, they can trust secrets and are not afraid to be misunderstood. The only thing that sometimes darkens the idyll is financial affairs. Gemini often forget to pay back debts and, in general, relate to money incomparably easier than calculating Aries.So the latter can read boring lectures about the dangers of squandering, and if the question turns out to be of principle, he will say goodbye altogether.
It is somewhat more difficult for mature people of these signs to find a common language. Not connected by shared memories and lived stories, Aries and Gemini may face mutual misunderstandings. When there is no solid foundation in the form of a romantic attachment, a past or an interesting project, two people find out: their views on the world are radically different, although the characters are very similar. However, even in this case, they can get closer - you just have to find the same hobby or plan an incredible trip.
Friendship between women of these signs is an inexhaustible energy fountain.
Such girlfriends never suffer from depression, their meetings are held not over a cup of coffee and talking about anything, but somewhere on the climbing wall to conquer new peaks. And only then, having dispersed, you can chat about something very personal. Male friends Aries and Gemini are also considered the coolest guys among friends, but their communication can break about the spirit of rivalry.
Friendship between a man and a woman of these signs often ends in a dizzying romance. And both later regret it - too much has to be changed. Why do this if it was so good? Some manage to combine good friendship and passionate sex without translating the relationship into a romantic plane. The rest make attempts to become a couple, but rather quickly become disappointed and lose not only a potential groom or bride, but also an excellent friend.
In love
The general trend is this: for many, this couple will become an example to follow, and some will cause envious glances. Without exaggeration, they can be called a model of harmony and mutual understanding. Gemini and Aries do not create the appearance of a perfect relationship, but just have a great time. They have been able to maintain their childishness and surprise each other for many years.
In the love relationship of an Aries man and a Gemini woman, a hidden matriarchy reigns. Aries' desire to single-handedly seize power is shattered by twin cunning and intellectual dexterity. The girl in this pair does not strive for total control - she just wants attention and respect for her own opinion.
At the very beginning, Aries himself does not understand how he loses his head, and the airy, frivolous Gemini is not going to conquer anyone at all - they just habitually charm, and then make the man go crazy with obscurity. There are men who will be repulsed by such behavior, but not this one, because he adores the process of love hunting. Letting go of such a woman means admitting defeat, and Aries will never allow this. Gemini, on the other hand, will never make it clear that they have completely surrendered.
Plus, Gemini can easily relieve the emotional stress of an Aries prone to deep inner feelings. Both signs are not afraid of problems and boldly face reality.
None of them would like to see a crybaby next to her, who fearfully sits in a corner and does not want to take risks.
The guy in these relationships begins to actively show his best masculine features: he takes care of his beloved, envelops her with warmth and tenderness, is always ready to help if difficulties arise. The Gemini girl finally gets the long-awaited support and support, gets inspired and becomes less fussy. At the same time, she does not lose her femininity and childish view of the world, which Aries likes so much.
As for the Gemini men, they can convince themselves of the opposite as much as they want, but they see only a strong-willed lady next to them. Aries fits the classic description of a "strong woman": cold-blooded and temperamental at the same time, cocky and sexy, able to direct and control.
The stars claim that the first meeting will certainly end with a date.if Aries has the opportunity to show their activity, talents and professionalism. The ideal meeting conditions are work, university, or even a dance studio, where Aries will show itself in all its glory. Gemini is attracted by determination and brightness, so they will not be able to resist. If for the first time they see each other at a party or in a circle of friends, then, rather, everyone's attention will be riveted on the Gemini man. The Aries girl will not pull the blanket over herself, but she will be able to attract his gaze with elegance and sharp jokes.
In this pair, harmony consists of the charm of shortcomings: other men would run away from a woman with such a difficult character, and Gemini feels not only comfortable - he becomes confident, whole, courageous. It is unlikely that some lady will be delighted when her boyfriend flirts with others and does not allow his heart to calm down, and this only provokes Aries, not letting the feelings cool down.
If we take as a basis the postulate of two lovers, one of whom loves, and the other allows, then Aries will allow. And there is a huge plus in this: a careless playful Gemini will get acquainted with a new sensation for himself - the fear of loss. A woman in this relationship will have a more serious attitude in advance, and a man, keeping his boyishness, will turn from a frivolous rake into a knight madly in love.
Married
Long-term prospects from a pair of male Gemini and female Aries can be expected, but this expectation will be agonizing. Passion is replaced by irritation, and there are plenty of reasons for it. Gemini do not want to hide under a woman's skirt, although Aries is just trying to show that she can be relied on. The girl, in turn, expresses displeasure about the constant flirting with others.
Unfortunately, before both can turn the disadvantages in their favor, the couple can part a hundred times.
Their relationship is often based only on physical attraction. With no one else they can feel such sexual freedom and such a degree of passion. Both Aries, who adore the role of the "woman on top", and Gemini, for whom any experiments become a pleasant bonus, also get pleasure. True, out of bed they will face much more disagreement, and this is already a serious reason for irritation and worries.
If this couple becomes married, it is solely on the initiative of Aries. The woman of this sign often becomes the steering person in a relationship, and with Gemini, this behavior is the only possible option. Fortunately, this is not the case when a girl thinks that the guy after the wedding will change dramatically. She is ready to fight for her happiness, but in her own ways - pressure and toughness. And it would be necessary to show patience and equanimity, which a man cannot but appreciate.
It is the desire to completely subordinate a partner to your desires and ideas about an ideal world that can destroy this family. Aries will have to show wisdom and calmness, and Gemini, even being led, should not forget about their masculine nature. No matter how strong, bright, courageous their companion is, she is a woman, and in dreams she does not solve world problems, but presents herself as a beautiful princess imprisoned in a tower. If you show a little tact and forget about your ego, you will be able to rescue her. And then it will become clear: you cannot wish for a more quivering and affectionate chosen one.
Another reason why a beautiful couple can break up is very commonplace - cheating. Gemini, of course, play the role of cunning deceivers. Despite the cold mind, Aries can easily succumb to the classic, but dexterous persuasion, and trust their lover. However, no matter how elegant lace Gemini weaves from lies, one day he will be exposed. Given the explosive nature of Aries, expecting mercy is the height of naivety.
If the period of mutual grinding ends not with divorce proceedings, but with a new honeymoon, then the life of this couple will be happy.They will not get bored with discussing urgent matters and the agenda, difficulties will be overcome simply and cheerfully, and sensual sex will keep the flame of the family hearth from going out.
In the family life of an Aries man and a Gemini woman, everything, like a commercial, is a heavenly delight!
He and she already get pleasure from the fact that they have each other, and I can feel the joy of communication at a particular second. Marriage becomes a natural continuation of a happy romance, which is based not only on sexual affection, but also on mutual self-interest.
The compatibility of these signs is almost one hundred percent - mainly due to the distribution of functions. A sociable and easy-going girl feels behind a courageous and temperamental guy like a powerful rock. Who can guess that she is very clever in advising and carefully guiding this intolerant man?
Aries himself is sure that they willingly obey him, and only he makes decisions. Often he lacks the breadth of thinking to understand the situation, and at this moment their other half comes to the rescue, having the ability to calculate ten options at the same time. The risky Gemini also does not neglect the recommendations of the chosen one. She understands: there is no stronger rear and a sounder adviser. Not thinking about her own safety before, she finally begins to understand the meaning of this word thanks to Aries.
Disagreements between them, if they happen, are due to a reluctance to learn each other's language. And Gemini speaks with Aries, like a Portuguese with an Icelander - there are not so many chances of correct understanding. A man speaks from a position of strength and righteousness, and sometimes he does not communicate his plans at all - he just does. The pampered and talkative Gemini is discouraged by this approach: they are used to discussing, analyzing, thinking aloud. If a man wants to see a happy and - for him it is important - a compliant wife next to him, then it is worthwhile to reduce the pressure and learn to explain first, and then do it.
Gemini has an equally difficult job - learning to express their emotions directly and without colorful metaphors. They enjoy the discussion process more than anything else, but it is important to temporarily forget about their hobbies and work for the good of the marriage. Sometimes you will have to play an emotional performance - Aries understands even if righteous, but anger, any manifestation of open feelings will give him more food for thought than meaningful silence.
This union is cozy and understandable, although both least of all want to stand still. The thirst to learn and have fun does not let the feelings cool down, because the most interesting thing in this pair is the inner worlds.
Studying them together, everyone will change only for the better: the restless Gemini will receive lessons in pragmatism and become more firmly entrenched in reality, and the formidable Aries will become not a boy, but a husband, slightly tempering his wild temper.
In work
A workflow that involves Aries and Gemini will always yield outstanding results. This is creativity multiplied by pragmatism. Together, they represent that penetrating force that cannot be resisted. Gemini is a source of ideas and designs close to genius, Aries is a great strategist with an extraordinary mind, so their tandem can be considered impeccable.
They will bring significant benefits to the cause if none of the outsiders interferes in their common project. Few will be able to meet the criteria they are used to and maintain the same frantic pace of work. In negotiations and business meetings, this couple is the real Mr. and Mrs. Smith: the cunning and ability to play with Gemini's words is perfectly complemented by the determination and toughness of Aries.
In the professional relationship of these signs, as in love, there are nuances.
It's worth starting with the classics, when a man is the boss:
- If it turned out to be Aries, then the employees know firsthand what a “boss in anger” is.However, the Gemini woman is very cleverly able to smooth corners and show flexibility in time, therefore, the leadership rarely comes under the hot hand. Aries will appreciate the employee's quick wit and her ability to find unusual solutions in difficult work situations.
- If the chief is Gemini, and the Aries woman is subordinate to him, then this is a little worse. Gemini is used to working in multitasking mode, and this can confuse the subordinate, who takes on one thing and brings it to the end. In addition, she may seem slow to him, because the boss himself acts with lightning speed. Avoiding conflict and making cooperation productive is possible if the leader gives Aries the freedom to work in a way that suits her.
The situation changes if a woman becomes a chef:
- The Aries girl controls much better than obeys, and chauvinism is alien to the Gemini man, so the duet can work out successfully. The Gemini will easily become a gray eminence, sagaciously noting possible miscalculations. If the female boss sees the picture in volume and scale, then the male subordinate is responsible for tactics, offering an alternative in case of an unexpected development of events. They perceive each new step with equal pride, but Aries - as the achievement of the goal, and Gemini - as the final of the next exciting stage.
- Gemini women do not particularly strive for leadership positions, but if the work fascinates and excites them, then career growth is a natural background against which more interesting events unfold. She will not be able not to notice an Aries employee, because he always takes the initiative, keeps his word, defends his opinion and is not afraid of difficult tasks.
Aries himself, despite the wounded male ego, respects the boss for his fanatical attitude and knowledge of all the subtleties.
But colleagues from Aries and Gemini turn out to be excellent, regardless of gender. Aries sometimes does not listen to Gemini, because he is initially sure that he is right. Over time, the arrogance will diminish, and the clever Gemini will be able to convey his ideas to the leaders, who always have Aries in good standing.
This couple creates a festive atmosphere in the office. They look like two tomboys who decided to escape from school, but are still waiting for something. They do not need to find a common language - the topics for discussion are found on their own, and each can finish the phrase of the other. At first, the bosses may not be delighted with the noisy duet, but there is nothing to cling to - either alone or together, they do an excellent job with any task.
Possible Reasons for Disagreement
As already noted, the friendship between Gemini and Aries can break down on trivial things like money. The saying about friends whom you lose if you lend fully works with them. In general, this can be said about other issues related to material values. If, for example, Aries leases out an apartment to the Gemini, then in a couple of months, they will most likely terminate the contract - he will be angry both with carelessness with other people's property and frivolity regarding timely payment.
Gemini can also be let down by their virtuoso ability to show off. No, at first it will even please the enchanted Aries, but over time the blinders will subside, and his disappointment will be stronger than the desire to continue the relationship. However, Aries needs to restrain appetites and come to terms with the truth - there are no ideal people. Despite all the shortcomings, it is Gemini who can give the partner the missing airiness and reveal the whole world to him. Aries themselves are far from a gift: outbursts of rage, the ability to flare up over a trifle, and sometimes rudeness and unacceptable harshness. With their words, they often hurt others, not noticing other people's grievances and focusing on their own feelings.
It is necessary to exterminate the evil child in oneself, unless, of course, there is no point in the plans “to spend life alone”.
And despite all the differences, this pair has a very good chance.The main thing is to be sincere, to be able to hear and not to be afraid to trust.
Astrotypologist Dmitry Shimko will tell about the compatibility of Aries and Gemini in the next video.