Features of an introvert man and his behavior in relationships

Psychology defines two main psychotypes of a person: introvert and extrovert. After conducting various polls, observations and experiments, it was believed that most of the population of our planet is extroverts.

But in this article we will not talk about them, on the contrary, we will talk about introverts, we will figure out who introverted men are. We will learn to recognize them, we will study their character, behavior, we will understand which approach to them to choose, and we will definitely find out what they are in love.

First, it is worth determining who an introvert is, from the point of view of psychology. This is a person who is focused on his inner world and is completely immersed in it. For an introvert, their thoughts and feelings are important, they rarely leave their comfort zone, have little trust in people and prefer proud loneliness.

An introvert has the following character traits:

• thinks through all his actions in detail;
• communication is rarely spontaneous, most likely, he has a specific goal, so a conversation with him may seem tense;
• does not need constant communication;
• an unpleasant situation leaves a huge mark on the emotional state and does not let go of his thoughts for a long time;
• fantasy is quite well developed;
• very purposeful person;
• always controls his emotions, and rarely shows them;
• patient, observant, inclined to analyze everything that happened.

Signs of an introverted man:

• loves a quiet and relaxing pastime;
• conservative in views and judgments;
• Many introverted men love books and consider them the best gift;
• they express their gratitude by actions, words mean nothing to them;
• an introverted husband - everything that one can wish for, they have no equal in married life;
• love to reflect and talk on deep topics;
• empty conversations are not for them, the conversation is short and laconic;
• stingy with the expression of emotions.

This type of personality is very closed in itself, hidden, lives in its own world, and prefers not to let anyone in there. When dealing with this man, you are unlikely to be able to confuse and confuse him, since he is confident in himself and in his values.

All of these characteristics can scare a woman even more. When meeting an introvert, you need to act correctly and know a few basic rules that will help you get to know each other and start communicating.

• Introverts don't like lies and understatement. Be extremely frank and sincere.
• Be sure to listen to the man, they love it.
• Avoid talking about topics that might remind the introvert of their own failures.
• Help and support him verbally. An introverted man will appreciate this.
• Don't be too pushy. An introvert takes time to get to know you and appreciate your positive qualities.
• Forget moral pressure. This will not lead to anything good. Show gentleness and politeness, then he will answer you in kind. And don't impose your opinion. You can express him, but if he wants to stay with his, so be it.

Stick to these rules, and chances are, one conversation will be followed by another.

We have already figured out that this psychotype of men is rather difficult. They are the same in relationships and in love. Very often, with their secrecy and indifference, they can drive you crazy and provoke not very pleasant thoughts.

If your companion is of this type, be prepared for a certain demeanor in the relationship, and learn to calmly accept what is happening. Let's dwell on the main features, as well as relationship problems.

• Ignores your call. They do not like telephone conversations. This man will find many reasons not to answer. Be smarter - write a message.
• Work and only work. Sometimes one gets the impression that she comes first for them. This is not entirely true, just if something has already begun to be done, then they must definitely bring it to the end. Don't even think about forcing you to choose between work and you. Understand and accept the situation. For this, you will undoubtedly be rewarded.
• Answers in a nutshell. He does not like long and meaningless conversations, he is very short in conversation.
• Lost in noisy companies. The company of strangers, parties are not for the introvert. He will prefer loneliness. Help him while he is away.

• Doesn't cover his problems. He solves his problems and ponders himself. He will never tell you about them. If you see that your man has become sad and depressed, do not try to pull information out of him. Just ask, if he sees fit, he will tell you himself.
• Loves animals very much. And if you are a guest, and your man preferred to play with the dog, rather than sit with everyone at the table, do not scold him, let him play enough.
• Apathy. You can plan an event for a long time, and at the last moment he wants to cancel everything and lie on the couch. Stay calm. Offer to move everything to another day.
• Slowness. Very painstaking in making decisions, doing things. You will need to take the initiative sometimes. But do not forget to ask his opinion.
• Fear of criticism. Never criticize or compare your introverted man to others.He will be very offended, and making peace with such a guy is difficult.

We all are pleased to know and hear that we are loved. You have been trying for so long to make an introverted man fall in love with you, and everything seems to be fine, but how do you know if he is in love or not? Due to the qualities of character and stinginess in the manifestation of emotions, it is very difficult to recognize the attitude of an introvert towards you.

Let's take a look at how introverts in love behave.

• If the introvert leaves his comfort zone in order to spend time with you, that definitely means something. He can go to a club, to a party, a picnic for you, although he has never been a supporter of such entertainment before.
• He is silent all the time, does not answer questions, and you begin to think that he is simply not interested in him. It's not like that at all. An introvert loves and respects silence, and you are the one who deserves the right to share it with him.
• Introverts have a great sense of humor, but they don't show it to everyone. Rather, on the contrary, they prefer to appear sarcastic. And if he jokes with you, laughs, then you are no longer a stranger.
• If you are already in a relationship with an introvert, you have nothing to worry about. Before agreeing to a serious relationship, an introvert will think for a long time, reflect, assess the situation and the applicant himself, who is going to become a part of his world.

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