Aries and Scorpio: what is needed for a harmonious union?
Every year, millions of people are born on our planet with various character traits and behaviors. However, people born in the same period are often united by similar actions and motives of behavior. This will happen due to the fact that at the moment of birth of people on a specific day and time, the heavenly bodies are aligned in a certain way in relation to the Sun. The Egyptians, who created the first horoscopes, believed that the influence of the luminaries on the fate of people is the fundamental factor that determines their difference. Each of the signs corresponds to a certain segment of the calendar and the influence of one or more planets. Knowing the principle of this influence, one can assume in advance what can result from the communication and interaction of two people, for example, one of whom was born under the sign of Aries, and the other under the sign of Scorpio.
Characteristic
Before deciding whether the compatibility of these two signs of the zodiac is, it is worthwhile to dwell on each of them in more detail.
Aries are also called "children of the zodiac" - this is the first sign influenced by the fiery Mars. Outwardly, such people look very friendly, which is confirmed by their inner feeling.
They are energetic and open-minded, understand absolutely nothing about intrigues and hints. This fire sign is always ready to defend the truth and fight against oppression and injustice.
Even so, they often make those around them feel uncomfortable because they sincerely consider themselves the most important person in the room. Aries, like a small child, always thinks of himself first of all and is not ready to give in. Nevertheless, their surprising sincerity often softens the beginning conflicts.Stubborn and stubborn, they never plan ahead, preferring to achieve everything with a furious swoop. As a rule, their careers are quite successful, but unstable. Almost a third of Aries have problems with excess weight or alcohol addiction, as they do not have the willpower to deny themselves pleasure.
Aries man is a person who looks younger than his age and has boyish habits to the very gray hair. He prefers a casual or sporty style of clothing, is not fashion-savvy and does not seek to impress others. He absolutely does not tolerate attempts to limit his freedom or subjugate him to someone else's will, he becomes aggressive and loses his self-control. He is full of aspirations and plans, he loves to build castles in the air, but, unlike the same Aquarius, he is ready to immediately move from thought to action. Such men are quite loyal to strangers, love to travel and arrange surprises. Routine makes them depressed and can cause many diseases. An assertive extrovert, he always strives to get all the power into his own hands. The Aries man is a real macho man, a wonderful lover and an excellent leader.
Aries woman is always confident in her appearance and knows perfectly well what makes an impression on the opposite sex. Preferring her own comfort, I am sure that she looks stunning even in a tracksuit, which can make her look slightly eccentric. Such a woman is truly smart, assertive and very vain. She always tries to rely only on herself and does not like to talk about her problems, however, she also prefers to be silent about other people's problems, since she does not like other people's tears. Aries women make excellent leaders, athletes and activists. They are wonderful lovers, loving and able to bring novelty and experimentation into the partner's sex life. The fiery maiden simply does not notice weak men, preferring strong-willed men, but enters into a constant struggle with them, trying to show her authority.
Those born under the water sign of Scorpio are patronized by two planets at once: Mars and Pluto, mixing in their character an explosive cocktail of aggression and eroticism. Like Aries, they are smart and emotional, but prefer not to show it to others. Looking at the very essence of things, they are wonderful intriguers, but they often inflate their own feelings about a far-fetched reason.
The water sign perfectly withstands various trials and hardships, both physical and emotional.
Like Aries, they value sincerity and openness, but they themselves prefer to remain silent and keep their opinions to themselves. Scorpios are wonderful relatives and friends. They care about loved ones and are ready to make big concessions. But do not become their enemy - revenge can be nurtured for years and served in the form of a very cold dish. Very practical in dealing with finances and having an extraordinary mind and talent, they often find success in their careers or creativity, but often leave unresolved problems in their path, which can lead to collapse.
The Scorpio man prefers dark clothes, a confident look and a certain aura of secrecy around him, which attracts all the women around him, regardless of age. He is used to living only by his own rules, unshakable in decisions made, brave and straightforward. His behavior is calm, few changes can unsettle him.
Scorpio loves the emotional intensity around him, although he never admits this partner. He is a sensual lover, but a great jealous and possessive. Despite the difficult character, a Scorpio man in love will lay the whole universe at the feet of his beloved woman and is always ready to negotiate and consult with her.
Scorpio woman attracts the attention of not only the surrounding men, but also women.Confident in her natural magnetism, she acts as a fatal beauty who can break the hearts of all men and draw them into her spaced networks. For all her feminine charm, she has a masculine mindset and a complex character. No one will ever be able to hear complaints about fate from a Scorpio woman, except perhaps the only beloved. She easily builds her career, walking over the heads, and is not afraid of difficulties. The inner desire to rule people will unfold in a leadership position not in tyranny, but in wise leadership. In sex, he loves variety, but prefers that the partner be responsible for this, and in the absence of a spark and a spark, he can calmly break even a long-term union.
In general, Aries and Scorpio have a lot in common in their behavior, but the motives of their actions are radically different. Their union is considered strong enough, but they rarely seek to link their fate with each other, preferring easy romances.
Pros and cons of the union
Ideal people do not exist, everyone has their pros and cons, respectively, and there are positive and negative experiences in a relationship between two people. In the alliance of Scorpio with Aries, their similarity will help them.
Both signs have similar outlooks on life and can make joint plans for the future. An Aries woman will not want to sacrifice her career for the sake of her family, and a Scorpio man will not be satisfied with a housewife's wife.
The Aries man can inspire his half for extreme sports or long-distance travel, and the Scorpio woman loves unexpected surprises and novelty around her.
Scorpio, aimed at material benefits, will be impressed by the desire of Aries to achieve success in all fields in which he can do it.
Aries in such a union is an active and indefatigable "cheerleader" who will draw the couple into an adventure. Scorpio's cold calculation will not only save the impulsive partner from danger, but also help to understand the consequences of an emotional typhoon. Scorpio is a tactician and Aries is a performer.
Partners themselves are bright personalities with whom it will not be boring. Together, they represent such a vivid union that everyone around them unmistakably determines in them people destined for each other. They are ready to share with each other hobbies, familiar and hidden desires.
Aries' wonderful, albeit a bit rude sense of humor is perfectly set off by the gloomy irony of the Scorpions. Both signs know how to be ironic both over themselves and over others.
Sex is the cornerstone of such an alliance. Temperamental Aries and no less temperamental Scorpios love a lot, often and in a variety of ways. Sometimes, not seeing the possibility of developing long-term relationships, such couples remain close lovers for many years.
Despite the fact that the union of fire and water marks is considered one of the strongest, as in any other, it has its own stumbling blocks.
Both signs are big jealous, accustomed at the same time to attention from the opposite sex. Water will bring a partner with its checks, and try to catch it on a lie, and Fire will create violent scandals, exploding again. Open to new communication and loving to be in large companies, both signs will give reason for jealousy to their partner, no matter how they try to avoid it. Without admiration and attention to their person, both signs of the zodiac will fall into despondency and depression.
Both Aries and Scorpio strive to act as a leader in a relationship, pushing their terms, some with brute force, and some with subtle manipulation. This issue can be especially acute in a pair of Aries woman and Scorpio man.
The first is used to achieving her goal and considers victory, especially over a man, to be her achievement. The partner, in turn, expects from the partner in love with him a certain obedience to his authority, which he considers indisputable.If a couple wants to maintain a long relationship, both of them will have to learn to come to compromises, the good, intelligence and sincerity, which are the main features of both signs, will allow them to do this.
Any, even the smallest, conflicts that arise in the alliance of Scorpions with Aries can lead to serious consequences. Quite often, an outbreak of a quarrel in such a family can lead to assault and damage to property. Moreover, everyone around, attracted by the loud angry cries of both partners, will learn about it. Nevertheless, couples are in no hurry to part in the heat of such quarrels and end their reconciliation invariably in bed.
How compatible?
It is impossible to predict with absolute certainty how this or that relationship of these two signs of the zodiac will develop. However, there are general ideas within which one can assume how the relationship between a guy and a girl will develop. Whether they will become the perfect couple or will be limited to a short acquaintance depends on which of them is ready to give in to the other. The easiest way to attract a man is by recognizing him as the permanent leader. They are sensitive to sincere praise and love easy, joyful relationships. They love active, but not dominant women.
Aries woman will be conquered by a strong, enterprising man, who allows her to "steer" in at least half of all situations. She can easily be caught in excitement and enthusiasm, sharing her hobby with her and allowing herself to be conquered. The Scorpio man most of all loves novelty and mystery, so you should not behave too openly with him. His companion should be smart and bright, while sincerely considering her partner at least a little bit better than herself. Other scorpions may even annoy the Aries woman with their arrogance and selfishness, but in a partner she will not notice this. Women of the element of Water are calculating and calm, therefore, at the initial stages, they will perfectly appreciate the mind and position in society, the prosperity of the suitor. She is looking for a responsible man who is responsible for her words and is ready to sacrifice much for the sake of such a union. Considered a professional intriguer, such a wife will gently guide her spouse in the right direction and increase their standard of living and prosperity, without at all aggravating conflicts.
In friendship
The combination of Aries and Scorpio in a friendly union is quite rare, despite the fact that each of them individually is a wonderful friend. Rustic Aries are not suitable for the too vague communication style of Scorpios. They are too far-fetched and mysterious for them, moreover, they often manipulate the behavior of the former.
If Scorpio "pulls the strings" too hard, then Aries will understand that he is being controlled, and a terrible conflict may erupt.
Best of all, they will be able to get along with each other having a common hobby, ranging from literature and music to joint hiking and skiing. Both signs are rarely friends "against someone", it is not in their nature, however, having made a common enemy for themselves, they can act as such a close-knit team that everyone around will be amazed.
Friendship that was born in childhood can go through many obstacles, except for one - jealousy. Both signs are owners and perceive friends as practically spouses who should not pay more attention to anyone than to a friend. Often, from such a peculiar jealousy, romantic feelings can arise, into which both signs will plunge their heads, forgetting about caution. If initially Aries and Scorpio were not going to translate friendship into the plane of sexual relations, then such a weakness, admitted by one of them or both signs, will not lead to anything good and people will disperse, losing both relationships and friendship. On the other hand, in this union it is almost impossible to find the concept of "friend zone", since both signs are too selfish and are successful with the opposite sex to waste their precious time on fruitless attempts.
In a love relationship
Since the planet is the patron saint of two signs of the zodiac - Mars, both men and women have temperament and sensuality. Both passion and love appear between them with the speed of lightning and also develop rapidly. Aries and Scorpions are irresistibly attracted to each other, they are happy to bathe in that sea of emotions that they themselves generate. Aries, regardless of gender, are ready to shout about their love to the whole world, trying to share with their halves every minute of their lives. A truly in love Scorpio, despite his prudence, can forgive a lot to his soul mate and often acts in a couple as giving love, and not receiving it. However, Scorpio's water is much more complex than Aries's fire. And if the latter burns cleanly and brightly, then the former can bring its depression and harshness to romance. In addition, the great irascibility and jealousy inherent in both signs can also cause a break.
Despite certain difficulties in love, in such a couple's bed everything is simply magical. Both of them are able to ignite a spark of passion in a partner in a matter of moments. The proximity of fire and water is rich and bright, they are attracted to each other by some kind of natural magnetism. For both men and women of such zodiac signs there are practically no forbidden practices and boundaries, they are ready for bold experiments and even want them. Venus endowed both signs with not only high desire, but also opportunities. Libido for men and women remains high until old age, especially if they give themselves conscious respite at the very beginning of the relationship and do not get fed up with each other. Even after severing a love affair, Aries and Scorpios can remain faithful lovers to each other for many years. Unfortunately, such a strong bodily and emotional union can still destroy banal jealousy and dissatisfaction. And obvious signs of betrayal and a long absence of desire for one of the partners cause aggression in the second and can lead to serious consequences for the couple.
In family life
Relationships between Aries and Scorpions in marriage are highly dependent on gender and differ significantly from each other. In the union of the Scorpio woman and the Aries man, two commanders of one team must get along, where each tests the other for strength. Moreover, if Fire presses directly with its power, then Water pushes a partner to its point of view, deftly manipulating. Moreover, if the woman acts subtly enough, the man may not even realize that he is being "led". But as soon as he suspects deception - his rage will not have a limit. If both partners are interested in maintaining the relationship, Aries will have to get used to the freedom of Scorpio, and she, in turn, will have to be extremely honest with her husband. In general, the union is very harmonious: water is feminine enough for a partner, and he bribes her with his strength and pressure.
In the marriage of an Aries woman and a Scorpio man, everything is somewhat more complicated, and the wife will have to "sweat" more here. Aries, accustomed to constant leadership, must learn to periodically yield to his spouse voluntarily, and not during a lost war of the sexes. At the same time, a fiery woman can get huge advantages over other unmarried Amazons due to the fact that she can relax and surrender herself to the power of a loving man for some time.
Unfortunately, Aries women practically do not know how to open up to men, considering this an indicator of weakness, so it is quite difficult for them to achieve the stability of such a marriage.
In addition, Scorpios are the strongest intuitions and perfectly feel the lie, so it is almost impossible to deceive such a spouse. Husbands in such an alliance will have to learn not to succumb to the emotional outbursts of their wife, not to respond with aggression to aggression. A straightforward and assertive woman Aries is able to directly criticize her husband, who will harbor resentment for many years, and not even realize that she has made a mistake.
In work
The best option would be a horizontal connection between Aries and Scorpio at work, that is, it is best if they are colleagues. Working on one task, Water acts as a stable platform for creative Fire. The first thinks better, the second does better. However, such a difference in character can serve as a catalyst for conflict. Both the one and the other sign like to act as a leader and "pull the blanket over themselves." And if Aries does it openly, relying on his charisma and strength, then Scorpio prefers to do it covertly, provoking the outrage of the straightforward Aries. The first is explosive, and the second is sarcastic. Either a short break or a new project will help mend already damaged relationships, since both hate routine. Any business that these indefatigable fighters undertake will literally "burn", the most important thing is not to neglect details and trifles.
Aries boss often gives too high a pace of work for a calmer Scorpio, thereby demanding the impossible from him and getting annoyed at the lack of a result. The lack of a precisely calibrated fire strategy drives the judicious water out of himself and does not allow her to forget that he is superficial and quick-tempered. Sincerely considering himself to be better than everyone else, Scorpio does not tolerate direct leadership and, even with a slight conflict, can leave a promising position, preferring to work for himself.
The Scorpio boss is strict not only with his subordinates, but first of all with himself. He squeezes out of the team all the maximum that he is capable of, and clearly sees the goal in front of them.
Often he sins by having favorites, one of which Aries can just become due to his directness and courage. Water is captivated by the absence of intrigue, in which it considers itself the only craftswoman, and in case of fair play, the element is ready to answer with honesty and even make certain concessions. Unfortunately, hot-tempered and stubborn Aries can find it difficult to endure such a non-aggressive but firm leadership, especially for subordinate men. If Aries holds back his rage for a long time, then depression and blues, which are not characteristic of this sign, can roll on, and such work will have to be changed.
Most often, both Aries and Scorpios prefer to work either in leadership positions, or completely for themselves. They are not afraid of stress and responsibility, but they practically cannot stand the tyrant bosses.
Possible causes of conflicts
There are several main reasons for which quarrels and disputes arise between the signs of water and fire. First, as mentioned above, is that both signs are big jealous and possessive. Both Aries and Scorpio love to receive and give attention, but they do not tolerate the moments when their soul mate is surrounded by attention. Moreover, they can be jealous of both the partner himself and those around them, who show that the partner is superior to them in some way. Neither one nor the other will be able to forgive and endure the betrayal of a loved one, even if they try to keep the relationship. Betrayal will be so engraved in their memory that they simply can never trust a partner and exist with him in the same territory.
The second reason is the difference in the source of the passion of each of the signs. Despite the fact that both are very emotional, Aries often does not fall into the "stream" of the fickle Scorpio. Because of this, the latter considers the former to be primitive and crude, which can lead to a rupture. Aries' emotions are directed at the world around and the people in it, while Scorpio prefers to live his experiences in the darkest corners of his soul, hiding them from the outside world. The fire commits rude and sometimes frankly cruel acts at the peak of anger and helplessness, it can break and destroy furniture and even hit a partner, but it will cool down very quickly and will sincerely ask for forgiveness, sprinkling ashes on its head no less violently than shouting at a partner.Scorpio, having decided that the union does not suit him, will tell his spouse about this only after he takes out all his things, finds another place of work and moves to another city. They carefully burn all the bridges behind them, which Aries, who know how to swing on "emotional swing" for a long time, are absolutely unable to understand.
The third common cause of conflict, especially in a pair of an Aries woman and a Scorpio man, is the struggle for leadership in a pair. Possessing a steel will and great ambitions, a woman in such an alliance often behaves "like a man", calling her spouse or colleague into direct conflict.
Scorpio is relentless in his ideas about the ideal woman and her destiny and tries to drive the freedom-loving partner into this framework. He is pleased to see his companion, who has achieved high success in the profession and has withstood the competition for himself, but he would like to at least sometimes see her as a fragile and open woman.
And the greatest fear of Aries is to open up to another and get hit on the patient himself, which is why it is so difficult for him to relax because of the fear of extinguishing. In this case, the couple can only be helped by complete frankness, reaching which, everyone will receive exactly what he so passionately desires: a woman - the support of a strong man, and a man - the admiration of the beauty he saved.
Summarizing all of the above, it can be noted that a pair of Aries man and Scorpio woman is more stable and able to create a strong family., in contrast to pairs where the signs are opposite. Nevertheless, even an Aries woman and a Scorpio man will be able to create a harmonious strong couple, having learned to hear a partner and give in to him at least in little things.
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