Sympathy for a guy: signs and rules of recognition

Sympathy between a man and a woman is a topic around which passions and disputes never subside. Guys do not always manage to correctly perceive the signals given by the girls. It seems that the beauty communicates nicely, smiles back and studies with a glance, but this does not at all guarantee a successful relationship with her. How to tell a bored Amazon from a huntress in love? What criteria give out the attraction of the weaker sex? This should be dealt with thoroughly.

People are able to interact with each other not only through the transmission of words. Only 10% of information is transmitted by words, and 90% is body movements, gestures, facial expressions, intonation and timbre of the voice. To avoid misunderstandings, it is not necessary to know the psychology of men and women. It is enough to learn to determine what the "body" says... This unusual language will help you recognize the signs of a girl's affection for a guy.

Often, men misunderstand women's behavior. It so happens that sympathy for a guy is manifested by pronounced dissatisfaction with the object of attention. This is some kind of uncontrollable feminine trick that must be treated with irony.

All the signs that a sympathetic woman sends cannot be determined even by scientists, psychologists and seduction specialists. But you can give a certain averaged list that helps in deciphering female behavior at the initial stage.

There are a number of signs to determine if a girl is interested.

Direct:

• invites you to a cafe, to a movie show, invites you to be alone;
• hints about the desire to get to know each other better.

Indirect:

• tries to stay nearby at work or with a company;
• does not let out of sight;
• tries to touch, as if by chance (with thigh, hand, hair).

If a nice guy is a colleague, then the girl constantly draws attention to her person, for example, by dropping a stack of documents or asking to fix the computer. If the object of sympathy suddenly lingers in the working walls, the girl is also in no hurry to go home.

If a girl is carried away, she herself gives signals - signs of sympathy. One has only to take a closer look at the girl's behavior.

• Convergence... The girl seems to be approaching inadvertently, wants to be close, slowly penetrates into personal space, finding herself forty centimeters from the guy's face. She is waiting for a response - probably for him to smile, look in the eyes or react with a touch ...
• Playing with hair... Playing with the strands, female fingers touch them, while the girl gazes intently at the object of sympathy. She clearly wants a man's hand to touch a curl. When this happens - HE is caught in the web of girlish passion!
• Light exhibitionism... The dress (jacket) unobtrusively slides off the shoulder, revealing smooth skin. The girl does not seem to notice what is happening. Moreover, this happens when a man's gaze is directed precisely at her. You can also expose other parts of the body, such as the neck or thigh. It all depends on the boundaries of what is permissible, upbringing, goals, situations.
• Shyness... She looks away and looks down - the very decency and modesty. This is the surest sign of being carried away by the interlocutor. If you try to look away from her for a long time, she will try to intercept it again, resorting to playing with her eyes.
• Sidelong glances... The girl glances furtively at the guy. She is definitely interested in him, but so far she is trying to seem imperturbable. So it looks from the outside, but you can't fool a woman who knows the secrets of female flirting! It is important for a man to make sure that there is no competitor behind his back, and sidelong glances are taken to the address. Then you can safely approach the beauty and look for an excuse to start a dialogue.
• Silly game... When a girl often giggles, says or does stupid things in the presence of a guy, reacts to situations like a little girl, you should not turn into a boy with her. These are just another hidden female crush signals. It is important for a girl not to play too much so that she is not considered inadequate. Remember, your signs are not addressed to a boy, but to an adult!
• Stroking... A man needs to know that when stroking her shoulder, hip or unobtrusively raised fallen strap, the girl shows signs of attention to the one looking at her at this moment. Representatives of the stronger sex like it when a woman caresses herself, so subconsciously it attracts their attention. A man should keep in mind that he is being invited to chat.
• Attraction by decorations... If a girl looks at a guy with a gaze, while playing with a pendant or bracelet, this is also an attractive trick. She probably wants him to come closer.

A universal way of expressing feelings is verbal, through the transfer of information by speech or letter (including correspondence in social networks, instant messengers, SMS). But even this understandable expression of interest is not always perceived correctly by guys.

How to recognize sympathy on the part of a girl:

• generous with compliments;
• shows interest in your life and plans;
• gladly answers your questions;
• of all, it singles out and communicates only with you.

By studying body language, you can unravel the sympathy or antipathy of the interlocutor when communicating. Some nuances will help you draw the right conclusions and prepare an action strategy:

• asymmetric posture (a girl, sitting, rests on one leg, and puts her hip forward with the other);
• a half-open mouth (with exposure of the upper teeth);
• playing with lips (biting, licking);
• manipulations with your hair (straightens, twists strands, throws them back);
• dilated pupils (interest and excitement);
• interest in facial expressions (raises eyebrows, blinks often);
• repeats the movements of the interlocutor;
• active gestures;
• unreasonable giggle, words out of place.

In a fit of tender feelings for a certain man, you can safely admit it to him or transparently hint. But recognition will bring satisfaction only with the assurance of reciprocity. If there is no sympathy on the part of a guy, he does not need to know about the feelings of a girl in love... Although modern psychologists advise not to keep experiences in yourself. Even if you show feelings and don't get reciprocity, there will still be relief. However, this step needs to be weighed well.

Taking into account the indecision of modern guys, one has to judge their sympathy by looks and gestures. If they do not change in comparison with other girls, then it is better not to subject your mental balance to fluctuations.

Before letting a guy know about his tender feelings, it is important to evaluate his behavior from the outside. He can be indecisive by nature or only when it comes to personal experiences. There is a possibility that the chosen one is simply not used to responsible decisions and the manifestation of initiative. Here you have to be prepared that you will have to leave the place of the leader in the pair for yourself.

Some emancipated girls are completely satisfied with this option. But if you want to be behind a man like a stone wall - look for another groom. If the object of love is adequate and courageous and just hesitates to express his feelings, you need to act!

The main rule is that you will have to tell about sympathy personally, but not by sending a letter expressing feelings, but face to face. It is better to do this unobtrusively, offering a worthy reason for a personal meeting. Whispering in your ear in a company is not a very suitable way to attract a guy you like. He may be delighted with the quiet whispers, but there is a possibility that the situation will turn out to be tense. Friends can begin to tease him and pester him with questions about his innermost.

As a reason for the meeting, you can choose a celebration of any date, the premiere of a blockbuster, a trip to the ice rink and even an elementary tea party in a cafe. The option that you need to consult a guy on a serious topic works great... A real hero will come to the rescue in a difficult situation and will be glad when a grateful girl drinks coffee with him and talks about her feelings.

It will probably be difficult to pronounce important words. If the girl constantly stumbles and blushes, the guy may well not understand what is needed from him. By their nature, guys are slow-witted, so you will have to speak clearly and specifically. It is worth preparing a speech without using cliched phrases and quotes from feature films.

If a guy likes a girl, and he is ready to reciprocate, it is important not to scare away an already indecisive object. You need to refrain from flirting with the men around you, so as not to create an opinion of yourself as a frivolous person. No need to embarrass the guy from the first meetings with frank offers, outfits and load with memories of childhood and your exes.

Thoughtful conversation topics will play into the hands. Gently lead the interlocutor to the discussion of an interesting general topic - the aerobatics of a female pickup truck. At first, it is also recommended not to touch on the topics of family, marriage and children.... Career - yes, leisure - especially books, movies - ideal. Otherwise, you can frighten off the guy, and he will no longer dare to draw closer.

In a sense, their presence simplifies the task of seduction, but at the same time complicates the process. There is no guarantee that a letter to a messenger or e-mail will be noticed and read immediately. There is a chance that at the moment of receiving a written confession, the guy will not be alone, but in the company of a friend, brother or even mom.

If you want to say about sympathy by calling on the phone, you may not guess over time. For example, at the time of the call, a guy may be traveling in public transport or be in another crowded place. In such situations, it is very inconvenient to conduct conversations on such a personal topic. That's why dating remains the most winning option.

From the influx of feelings, sometimes you want to shout about them to the whole neighborhood, or tell your friend about them. It is necessary to contain this desire for the benefit of possible future relationships. Either two participants in the story, or only a girl in love, should know about caring about a young man. Also a failed option is to contact someone with a request to convey to the guy about sympathy. The mediator may not cope with the task and convey in the wrong tone, etc. As a result, everyone will be disappointed.

In fact, there are so many happy families, formed solely by the recognition of a girl, made in the right environment and with the right words.