Jealous girl: reasons and signs of jealousy, how to behave?

When a girl is overly jealous, it can be very difficult to build an even and fulfilling relationship with her. Jealousy interferes with mutual feelings, it provokes quarrels and conflicts, generates distrust of each other. Before you fight jealousy, you should understand why a lady is jealous.

Many are sure that if a girl is jealous, then this is good. After all, jealousy is evidence of her sincere and strong feelings towards the guy. But sometimes jealousy is too strong, and begins to interfere with the relationship. In addition, some girls are jealous of their soul mate for everyone: to his girlfriend, sister, mother, etc. Jealousy in such persons manifests itself constantly and without reason, and they may be jealous of the guy's friends or even of his work. What to do in this case? First you need to understand the reasons.

Sometimes it is simply impossible to understand why a girl is jealous of a guy. Anything can be hidden behind obvious signs of female jealousy. For example, she may have one reason for jealousy, and thinking about it, she comes up with a second and a third, then she begins to wind herself up, and as a result, the guy just wonders what he did wrong in front of her.

The main reason is that the guy is often weird and provocative. For example, he always flirts with the opposite sex. These can be distant relatives, acquaintances, colleagues, or just strangers. Of course, this behavior makes the girl feel jealous, and no matter how she tries to overcome this feeling in herself, she still cannot calmly react to such situations.

As for the strange behavior, it may be as follows: the guy is always texting with someone, communicating on social networks, and as soon as his girlfriend appears next to him, he hides his mobile phone. With such secretive behavior, he definitely provokes his beloved into jealousy. As a result, the girl will be forced to secretly look through phone messages and be suspicious of all your friends on the Internet.

The next reason for jealousy is to look for her self-doubt. This also happens. If a girl doubts herself, considers herself not beautiful enough, constantly thinks that you deserve more, then in the end she begins to be jealous of everyone in a row.

In addition, the girl may well be jealous of you just because you do not give her enough time. For example, she calls you at work, hears female voices next to you and your excuse that you are busy right now. In such a situation, a scandal cannot be avoided. Girls can feel the same jealousy if you always answer calls from your mother, sister, colleague, and you always have time for them.

Another common reason is rooted in the girl's very childhood. That is, she grew up in an atmosphere where jealousy, mistrust, suspicion, or even betrayal were constantly present. When a girl grows up and observes such parental relationships, she involuntarily transfers them to her personal life, because for her it was the norm.

In any case, if a girl is jealous, then there is a reason for that. Many girls are real owners and, starting a relationship, try to create their own cozy little world, into which they do not want to let anyone in. Therefore, your usual behavior, communication with other girls is perceived as a personal betrayal.

Before starting to act, the guy must definitely find out the reasons for himself. Is the problem really just her, her wrong perception of reality, or is it your fault, and you yourself constantly provoke quarrels?

If the reason is really in you, then you should start with yourself, then the jealousy of your soulmate will gradually fade away, and complete trust will reign between you again.

You need to change yourself, and not her, if:

• you are constantly late at work and do not warn that you will be late;
• you devote little time to her, and even spend weekends with friends, colleagues or just chat on social networks;
• you never ask her about how her day went, you are not interested in her hobbies, work;
• on the street, in a restaurant or in a store, you constantly look at girls;
• you never answer her phone calls, messages, and forget to give flowers, even on holidays.

If your relationship is dear to you, and you want to live together in peace, without scenes of jealousy and scandals, then the first thing your girlfriend needs is attention and care from you. In fact, this is much easier to do than it sounds. Start small. For example, just answer her phone calls throughout the day and do not talk to her irritably. If you cannot pick up the phone, then call back later when you have time. Send her at least one SMS during the day with the simplest question: “How are you? How is your day?" No matter how trite it may sound, girls really perceive such trifles as care and love from a man.

Try to give her flowers for no reason, go somewhere together on weekends. Compliment, especially in front of other women. Such an act on your part will not only make her feel loved and desired, but also help her to raise her self-esteem.As soon as a girl feels cared for by you, she will gain self-confidence and forget about any fears.

In order for a girl not to be jealous of you, try to look only at her in her company and not look at other representatives of the fair sex. Of course, when you are only in the male company of your friends, you can look at other beauties. But doing this in the presence of your soulmate is not worth it. Moreover, never praise other girls in front of her, do not compliment them or admire their abilities. Even if these girls are your sisters or relatives. This behavior on your part will be misunderstood by your girlfriend, and as a result, jealousy will begin to arise in her. By the way, if in your house there are often friends, sisters of your wife, then you, too, should behave more than restrained, and not give any reasons for jealousy.

If your significant other is jealous of you very often and for no reason, then you should talk frankly with her. This is not difficult. On the contrary, the girl will appreciate such an act on your part. After all, by calling her into a frank conversation, you show her your care and concern for her. The conversation should take place in a calm atmosphere, without scandals and mutual reproaches.

Start the conversation with a simple phrase that will set it on the right wavelength: “Darling, I want to understand what is happening to you. Let's talk and figure it out together. " Hearing this, every girl will understand that she is not indifferent to you, that you think about her, worry and worry about her. During a conversation, you should often talk to her about your feelings in order to convince her that all doubts and fears should be left behind, that you love her and value the relationship.

Faced with the jealousy of their soulmate, many guys make gross mistakes, and thus only exacerbate the situation. If you see that the girl is offended at you, that she is jealous, then you should start a calm and frank conversation with her - this will be right. But if you start shouting in response to her reproaches, accuse her of thinking everything to her, or leave, slamming the door, then this will be your mistake. Thanks to this behavior, she will only be firmly convinced that she was right.

Another mistake most men make is that they let the situation take its course. and sincerely believe that she will calm down and everything will work out. At such moments, men ignore the messages, calls, behavior and claims of their significant other. Ignoring your beloved and pretending everything is fine is a mistake to avoid.

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