What to give a 6-year-old boy?

At the age of 6, the child already perfectly understands the meaning of his own birthday and is looking forward to it. Gifts are an obligatory attribute of the holiday for him, and, unlike adults, they are the main criterion for a successful celebration for him. To satisfy the boy, you will have to try, because at this age the child still does not know how to hide disappointment, and his expectations are probably not the most modest.

It is no longer possible to give a 6-year-old boy anything horrible - he has already grown up enough to have his own preferences and meaningful desires. Such a child will no longer be happy with any toys, because he is a person with formed interests. Moreover, this age already presupposes even those gifts that are not toys in the usual sense of the word.

Parents often think that they need to pamper their children with surprises, but in fact, sometimes you don't need to invent anything - it's enough just to pay attention to the child's wishes, even if they are expressed casually, and not with an explicit aim at the upcoming holiday. The boy periodically says "I want", and you may not be able to buy him what he wants immediately, but you can remember what he wanted and realize his dream on his birthday. It so happens that the child does not speak out loud about his desire, but it is obvious - for example, a boy at a party may show special attention to a particular toy. Finally, children do not always clearly understand what they want, they may not even know about the existence of something with which you will really please them, but then you just need to encourage the kid's interest in a certain activity - for this you just need to take a closer look at what he is playing and what he is interested in.

At the same time, there is also a certain "stop-list", which includes inappropriate gifts for a six-year-old boy. Parents often acquire something from this by mistake or ignorance, but there are practically no cases when the birthday boy appreciated it. Here are the main examples of errors:

• the gift should always correspond to the age and level of development, because the baby will not understand too complicated games, and he is no longer interested in children's gifts at all;
• even if it seems to you that the child is too focused on one area of ​​interest, do not stimulate his interest in other areas too demonstratively, with a birthday present - the young “technician” may not appreciate the encyclopedia about animals, the “musician” will not be delighted with boxing gloves;
• clothing is a taboo for most children's ages, unless it is directly related to the child's hobby;
• at the age of 6, the awareness of your gender is already full, so you not only will not be interested, but also offend the boy with a gift that the girl would like, and after all, his comrades can also make fun of him after that;
• gadgets, according to many experts, it’s just too early to donate - the child is able to figure them out, but will ruin his eyesight and posture, and will also sit still instead of movement, while soon the school will not leave room for mobility;
• too expensive gifts also do not make sense - parents will worry that the little owner does not break an expensive purchase, and he clearly will not appreciate a toy for blowing away dust particles, which should not be touched by hands.

All the coolest gifts for a child should always be given by the parents - they are his closest relatives, and for sure they have been preparing for this event for a long time. It is on the parents that the fulfillment of the dream is entrusted, no matter how much it costs - most likely, if they don’t give it, then no one will give it.

The ideas presented by us are not a complete list - by showing imagination, parents can always pamper their son in a more original way. We will briefly go through the options most interesting for the typical 6-year-old boy.

• Among all toys, the most popular solution is, of course, a car, another question is in what form. Do not think that such a gift is limited to a banal "machine", because you can always buy a cool copy of a real car with opening doors or the same police car equipped with a working siren and a flashing light. A separate topic is a radio-controlled car. Sometimes even an adult man can be pleased with such a gift, and the child will be delighted. A lover of technology may also like a constructor that assumes the assembly of a car.

• Transport is also a very appropriate gift, because children love to ride. The most popular child transport, of course, is a bicycle - if it is four-wheeled, but it allows the dismantling of two support wheels, and also allows you to adjust the height of the handlebar and seat. This gift will last for several years. It may seem that it is too early to give skates or rollers, but in fact the child is already able to learn how to skate on them. We must not forget about the scooter, which will also come in handy.

• Various sporting goods will be a very good gift for a mobile child. You should definitely take a closer look at the balls, especially football ones. The football theme can be developed in other directions as well - for example, you can give a kid a whole set of uniforms with the name of your favorite football player. In recent years, various horizontal bars and wall bars have been increasingly installed in apartments - if there is also a swing there, then the baby will definitely like it.

• Children love to imitate the activities of adults and so far they have no idea that they may not like adult life in the future. Observing their parents, they want to be like them - this is how rather unusual solutions appeared on the shelves of toy stores, like the same set of toy tools.Armed with such a suitcase, the boy will feel real pride, his games will become much more realistic, and he himself can appreciate the advantages of the profession and in the future become a professional or just a good master of his home.

• Boys traditionally like military toys, and parents can give the game a real swing with a full set. It may include soldiers themselves, figures of various military equipment, and sometimes even castles under construction. This solution is also good in that it allows for joint play with friends, contributing to the development of communication skills in the baby.

On the contrary, if you are sure that the child generally likes the theme that the toy reflects, feel free to buy a more original gift - perhaps it is that this is not just another typewriter and will be rated with the highest approval score.

Some children develop a little differently than most, and autistic people, for example, perceive the whole concept of birthdays and gifts for this holiday in a fundamentally different way. You should not think that such children have simpler thinking, but the fact that their logic is structured differently is an absolute truth.

First of all, it should be understood and accepted that not all autistic children at the age of 6 correctly understand the meaning and value of a gift. So, sometimes the beautiful bright packaging is of much greater interest than the content itself, which is why experts often advise giving a gift without a wrapper at all, otherwise the baby may feel sorry for spoiling it, and there may also be difficulties with unpacking and frustration because of this. Children at 6 years old usually do not know how to hide their frustration, but in the case of an autistic person, it will be especially bright and may even look rude.

The autistic logic is constructed in a completely different way. Usually he does not show much interest in anything, and it is all the more surprising that he may suddenly become interested in a thing that is completely unsuitable for children's games. From real examples, one can cite contour maps, an enema and even a toilet ruff - sometimes these things he saw by chance interested the boy more than all the purchased toys for every taste. You cannot take offense at the child for this, because he is not even close to trying to create problems for you on purpose. If you know what an autistic person will like and can afford such an acquisition, it’s better to just buy it, even if, in your understanding, it doesn’t pull in the role of a gift for a child.

Things that are attractive in appearance and pleasant to the touch are highly valued by such children, they often like to sculpt, but in this they will not be prevented by help in the form of molds that allow them to create believable figurines of the topic of interest. The boy will also like "special effects", such as a projector lamp with a map of the starry sky.

Parents usually give rather expensive gifts to a six-year-old boy, because they can afford it, which cannot be said about an older brother or sister - usually this is also a child who does not yet have his own source of income. In fact, there are many different inexpensive preschooler gifts that even other kids can afford. Usually, these are educational gifts that parents could give, but we have already described the reasons for the described “gift sharing”.

One of the best and literally eternal gifts is a book, but for a six-year-old child it must be chosen wisely. Today's children at this age already know how to read, but the question remains, how much text they are really able to master without losing interest in it.Once again: even if the topic of the publication is interesting for a child, he simply will not master many letters, he will become bored and the gift will simply gather dust. For this reason, preference is given to illustrated literature - at this age, bright colors are very popular.

However, even fairy tales can be useful, because they at least force the child to read, contributing to concentration, the development of perseverance, and sometimes the same broadening of horizons. An alternative educational gift is a board game. Children love communication with their peers, and board games are a good pastime for them, since it is a non-traumatic leisure time that has a positive effect on mental abilities. Even primitive "walkers" contribute to development, because the child learns to count faster, his imagination develops (he imagines the environment of the game world), and communication skills are also practiced.

In more complex games, winning may also require more serious skills, such as well-developed logic, the ability to build a strategy, plan and even lose with dignity. It is important to take into account that the child should be able to play the game, if its rules are not clear to him, he will simply cease to be interested in it in 5 minutes, and although he will be able to appreciate it in the future, he will now be disappointed.

After all, not all gifts from the section assigned to parents are too expensive. The same machine can be small and relatively inexpensive, and if the relationship between the baby and the older brother or sister is good, the birthday boy at the age of 6 is able to appreciate the very attention he was awarded by taking care of the gift.

Not having a lot of money, maximum attention should be paid to the interests of the baby - with an accurate hit on the target, the cost of a toy or a book no longer matters the least.

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