What to give a wife for the birth of a child?

Pregnancy and childbirth are, first of all, joy and happiness, a new level in the relationship of spouses. At the same time, for a woman it is a difficult test, difficulties, worries. This is why it is so important to support and thank your spouse. Including material gifts.

A future or newly-made father should understand that congratulations and signs of attention to his wife should be given not only on the day of discharge, but also immediately after the birth of the baby. Congratulate your beloved with a bouquet that can be sent through the nurse. Choose a small and not too tall bouquet, flowers should not have a pungent or strong smell. Together with the bouquet, you can transfer fruits (specify which ones do not cause allergies) and a note or letter with words of love and gratitude.

Since the birth of a child and the subsequent meeting of the wife with a precious bundle from the hospital is a solemn and memorable event, then a gift can be chosen "for years." As a rule, these are jewelry - gold, precious stones.

Chains with pendants in the form of children's feet or a baby are quite popular. You can make an engraving on the pendant - a memorable date. However, you can simply present your wife with the jewelry she dreamed of - earrings, a ring, a bracelet. It is not necessary that it be outwardly related to the theme of motherhood.

A plush toy is also considered standard. However, romantic and gentle young ladies will appreciate such a present. Choose a maxi-sized toy that you can hug. You can even purchase a soft full-length gift. The most popular are teddy bears.

By the way, a good option is an elephant with a raised trunk. Such a toy symbolizes joy, prosperity in the house, and the raised trunk symbolizes the continuation of the family. If a girl was born, the elephant can be pink, if the boy is blue, blue.

Another present that is often referred to as "ordinary" is perfume. However, like the above-mentioned gifts, it is only formally standard. If a woman dreams about these gifts, then they will be pleasant and memorable. As a rule, the husband knows about the spouse's taste preferences, so he can choose the appropriate scent. If difficulties arise with this, you can always purchase a gift certificate to an elite cosmetics and perfumery store.

Lingerie is another gift that will delight most women. However, there are nuances here - most likely, the wife's breasts will increase in size after childbirth (the latter can be miscalculated). In addition, you will need a special one for feeding. At the same time, if you know that your wife is not indifferent to beautiful lingerie, you can buy a negligee with a bathrobe or present a certificate to a lingerie boutique. The good thing about the certificate is that it is usually valid for 6-12 months. The wife may not “waste” it immediately after giving birth, but do it later - the baby will grow up, and she will again be able to afford her favorite lace sets.

The newly-made mom will be pleased with the equipment. It is better to choose what exactly she needs. So a phone or tablet is a good choice. But it is better to buy equipment for a baby (baby monitor) or household (dishwasher) just at home, and not give it as a gift.

A symbolic but pleasant gift is a photo album. Better if it is custom made. Although store options today please with an attractive and original appearance. On the first page, the spouse can paste joint photos from the time of pregnancy, stick a postcard, or simply write a congratulation for the spouse, describe his thoughts and feelings. If, on the contrary, talk about more expensive gifts, then present your wife with a fur coat. The present will be especially symbolic and in demand if the baby was born in winter.

If finances allow, donate a car. The rhythm of mothers (especially if the child is not the first) is very intense, it is important for her to be mobile. In this case, the car from a "luxurious" gift also becomes "practical". Don't forget the nice bow on the hood. The color of the ribbons may indicate who was born to you - a son or daughter.... The most, perhaps, "standard", but such a necessary gift for women is flowers. They should definitely be presented to your wife for discharge. That being said, don't limit yourself to modest bouquets. Let it be a great composition, not only at the check-out, but also at home.

Many husbands dream of a first-born son, if you are one of them, and your wife gave birth to a boy, thank her in a special way. For example, by getting a tattoo with the name of a child. Such a gesture cannot be called a gift, but it will evoke pleasant emotions in a woman, allow her to show her how dear to a man is family.

The boy's mom can be presented with jewelry. A pendant or ring that will remind of a pleasant event and date will delight, perhaps, every woman. It is customary to give a “jeweler” with an emerald for the birth of a son. He will endow a newborn man with strength and courage, and he will become a talisman for his mother.

One of the ancient Slavic traditions is to give a spouse a family heirloom for the birth of a daughter. That is, something valuable, passed down from generation to generation through the female line.First of all, such a gift carries a strong emotional load. He demonstrates respect and gratitude not only to her husband, but also to his entire family. And such a relic, as a rule, has considerable material value. V antique jewelry, icons, folios, interior items are chosen as her.

However, if there is no such tradition in the spouse's family, nothing prevents to lay it down. It is enough to choose a valuable and symbolic thing and hand it over to your spouse, accompanied by an appropriate speech. This will bring the spouses closer together, will become a symbol of a new round in their relationship.

In addition to the main gift, you can order an Oscar statuette or a medal. It will turn out to be a comic, but at the same time a very sincere and memorable surprise. It is important to engrave "special" words on a medal or statuette, to thank your spouse.

Most women get tired of the last months of pregnancy (their health worsens, their own reflection in the mirror does not please), childbirth is also a test. After the baby is born, you can support your spouse and give her a certificate to the spa. Again, choose the one that has at least six months of validity. Not every new mother can afford to leave her newborn for several hours.

A similar option is a certificate for a professional photo session. By the way, you can go to it with the whole family.... Make sure that the certificate also includes the services of a professional makeup stylist.

If a woman was fond of fitness before giving birth, then you can present an annual subscription. And at the same time a certificate for a sportswear store. However, if the wife did not attend the gym or group programs before giving birth, then such a gift can offend. A woman may well take it as your allusion to the pounds that have appeared or a swollen figure.

Every mother knows how quickly children grow up. The more valuable it is to preserve the moments of the growing up of the baby. A family photo session can be supplemented with a visit to a master who makes casts of the baby's arms and legs. This is a safe, painless and not time-consuming procedure, so you can come to the master from the very first weeks of the baby. And after discharge, present the spouse with a certificate for his visit.

An original gift is a rocking chair. At first glance, it doesn't suit mom at all. However, a woman will be able to rest and relax by swinging in a chair. At the same time, you can rock your baby, he will fall asleep faster.

Finding and hiring an au pair is another unusual but useful "gift"... In the first months of a baby's life, a new mother often has a difficult time. Taking care of the home and the newborn, fatigue and the need to restore your own body - it is very important to support and help a woman during this period. If the spouse cannot take on some of the household chores, the best option is to hire an au pair.

A "long-lasting" gift is a night light. The spouse will have to get up at night with the child more than once. ANDSave her from having to fumble around the wall in the dark looking for a switch, buy a beautiful night light. It will help you quickly navigate in the dark, and the dim light will not wake up the child. If you buy a high-quality model, then it will serve you for several years and will definitely come in handy when the child becomes older.

If relatives plan to visit your family on the day of discharge, take care of the guests as well. Order or prepare food, arrange a meeting for them. After the holiday, when the guests leave, free your spouse from cleaning the table and washing the dishes.

After seeing off your relatives and friends, do not rush to return to the "gray days". Have a romantic evening for the two of you. Newborns tend to sleep a lot, so you have time for yourself. Do not forget about the obligatory attributes - a light dinner, candles, pleasant music.

Ideas for an unusual gift can be associated with the old dreams of a woman. Each has a “list” of dreams, the realization of which she has always postponed for various reasons. In gratitude for the birth of an heir or a princess, one of the spouse's cherished desires can be realized.

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