Characteristics and features of the emotive personality type
Each of us has certain character traits. Having analyzed them, scientists have long divided people into various psychotypes. A rather interesting personality type is the emotive. What is a person with these character traits, what methods of behavior correction exist, what professions are suitable for people with an emotive personality type?
Characteristics of the psychotype
Emotive character accentuation is characterized by a high degree of feelings about any incident in life, regardless of whether the situation made a good impression or a negative one. The following manifestations are characteristic of emotiveness.
- Deep response with increased sensitivity to what is happening around.
- Humanity, responsiveness, peacefulness.
- All experiences are clearly "written" on the person's face.
- Emotives receive heightened positive emotions when interacting with nature.
- They cannot contain their emotions even when reading a book or watching a dramatic movie.
- At work, they strive to always have good relationships with colleagues, which means they try to avoid conflicts. They rarely quit because they don't strive for change.
- Emotives are prone to mood swings. Interest in something is also changing rapidly.
- These people usually have a very small circle of friends with whom they can share their experiences. But most of the exciting situations, these individuals still keep to themselves.
- Usually people with an emotive psychotype create strong and reliable families, despite the sharpness of the reaction.
- Often, emotives are prone to depression and even suicide.
But the kindness of the emotive psychotype often lies only in the external response to the situation, while inside they clearly and soberly assess what is happening.
Women
The emotive personality type practically does not create problems for the weaker sex. Women with this character are usually modest and quite sincere. At the same time, they are not inclined to do something for show, manipulating their emotions. By marrying a girl with an emotive personality type, you can be sure of her loyalty, since in the first place she will not have sex or attention, but the feeling of love. Treason is perceived by an emotive woman as a terrible betrayal, of which she is hardly capable.
Men
But those character traits that can be considered a plus in female behavior often interfere with men. Such representatives of the stronger sex are often called weak-willed. Often, emotives are strongly attached to their parents, so it is difficult for them to build their own family. This is also due to the fact that men of this psychotype often cannot be the first to take a step and translate friendly relations with the weaker sex into intimate ones. Sexual relationships among emotives are usually not very diverse. Emotive individuals do not discuss sex with their partner. In addition, any stress can lead to a break in intimate life from several weeks to several months.
Reasons for the formation
Many psychologists and psychoanalysts have pondered and reflect on what influences the formation of an emotive personality type. But the exact reasons were not found, since it has been proven that the personality type is laid in early childhood and practically does not change throughout life. But still, many scientists are sure that genetics influences this accentuation. The child takes from the parents the basis for development, and on it the character of the person himself is already formed.
It is also very important to remember that a person's personality begins to form in the womb., therefore, the atmosphere in which the fruit is born is very important. All the mother's empathy, her emotions and lifestyle give a certain imprint on the future personality of the baby. And if the expectant mother is emotional, subject to an increased sense of compassion, she treats the surrounding nature with trepidation, then these emotions will also affect the character of the baby.
After birth, the baby, like a sponge, "absorbs" everything that surrounds him. And, most likely, if the baby is surrounded by personalities who are characterized by emotive behavior, then they will certainly manifest themselves in the character traits of the future adult.
Methods for correcting behavior
When emotive accentuation brings discomfort to a person's life, it is worth applying some behavior correction. For this, special means are used - trainings. Here are a few of them.
Peace of mind
When the emotive is worried about an increased fear or he is not very confident in himself, he should remember those events in his life that caused positive emotions. You should completely relax and immerse yourself in that situation as deeply as possible. If he managed to supplant fear or insecurity with old emotions, then you need to remember these feelings and apply this training if necessary.
Movie hero
In any difficult emotional situation, imagine yourself as a superhero who can solve any problem. You need to try on a brave image. Try to deal with the situation in the same way as your favorite movie character would do. The emotive needs to behave this way until it overcomes fear and self-doubt. With this training, you can also increase your self-esteem and overcome shyness.
Circle of friends
The emotive has a rather narrow circle of friends with whom it is comfortable to communicate. But their number should be increased. The purpose of this training is to increase the communication skills of a person with an emotive personality type.To do this, you should start a conversation with new strangers every day. At first, a person of this psychotype will experience discomfort, but each time it will be much easier for him to take the first step in communication.
Counter jokes
Many emotives, hearing self-mockery, get upset and cannot contain emotions such as tears or intense embarrassment. This provokes pranksters, and humor towards emotive personalities is becoming more and more common. To stop him, you should answer him with a joke. But it’s hard for emotives to come up with an answer right away, so it’s worth stocking up on several options in advance and responding with well-thought-out stories. But here you need to take into account the fact that jokes should not be evil, but rather good-natured.
Relationships with other types
Emotives are non-conflict people, so their relationships with other psychotypes are quite simple. They do not tend to change their other half, emotive people perceive their couple as they are, try to support their partner in any situation. The emotive interacts well with people, easily adapting to almost any person's character.
Paired with hypertim, only an emotive person is able not to react to his behavior, deep down hoping that care and affection will change the desire of the other half for adventure. And over time, over the years, an idyll can come in the relationship of these two personality types, since hypertim often gets tired of his activity and learns to be careful. The emotive easily accepts the hysteroid. But here, over time, he can take the character traits of the hysterical psychotype for insincerity and play with himself, so the relationship of these people will break.
Couples between schizoid and emotive practically do not occur, especially at an early age. This is due to the fact that neither the one nor the other psychotype is unusual for the trait of a conqueror, they most often wait until they conquer them. But at a more mature age, if an emotive person "takes matters into his own hands", then a couple with a great sense of respect for each other can turn out. The relationship will be warm and comfortable for both.
It is very rare for a couple to consist of two emotives. This is due to the fact that this psychotype should always help others and does not know how to appreciate the care that goes in his direction. Another rarity among couples is the relationship between emotive and anxious personality types. This is due to the fact that both personalities are indecisive and shy in courtship. Both will be uncomfortable inside the relationship. Since the emotive is reluctant to give its care to the anxious. He does not see the return, and the anxious one, in turn, does not feel the protector in the emotive.
Suitable professions
Conscientiousness, responsibility, responsiveness - these are exactly the qualities that will necessarily be present in the resume of a person with an emotive personality type. But not every profession will suit this character. The emotive will feel most comfortable in the specialty where he can help others, create harmony and beauty.
Quite often, emotive people have a good sense of style, which is why they often become music and restaurant critics, as well as editors of books and magazines. Emotives are great for interacting with children. They make good nannies and kindergarten teachers. Volunteers are also a profession for them. In addition, emotive personalities make good doctors and veterinarians. The profession of a restorer is also suitable, as it requires responsibility and attention. The emotive will also feel good in professions related to plant breeding, flower arrangement.
But there are professions that are unlikely to suit emotive people. They do not have leadership qualities, and the emotive will not succeed in punishing a person. Therefore, emotive will not be suitable for the role of a boss. As well as the role of a policeman.
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