Cancer and Gemini: a description of the union of Air and Water

About the union of Gemini and Cancer, we can say this: two opposites converged. The former are distinguished by their openness and energy, while the latter, if not hermits, tend to avoid noisy gatherings and frequent communication with people who are not in their inner circle. Despite all the differences, these signs are able to complement each other, bringing harmony to the life of a partner.

Cancer can be called a controversial sign of the zodiac.

Among its typical features are the following:

• high emotionality and the ability to hide it;
• disinclination to frankness;
• affection for parents and home;
• initiative at work;
• corrosiveness;
• a tendency to hoard;
• solicitude;
• striving for consistency in relationships;
• caution and curiosity in dealing with new things;
• foresight;
• sentimentality;
• attachment to the past and familiar things;
• sensitivity to failures and grievances and the inability to forget them.

Cancer men have the ability to think clearly and logically, but sometimes their feelings disrupt the harmonious line of reasoning. They perfectly understand human psychology and know how to lead a team. A male representative of this sign in the boss's chair is not uncommon.

They are able to quickly calculate the most rational and simple way to the goal. They are sensitive, but they do not differ in great generosity, since they look at the world in a practical way and care about the future.

It is difficult to argue them. Usually their argumentation is so convincing that it is difficult to oppose something to it.

The Cancer woman is famous for her prudence and ability to take care of loved ones.Able to see the deep truth. It is useless to deceive her. A partner may recall an offense more than once. Despite the closeness, loneliness does not tolerate. Knows how to find a common language with children. He likes to linger in his house for a long time, to feed on its energy and feels emotionally invulnerable in it.

Among the character traits of the Gemini sign are the following:

• changeable opinions;
• a penchant for acting;
• striving for constant activity;
• desire to attract attention to yourself;
• great eloquence;
• superficial perception of what is happening;
• the ability to provide support in a difficult situation;
• fear of loneliness;
• observation.

Men born under this sign have the ability to easily find a common language with people. They attract with their independence and high internal energy. Always looking for adventure. They tend to get carried away, including women. In relationships with the opposite sex, they are persistent and ready to quickly marry. They look at things broadly and know how to forgive.

The representative of the weaker sex-Gemini easily attracts masculine looks. It is equally strong to strive to reach material and spiritual heights. Appreciates independence, loves everything beautiful and stylish. Differs in solicitude and sensitivity to other people's misfortunes. Often has many children. Teaches them to be optimistic. And in adulthood, it retains children's cheerfulness and spontaneity.

The horoscope of relationships does not promise these signs of a cloudless life together, but they can find mutual understanding and create a common future.

In love relationships, it is often the guy born under the water sign of Cancer who seeks to conquer the "airy" Gemini girl. Her sociability and lightness arouse interest in him, and he goes headlong into his infatuation with her. This manifestation of feelings can find a response in sociable Gemini, although at first the girl may take them lightly.

If the errors associated with this do not repel the Gemini lady, this union can successfully gain a foothold, with all the prospects of becoming permanent.

In sex, these two have every chance of finding complete understanding. It is especially important for Cancer, who has a special attachment to everything that gives him the brightness of feelings and impressions.

Gemini's ability to switch to extraneous things after getting out of bed hurts emotional Cancer. It is difficult for him to understand how, having left home, he can do other things, meet with friends and even never call for the whole day after everything, so that it’s night.

Between a woman of a water sign and a man-representative of the air element, the initiative to build love relationships usually comes from the male side. Such a guy behaves in a relaxed manner and it is quite natural for him to perform feats when conquering a girl he likes. Such a man really manages to show his best side and charm the Cancer girl. She gradually begins to come to the conclusion that with such a gentleman they really suit each other.

She is impressed by the persistence of the fan, and he is inspired by her interest in himself even more. And this is where his talents are revealed in all their glory.

If the Gemini man does not actively try to pull the watermark girl out of her "shell", instead providing her with a sense of security; and that, in turn, will remain an eternal mystery, which the romantic and inquisitive Gemini wants to further comprehend - then these two will be perfectly compatible.

In a pair, the Cancer man and the Gemini woman are more inclined to create a real family nest, it is the representative of the element of Water. For Gemini, the presence of a stamp in the passport is not of fundamental importance.

When Gemini transitions to the role of lawful wife, Cancer can establish a control regime in the house, although this does not prevent a woman from maintaining friendships with other men, and sometimes even flirting with them. This can be a reason for a stormy showdown. If Cancer does not calm down his jealousy, his behavior can even lead to a quick breakup.

Joint efforts will help the husband and wife save the marriage, in which Gemini will have to learn to be less windy and pay more attention to loved ones and everyday life, and Cancer - to give up the habit of controlling everything and calculating a hundred steps forward.

The relationship in marriage between a Gemini man and a Cancer woman also takes on a completely different character compared to what they were before the conclusion of the official union.

If a woman is completely ready to devote herself to family affairs, children and her husband, to take on the solution of current problems, then Gemini's interests extend far beyond the family circle. This can lead to the fact that the couple gradually begins to move away from each other. Warmth and trust can be returned if the spouses are united by a common hobby, for example, a summer residence or joint creativity.

The combination of these signs of the zodiac is such that they cannot be either separately or together. Therefore, the area of ​​communication should remain the home territory. Cancer should not establish complete control over a partner. At work, husband and wife are better off not intersecting.

The opposite of the characters of the Cancer man and the Gemini woman can become a bonding link in creating strong friendships between representatives of these signs. Gemini will be able to bring energy and optimism into these relationships, and Cancers will be that reliable shoulder that you can rely on in any situation. Born under a water sign will always listen, demonstrate understanding and suggest a way out of a difficult situation.

If these two don't criticize each other and try to force change, their friendship can last a lifetime.

A Gemini man and a Cancer woman can create the perfect friendship. These people always have a lot of common affairs and hobbies. The air sign is usually the initiator of all kinds of adventures, he takes on the role of organizer of holidays and meetings, and Cancers are ready to practically approach the implementation of such plans, having performed the main part of the work in the best possible way.

It is important for each of the members of a friendly union to maintain this relationship. They will never betray each other. And even if there is a misunderstanding, thanks to the wisdom of Cancer and the warm feelings of Gemini, it is possible to overcome it.

Working together on a specific task for representatives of these two signs is not a good idea. Here the opposite of their characters makes itself felt in full. For example, to do his job, a man - a water sign - needs to tune in, and Lady Air perceives any task as a challenge.

If the Gemini woman acts as the boss, and the subordinate is the Cancer man, sooner or later this state of affairs will lead to conflict. Gemini sometimes lacks authority for leadership, since they communicate with subordinates as with friends, and Cancer himself often turns out to be a leader by nature. In business, it is easier for him to make a decision on his own, rather than rely on the resolutions that they are trying to bring down on him from above. This leads to conflict.

A representative of the element of Water with his crustacean nature, getting into a commanding chair, turns out to be overly demanding and strict. Subordinates each time do not know what issue he wants to play it safe again. This becomes a cause for general tension. The Gemini woman is simply not able to work for a long time in such an atmosphere.And at the first opportunity it will leave from under the beginning of such a person.

The Cancer woman also tends to control everything and everyone, being in a leadership position. This will annoy a Gemini man no less than a representative of the weaker sex of the same sign. Such a subordinate is capable of working normally if he is not endlessly given instructions on how best to do the job. But such a boss will be able not to go with her advice and additional instructions to the employee only if she fully appreciated his talents.

If a Cancer woman acts as a subordinate to the boss - a representative of the air element - this alignment of forces is more encouraging. Such a lady will best prove herself as a secretary or assistant. She always feels the needs of the leader, knows how to carry out assignments on time. If he, in turn, shows some restraint in relation to her, does not begin to put pressure on her, everything will be fine.

It is better for the air sign, which clearly indicated the task of the assistant-Cancer, to leave her alone and wait until she completes the assignment. If the subordinate is not knocked out of the given rhythm, this will be the ideal employee.

If mom is Gemini, and Cancer is a son or daughter, in these relationships the mind will always conduct a conversation with feelings. In a small water sign, a sea of ​​emotions rages day and night, but his mother looks at life easier. And Cancer simply cannot keep up with the speed of changing her views on this or that.

At the same time, such a child quietly admires the activity and sociability of his mother, but realizes that he is simply not able to live at the same pace. He can hardly bear the cycle of friends around her.

The mother does not have time to keep track of how the mood of her child is changing. And he can, for a reason unclear to her, fall into gloom and even more than always, withdraw into himself. And only the ease with which this woman looks at life helps to ensure that this kind of period in the baby's soul does not drag on.

Over time, the Gemini mom begins to understand the border beyond which her words become a weapon that inflicts severe wounds on Cancer's feelings. A minimum of criticism, a maximum of encouragement is the motto that she comes to as she communicates with her own child. And if you criticize, then with humor and with the maximum benevolence.

The little representative of the water element loves to listen to his Gemini dad. Adult stories stir the imagination. Although, unlike his father, in real life, Cancer will not take unnecessary risks. He will not even go into the midst of people, because a wide circle of strangers is a burden to him. So it is better for dad to find personal time for a little son or daughter born under this sign, and not drag the child to happy holidays.

Such a child should be fully confident that his parent really cares about him. If the father always does not have time for him, this will cause Cancer a painful feeling of his own uselessness.

This kid will not follow rules that he does not understand. He definitely needs to know why it is necessary to do this and that, whether there is any practical sense in this. If he does not receive such explanations, it means that his parent, in the child's understanding, simply finds fault with him.

Such a child needs help to turn into a real person. This is possible only if he feels support from his father, who refrains from criticizing him for any reason and does not interfere with making decisions on his own.

Apparently, the parents of Cancers are given a Gemini child by God so that they do not become isolated in solitude and learn to comprehend the joys of the big world.

The proprietary habits of the mother - a representative of the element of Water - can make her completely dissolve in the life of her "airy" child.At the same time, she will try not to create restrictions for him, so that he does not feel squeezed and subordinate to the will of an adult.

For a long time, the Cancer mother has been trying to protect her child from any cold winds of the outside world. And everything around him is interesting to him. And every minute he is ready to embark on research. For him, the strength of family ties is not as important as for mom.

So that at some point such a child does not feel cramped in the family abode, the mother should accept the fact that he is completely independent and can take care of himself. He will also be glad to the feeling of security that she gives him.

Father Cancer, with his habit of controlling everything, can drive the freedom-loving Gemini into a certain framework. And of course, this will end with the fact that at a certain moment he refuses to abide by the imposed rules.

An active child is ready to communicate with dad without interruption, but he simply cannot withstand the constant chatter and all the new initiatives of the child. It is better for these two to set aside a certain time for communication, so that the father with full dedication can deal with his energetic child.

Then dad will be able to teach the young representative of the air element prudence and practicality, for which he, having matured, will say “thank you” to him more than once.

The opposite character traits of Cancers and Gemini become the cause of their conflicts. The vulnerability of the former is contrasted with the logical approach of the latter. This is a potential source of controversy.

Cancer's desire to control the behavior of a frivolous air sign also leads to quarrels.... No one can withstand the constant invasion of personal space, so the Gemini will quite legitimately begin to express claims to their partner about this.

People of this sign are always confident in themselves and consider themselves the smartest. But they often lack the understanding to understand that by demonstrating this to their half, they seem to say - I am smarter than you. Sensitive Cancer is always offended by this. Sooner or later, he will express his displeasure about this.

The question of money between these signs is also always on the agenda. Gemini tend to squander, indulge in pleasures, and Cancer's goal is to stock up on more funds and distribute all expenses in advance. Financial disagreements can lead a couple to break up.

Despite such a number of possible problems between these signs, two sane representatives of the air and water elements may well learn to listen to each other, protect the feelings of a partner and apply their character traits for the mutual benefit. This will strengthen the strength of their union. Cancer and Gemini will be able to carry mutual warmth throughout life.

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