All about male affection for a woman

There must be a healthy relationship between a man and a woman. They consist in sincere feelings that will not allow any of the partners to dominate. If one of the close people begins to behave inappropriately and tries to gain the upper hand over the other, then it is necessary to get rid of such an obsessive relationship in time.

To begin with, attachment refers to the very intense devotion of one person to another. It can be adequate and inadequate. The child's attachment to the mother is considered normal. A if a person painfully perceives any separation from a partner, then such an attachment has a bad effect on the relationship and is considered unhealthy.

Male psychology is very different from female psychology. Sometimes it is enough for a woman to just look into the eyes of a man, and she realizes that she will never be able to have intimacy with this man. The fair sex has a flexible mind and always rely on feelings. As soon as a woman feels some kind of emotional attraction and sees an intellectual level, she can quickly become attached to a man.

For men, everything happens differently. The representative of the stronger sex never makes long-term plans in relation to the future companion. He needs to devote some time to this process and understand whether the partner is suitable for him in all respects or not. Therefore, he becomes attached to the woman gradually.

The formation of affection in men takes place in stages.

• Naturally, at first the man is attracted by the woman's appearance. This factor plays an important role. And that's why. The male is by nature a progenitor. The healthier a woman is, the more beautiful and seductive she will be. A sick representative of the weaker sex usually has a faded appearance and an ugly figure. Ultimately, the partner's condition may be reflected in future offspring. If a woman is healthy and beautiful, then the offspring will be the same.
• Sex also plays an important role. The more a man has connections, the more offspring he will have. And this law of nature still operates on a subconscious level. If a man immediately gets what he wants, he loses interest. Therefore (in order to arouse persistent attention to herself), a woman first needs to evoke an emotional attachment from the side of the chosen companion. Only then in the relationship between a man and a woman lightness and further interest in each other arise.
• The intellectual level of both sexes also plays an important role. A stupid man will not be able to have a relationship with an intelligent woman, since he will feel his inferiority all the time. And this factor for the stronger sex is an unacceptable condition. If the intellectual levels coincide, then the man begins to be interested in the inner world of the woman and her state of mind. He is drawn into this process. And if a woman has a rich inner world, then the man's interest increases.
• And only after passing the above stages does a man have a woman persistent emotional (mental) attraction.

A real man, if he strives to create a family, is not afraid to become attached to a woman. However, there are also representatives of the stronger sex who do not strive for marriage. And there may be various reasons for this.

So let's look at the reasons.

• He is a perfectionist. All his life it will seem to him that his ideal half has not yet been found. Therefore, in your relationship, a lot will not suit him.
• He plays. The representative of the stronger sex does not take your relationship seriously, and therefore distances himself from you. Such a "companion" can first disappear from your life, and then reappear. However, a normal woman expects a sincere relationship from a man. Therefore, communication with such a companion will not bring joy. "Swing" in a union between a man and a woman is unacceptable.
• Past difficult experiences in relationships do not allow the person to relax and move on. A man simply does not believe that he can be happy and cannot forget his ex.
• A man who is very dependent on other people will make your life hell. If the spouse always listens to the opinions of parents, sisters, brothers, then your union will fall apart.
• The complete independence of a man will also have a negative effect on relationships. Avarice in expressing feelings causes suffering.
• Men who lack financial stability feel very insecure. Therefore, you will not be happy with such a companion.
• It is good when a representative of the stronger sex works a lot, but when he is a workaholic it is bad. You will always feel lonely.
• Problems coming from childhood will not allow a man to fully love his soul mate.
• If a man and a woman have different goals in life, then they can become a significant obstacle to a full-fledged relationship.
• Personal problems for men are important. Therefore, this factor will certainly affect the relationship.

There is love in the world.This is a completely normal feeling that allows people to become better and kinder. People cannot live without love. However, there is still such a feeling in the world as attachment. It differs from love in that it is usually painful. Knowing that your partner, or yourself, is feeling this kind of affection is easy enough.

For example, a guy is very attached to a girl. In this case, the young man tries not to let go of his girlfriend for a minute. He shows her in every possible way that she is his property. Such an unhealthy relationship will end in failure. The girl will get tired of constant control, and she will try to break the connection. Then difficult times will come for the guy, and he will begin to experience mental pain. Naturally, all feelings will turn into negative in relation to the ex-girlfriend.

As practice shows, there are common features between love and affection, but there are much more differences. Let's consider them.

• Relationships are emotional. One of the partners is jealous of his soul mate and does not allow her to develop. This behavior generates protest, and partners often sort things out.
• One of the partners begins to demand proof of love, which means that the other half must constantly account for their actions, write SMS and show attention when it is not very convenient to do so.
• If one of the partners tries to subjugate the other, then this is attachment.

Sometimes it happens that people break up. However, both partners do not always agree to break all ties. In most cases, one of the partners is the initiator of the separation.

For example, a wife found another man who suited her both in character and in an intimate sense. A man with such a turn of affairs does not want to put up. What should he do? First of all, you need to get together and "take your will into a fist." In the end, show a masculine character. And then you can try to act in a certain way.

• Try to remove from your head the thoughts that arise from male egoism. Representatives of the stronger sex take very hard on the fact that a woman leaves them first. Such actions provoke anger because of the colossal damage to their pride. In this case, you need to come to terms with the situation and stop thinking that everyone around you is laughing at you. Remember, things don't always go smoothly in life. Stop cheating yourself, and try to pretend that you are happy with everything. Believe me, such actions can cause admiration from others, and your ex-girlfriend will be very upset about your behavior.
• Think about what your relationship with the woman who suggested breaking up gave you. Analyze your life together. It is possible that you were not actually happy. And all your relationships were far-fetched and kept only on habit. Even if you cannot agree with the above reasons, still try to find the negative moments that happened when you were together. There are no perfect people and no perfect relationships. It is possible that your life was too emotional, and you both just got tired of each other.
• Try to "enable" full independence. This will help remove any feelings that remain for your wife or girlfriend. For example, think about the fact that you are now open to new acquaintances and relationships. Until you find another life partner, you can live for yourself: do not rush home, calmly meet with friends, etc.
• Traveling is the best way to get rid of obsessive thoughts of the past. Try to get as far away as possible and for as long as possible. To do this, even take a vacation at your own expense.Ultimately, your state of mind is much more important than the urgent work. If health deteriorates due to worries, then the situation will only worsen. In addition, on vacation you can meet a new love.
• Self-reliance and a look into the future will help you find harmony with yourself. Try to have fun. You are now the master of your life. You can afford whatever you want. For this you will not have to account to anyone.
• If you continue to be tormented by the fact that a woman dumped you, then try a self-affirmation technique. Now half of our life is spent on social networks.