How do you know that a girl likes you?
When you really like a girl, you really want to see signs of a reciprocal feeling. Women's psychology is difficult to understand and unpredictable, but you can study the main signals of a lady's sympathy.
How do girls hint about sympathy?
A girl is a mysterious creature, but it's not so difficult for her to find out that she likes you. The main thing is not to invent something that does not exist, but to carefully monitor the behavior of the fair sex and note for yourself certain signs of sympathy.
Each person will have their own, but some common beginning of emerging feelings is noted in all women. Practice shows that girls begin to show signs of attention already in the second or third week from the beginning of their acquaintance. And some, especially impatient, ladies can start doing it even earlier. Girls want to attract a guy they like with the help of special behavior, but it can be difficult to determine this to the object of their desire. Inexperienced or not very attentive guys may not even notice that a girl liked them for years.
Basic knowledge of psychology will help you check the feelings of a shy stranger or a work colleague. Even the most secretive woman will not be able to completely hide her sympathy.
Modest ladies hint that they like a guy as follows:
- often observe the object of passion, and if their gaze is noticed, then they immediately withdraw it;
- blush when a man dear to his heart appears;
- looking for information about the guy they like among friends and acquaintances;
- try to look beautiful every day;
- begin to get lost and timid in the company of a pleasant man.
More assertive ladies differ in their behavior when an object of sympathy appears:
- can take the initiative: start a conversation on their own, walk by, playfully swaying their hips;
- "Shoot" with your eyes;
- transfer notes;
- find a phone number and contacts on social networks and write first.
In fact, unfamiliar women can be very resourceful. You need to see signs of their attention in time. Then it will be much easier to come up and get to know each other.
If we talk about a conversation, then one can also trace romantic vibes in it, which, at first glance, may be completely invisible. In conversation, girls hint at sympathy as follows:
- give compliments (even if they are not clear to everyone);
- always laugh at the jokes of a handsome man;
- listen to the conversation and try not to interrupt;
- prefer to stay somewhat aloof during a general conversation, observe from the side and smile.
Sometimes ladies can act diametrically opposite when they like a guy. They can completely ignore him or even behave aggressively. So they release the accumulated tension from unrequited feelings. Just as boys tug on girls by their pigtails and tease when they like them, girls can choose such tactics of battle already at a conscious age.
Therefore, it is not necessary to put an end to a relationship when a girl, as if, hates a man. There is a good chance that she is in love.
To make it clear to a man that a woman likes him, she can deliberately behave more loudly in the company of friends. Thus, she distinguishes herself from the rest and declares herself "with a capital letter." If a lady, when a certain male representative appears, begins to whisper with her friends, then this also probably speaks of an incipient feeling. From an overabundance of emotions, girlfriends begin to whisper to share momentary impressions.
When that one appears, any lady will immediately put aside her phone or work and devote at least a few minutes to her potential boyfriend. She simply will not be able to behave differently because of the surging excitement.
Also, an obvious hint of sympathy for a particular guy is flirting and flirting exclusively with him. The lady will not show interest in other members of the stronger sex.
How else can a woman hint about her sympathy? There are a lot of ways, but the main ones are:
- periodic requests for help, which undoubtedly help to strike up a conversation and give time for communication;
- treats with their signature dishes characterize the lady as a good housewife and give the man a reason to think about her candidacy for the second half;
- questions about well-being show the participation of the girl in the guy's life;
- the girl asks common acquaintances and colleagues about the man, although she knows that they can tell him about it;
- cute gifts with a hint: mugs with hearts for February 23rd, cards for Valentine's Day - all this is a direct hint of sympathy;
- jokes addressed to a man are an indispensable attribute of sympathy;
- in the presence of the man of her dreams, the lady straightens her hair, as she worries about how she looks.
In addition to such obvious signs of sympathy, there are also hidden ones. They are not always visible to the naked eye, so they must be carefully disassembled and evaluated so as not to be confused with anything else.
Learning body language
In modern society, girls are not accepted to openly express their sympathy. Firstly, a man, according to tradition, must seek the hand and heart of a lady, and secondly, he does not want to indulge his male pride and get into a mess. The rejected woman feels too depressed, so she tries to attract attention with cunning and various tricks.
To determine if a girl is sympathetic, it's best to pay attention to the non-verbal signals she gives. Signs of sympathy can be in both gestures and gaze.
By gestures
If a girl tries her best to portray cold alienation, then the subconscious mind will still (sooner or later) give her away. For some gestures and facial expressions, one can count one hundred percent emotions that speak of sympathy. It is important to identify them in time.
- Turning the body of the body or just legs in the direction of the preferred guy. When we like a person, we involuntarily open up to him, this is expressed precisely in the direction of our body in his direction. When the distance between her and the prospective partner is reduced, a woman does not even notice how she turns her legs in his direction, even bent at the knees, guides the sock, and can playfully wiggle the shoe.
- The turn of the body fully speaks of the special affection or openness of the girl. The mood for romance is quite obvious here, if there is also a smile, as well as light touches. But more on that later.
- Particularly courageous women can even touch a guy they like with their foot, for example, sitting with him at the same table. Such non-verbal communication takes on a certain erotic connotation. Here you don't even need to guess whether the girl likes you or not. The answer is unequivocal: yes, and even very much.
- Constant body contact. Disposition to this man is also manifested by the desire to touch him as often as possible. Nothing reflects romantic affection more than being constantly touched by a young man. So, a woman puts her hand on a man's shoulder during a conversation, touches his chest, as if in jest, pushing away, tries, passing by, to hug him lightly, as if he was preventing her from going through.
If such a manner of communication can be traced from a woman, then she is either a windy coquette, or is really very interested in a particular man. How can this be determined exactly? It is necessary to pay attention to whether this representative of the fair sex behaves this way with all men or only with one particular one. If the second option is suitable, then sympathy is most likely present.
It is also easy to test feelings in the following way: you yourself need to start acting in this direction. Hug her or just periodically touch neutral parts of the body. There are two types of reaction: violent and romantic.
In the first case, the girl, perhaps, will start to feign indignation, and in the second, she will play along and provoke the repetition of such actions. When a given young man is unpleasant for a woman, she simply leaves the touch, moving away or replacing.
- Hair repair. It has long been considered a sign of the true sympathy of a girl to wind a curl on her finger. But not only this gesture with hair, but any game with them speaks of female affection. A lady can preen herself in front of a mirror when the desired man appears, or she can whip the volume of strands with her hand. A girl can also pull her hair behind her ear and stroke her head due to sincere sympathy. To follow these eloquent actions, you need to catch the girl by surprise. That is, suddenly go to where she is. Otherwise, she may be confident in her appearance and not show such gestures.
- Movement of the lips and legs. There are some signs that can clearly delineate a girl's preference for a particular person. These instinctive movements will help you quickly figure out what's what.
The lips are one of the most sensitive areas for any lady. Therefore, when talking and gazing closely at the object of desire, she will bite them or lightly lick them. Most of the time, she will keep her mouth slightly open. And a pleasant half-smile will remain on the lips. It is unlikely that the girl will be able to restrain these gestures when the young man, pleasant to her, approaches a distance of less than half a meter. Therefore, it is advisable to provoke her in such a way as to carefully assess her condition by such an invasion of the comfort zone.
Legs, in addition to the direction in the direction of the man you like, can also tell a lot about the lady's sympathy. When a pretty young man is close, the woman's hips (often involuntarily) are compressed.
It is quite difficult to notice such a gesture, especially if this part of the body is hidden by loose clothing. But the summer time with short dresses will help you to see him exactly.
- Posture. When we want to appear more important, we often monitor the position of the body. So girls, wanting to attract a guy, will certainly straighten their shoulders and chest, pull in their stomach and begin to walk more gracefully. Everyone wants to look their best in the eyes of a potential soul mate, so such a gesture clearly shows the intentions of a beautiful person. If a girl, before the arrival of a certain guy, stood, as if nothing had happened, leaning on something in a relaxed position, then when an attractive male appears on the horizon, she will definitely stretch out “in line”, throw back her hair and take an important position. Naturally, these non-verbal signs indicate that she wants to be noticed.
- Embarrassment. Even the strongest-minded girls cannot absolutely hide their embarrassment from the sudden arrival or proximity of the object of passion. So, a lady can start shifting something in her hands: a piece of paper, a handkerchief. She may also start to blush, talk nonsense, or stutter a little.
When a handsome young man is too close, hormones begin to play, so it is almost impossible to stop the process of non-verbal actions.
Of course, in some of the girls they are more pronounced, and in others to a lesser extent, but they are always present. The main thing is to see them in time.
- Imitation. The involuntary repetition of gestures, gait, facial expressions of a young man directly speaks of the strong sympathy of the fair sex. This marker allows you to know for sure about feelings with 100% accuracy. There is no need to wait for a moment and arrange for hours of surveillance. You just have to sit back and see if she repeats the same pose. The girl will not follow the man exactly, she will just partially copy his behavior. Tilt of the head, body, light touches, but in the same direction, with the same parts of the body. Interestingly, these gestures are spontaneous. That is, the lady during their playback does not even control herself, which speaks in favor of this method of tracking the feelings of this lady.
By sight
A glance is more eloquent than any words. It's hard enough to tell from the look that a girl really likes a certain guy. But in any case, it is worth trying to follow the game with her eyes.
Eye flirting is a form of flirting that has been known since time immemorial. How a lady looks at a man she adores:
- looks at him from under lowered eyelashes and smiles sweetly;
- averts her gaze to the side, as if she noticed him completely by accident;
- looks back at the object and may smile again or laugh embarrassedly.
It is better not to ignore this sign by supporting such an innocent game. And then go up and meet a girl so as not to waste precious time.
Being in a crowd, you can also check with a glance whether a girl likes a certain young man. It's as easy as shelling pears to do this:
- you need to constantly be in sight (for quite a long time);
- then you need to disappear, but so that there is visual access: if a lady is interested, having lost sight of a nice guy, she will start peeking out from behind everyone in order to find him again.
Then you need to be in sight again to see the woman's reaction. If she calms down and starts chatting with someone at ease again, she definitely has sympathy.
There is also a more radical method of checking the look: you can come close to the girl and look into her eyes. An embarrassed lady in love will look away or look defiantly into the eyes with a smile.But (sooner or later) she still shyly lowers her eyes. This sign suggests that a woman recognizes the dominance of a man she likes and agrees with his dominance.
In women who have certain feelings for a particular man, when he approaches, there is one physiological sign - their pupils dilate.
Therefore, you need to suddenly be next to the lady and carefully look into her eyes, preferably in good lighting. Then it will be very easy to notice such a reaction of the body.
Social networking
If a girl has been communicating with a guy on social networks for a long time, but does not openly speak about her sympathy, then it is difficult not to worry. On the one hand, it seems that she just wants to be friends and does not want a romantic relationship at all, and on the other hand, if a lady spends a lot of time on correspondence, then she hardly wants to limit herself to exclusively friendly communication.
In general, face-to-face conversation is much more exciting than correspondence. Here you can think carefully about each phrase, not say it out loud and not look the guy in the eye at all.
Therefore, to some extent on the Internet, you can quickly decide to show sympathy. In addition, due to a relaxed state in the process of correspondence, you can quickly give out your feelings quite by accident.
There are so many distinctive features of a woman who really likes a guy, they can be found precisely in correspondence.
- The girl is interested in the guy's well-being and mood not just for show. The lady is really worried, asking about all the details of the day. If there is a trouble, then she laments about this and tries in every possible way to support. Women, in principle, are characterized by care and attention. These qualities are inherent in them by nature and they are directed, as a rule, at the potential head of the family.
- Comes up with affectionate nicknames or constantly uses diminutive names. Directly about her feelings, she is afraid to say or does not want to take the initiative into her female hands. But a lady can try to provoke a guy to the first step in this way.
- Wants to learn more about hobbies. Girls learn about this for several reasons: they want to find an approach, draw an analogy with their passions, want to try to get carried away by the same.
- Says compliments. This is a very clear sign of the sympathy of a beautiful lady. Compliments can be overt and subtle. It depends on the degree of trust in communication and the liberation of the girl. Most often they talk about appearance and pleasant character traits.
- Worries if the guy stays somewhere or doesn't answer for a long time. There are two signs of sympathy in penchant excitement. Firstly, the girl will really worry about what is dear to her. And secondly, she misses when a guy doesn't go online for a long time, and wants to talk to him again faster.
- Sends his photos. A direct hint of a desire for a relationship is adding a photo to the context of the conversation.
- Consults on many issues. Basically, if a guy is liked, then he automatically becomes an authority for the girl. What dress suits better, how to make peace with a friend or mother, how to pass the session faster - this is just an incomplete list of possible questions from a lady in love. This is a clear sign of trust and romantic feelings towards this man.
- Tries to answer on time or warns that she will be busy. She simply does not want to lose confidence and appreciates any moment spent together, even if only in correspondence. Usually, girls who are not particularly interested in a given young man can be online for hours, but not reply to a message or reply in monosyllables. It is imperative to notice such punctuality and understand that this is a clear sign of sympathy.
- Tries to hint at spending time together in person. She can talk about a movie that is currently in the theater, or enjoy the good weather and express a desire to take a walk.This is a direct allusion to a date - you can't miss your chance.
- Finds any excuse to invite a young man to his home. For example, having learned about the guy's capabilities to fix the plumbing, she tearfully asks him for help. So the girl is just trying to see him in person.
- He takes the side of a man in almost any matter. Whatever the young man says and whatever he complains, the young lady in love will surely stand up for him and scold everyone who offended him. This position is very flattering to men.
Of course, all the fair sex is very different, as are their signals of sympathy.
When solving the mystery of how to understand that a girl likes a guy, it is worth considering both the described signs and an individual approach. Some ladies are more constricted, others are sociable and open.
Tips from professionals
After looking for obvious and hidden signs of female sympathy, it is very easy to get entangled in them. How to understand that you are not deceived by a clouded consciousness? For this, there is a huge amount of advice from psychologists and just experienced men, who have always been popular with the opposite sex.
Surely there are only two ways to determine the sympathy of a girl:
- when she said it herself;
- by inviting her out on a date and voicing your preferences.
If the first option is delayed, then you need not hesitate and take the initiative. Without taking the first step on your own, you can forever lose the chance for happiness.
You need to listen to yourself and find out if this girl is really the same one. Waste your time on a lady who does not fit in character and other spiritual characteristics, at least, is irrational. Don't miss the opportunity. If a woman has clearly shown sympathy, you need to respond in time to develop the relationship further. Fate often gives us a chance, but we do not notice or lose sight of it.
In communication, you do not need to put on a fake mask. To be yourself means to find yourself sooner or later a person who will accept you as you are, with all the advantages and disadvantages. And looking for problems in the form of an unsuitable passion is wrong. You should also relax and enjoy life. Then everything should work out, since fate is favorable to those who love life.
A nervous and eternally saddened man can hardly please a girl, but a cheerful person attracts, like a magnet, the same cheerful people, in particular, beautiful ladies.
A man should always try to look good and smell good. After all, appearance is a first impression, a basic requirement and an indicator of self-love. A rich inner world is wonderful, but in combination with neatness, a man will be simply magnificent. You also need to get enough sleep. Healthy sleep affects not only the state of the body, but also the appearance. In addition, a slept man is much more witty, jokes and communicates on any topic with ease. Therefore, girls will like him definitely stronger.
Be light on everything that happens around you, including sympathy for the opposite sex. Be yourself, enjoy every day you live, and your soul mate will definitely become a pleasant addition to your happy life. You need to learn to be self-sufficient and not depend on any adversity.
Positiveness is something to strive for both in love and in other aspects of life.
Thus, after reading the material of our article, you learned about the main signs of a girl's sympathy towards you. Carefully study and analyze the behavior of your friends, acquaintances or work colleagues - then you will definitely not miss the nascent love.
Ten signs that a girl likes you are described in the following video.