Scorpio behavior in love and relationships
Scorpio is a zodiac sign, whose representatives have a difficult character. Most of all goes to those who are trying to build relationships with them, therefore, for the successful development of a joint story, a person claiming the love of Scorpio must understand the partner well and be ready for all the accompanying trials.
Characteristic
Representatives of this zodiac sign are characterized by a very bright passion - such a person is very prone to hypertrophied feelings and is ready to sacrifice absolutely everything for them. In love, such a person is prone to emotions, but the cold calculation, characteristic of him, in other situations, here fades not even into the background, but into the background. Scorpio can either love or hate, but any intermediate options for emotions are absolutely not his way.
Vivid emotions do not always benefit Scorpio and his relationship - he is extremely affectionate and may even get bored with this.
At the same time, such a partner is prone to poorly controlled jealousy., and in case of offense, he is able to say a lot of unnecessary things. Interestingly, an individual born under this sign is generally very prone to an active sex life, but in some cases, improper upbringing forces such a person to close down and abandon their desires, which often leads to a real disaster. Such a bright personality, who does not have the opportunity to adequately realize himself in the sexual field, turns into a cruel dictator - in particular, this is precisely the common reason why many Scorpios torture their partners.
Moreover, it is the abundance of emotions that is usually the main tactic of the representatives of this sign, which is aimed at conquering a potential partner. The crazy sense of purpose, which is quite typical for such people, cannot but be accompanied by charisma, which attracts others. On the part of Scorpio, it usually does not leave a vivid impression, but sometimes it is enough to communicate with him quite a bit for his charm to work. However, such a person cannot imagine himself without strong feelings, and they do not even have to be exclusively positive, so a potential partner should prepare for constant shocks.
What kind of partner do you need?
Since Scorpio is difficult to consider as a neutral person, for him the best partner in a relationship will be the one who complements him as much as possible. This means that in the strict requirements of such a person, the partner must fully comply, and in everything else - be the opposite.
For example, an immensely self-confident, but very jealous Scorpio is in dire need of a partner who will not claim leadership in relationships and will give up the reins of family life, and will not change either because of his own insecurity or because of a tendency to fidelity. Again, the emotional outbursts of Scorpio, including those based on jealousy, should not destroy the marriage, therefore the ideal partner should treat them normally and not worry too much about them, even though they react to them - otherwise the Scorpio itself will explode.
Since the representatives of the zodiac sign in question are very purposeful, it is quite difficult for them to observe the complete amorphousness of the life aspirations of a partner.
This is not to say that they necessarily need an overly active life partner, because he could focus too much on his goals to the detriment of relationships or even take over leadership in the latter, but in general, Scorpio likes people who work hard and have a purpose in life.
By the way, a sign so prone to emotions constantly requires emotional recharging, and it would be very good for a relationship if such energy were predominantly positive. A certain mystery of a partner will benefit Scorpio, because such a life partner can be an inexhaustible source of inspiration.
Signs of falling in love
Scorpio in love is a complete contradiction, because in general, the tyrannical representative of the sign is ready to literally become a slave to the object of his adoration. It is not always very easy to understand that such a person loves you - most often he does not admit, but is silent, although he shows his disposition with rather noticeable signs of attention.
A completely secretly in love Scorpio does not exist - he behaves in a characteristic manner, and all that remains is to correctly interpret his behavior.
- A typical person born under this sign is in many ways prone to narcissism, and a huge part of his time is taken by dedication - after all, he must sometime work to achieve his goals. If Scorpio suddenly found time for you, and even more than once, it is worth thinking - maybe you are his goal and you are. If it is known for sure that such a person abandoned his plans for you, this is definitely love.
- Scorpio, who loves to control any situation in his life, is very prone to psychological games. For him, falling in love with a person means learning to control him, therefore he will probably try to artificially provoke certain emotions in a potential partner, for example, make him jealous. If other provoked emotions can still leave doubts, then an attempt to provoke jealousy is a very eloquent hint.
- People born under this sign don't seem too secretive, but there are some things they usually don't talk about.Given Scorpio's narcissism, he is unlikely to be happy if an outsider sees him in a losing position, even if this is a story from the past. If he gives in to something or is able to point out his own weaknesses, then you are definitely not an outsider. Most often, the openness of such a partner indicates very serious intentions.
- Long conversations are another activity that Scorpio will not engage in with just anyone.
This fits well into his understanding of the correct distribution of time, and if it is for chatting, even if in the form of an interesting dispute, it means that future relationships are quite possible.
Attitudes towards love and marriage
Love for Scorpio is another mysterious game, a kind of challenge that kind of calls into question the ability of this person to subjugate a partner. The meaning of the relationship for the representatives of this sign largely lies in conquering an initially independent person and keeping control over her for as long as possible. From the outside it usually doesn't look too romantic, but it is.
Moreover, the partner is usually not really spoiled by the classic manifestations of love from Scorpio. Although he is very inclined to get attached to his soul mate, outwardly he does not show this, considering the very fact of his constant presence sufficient. Moreover, in the words of such a person, obvious sympathy does not always sound - for example, he may speak of a partner as a rival. However, the latter usually indicates exactly good prospects for a relationship, because for Scorpio they are a competition, where a good rival is needed.
It's relatively easy to make a first impression on a Scorpio. - although he appreciates external beauty, he is still not particularly picky about it and, in principle, does not consider it a determining factor. Frankness and sincere feelings are much more important, because emotions are extremely important for this person. A typical Scorpio can look for his partner for a long time, but in life he is monogamous, and will stop in his search at the very moment when he finds a person who out loud declares his sincere love and is ready to completely submit to the eccentric nature of the companion.
Compatibility
Based on what traits Scorpio is looking for in other people, one can draw a conclusion about which signs of the zodiac suit him and which ones do not. Among the best potential partners are Cancer, Capricorn and Pisces.
For example, Cancer in many cases is even overly passive., that is why the activity and passion of Scorpio seems to such a person a very harmonious trait for a relationship. Cancer himself is very modest and often underestimates himself, therefore he will be infinitely loyal to the leader of the couple, and this will also be appreciated. Somewhere in the depths of his soul, Scorpio will believe that such a partner cannot cope without him, and this will provoke a huge sense of responsibility, which only strengthens the couple.
A huge plus of Capricorn paired with Scorpio is that he positively perceives outbursts of jealousy of the latter, considering them a kind of praise. Capricorn himself is quite hardworking, but in order to achieve the highest goals, he does not always have enough emotions and charge, which only a partner with such a violent character can give him.
Scorpio in such a relationship perceives the companion as his own creation, which largely achieves success thanks to his participation, and he, of course, likes such a game.
As for Pisces, they are a mystery, which, however, is not always able to actively resist the surrounding world. Here, a unique situation develops when it is not Scorpio who feeds the partner, but feeds himself from him, charging with additional emotions, which he spends on additional support for the companion.
In general, a Scorpio relationship is possible with another Scorpio or Taurus., but on the way to happiness, such a tandem must resolve important differences. For example, this zodiac sign is characterized by the desire for leadership in relationships, but when there are two such people in a pair at once, their attempts to find out who is in charge can destroy any perspective very quickly. It's also good if a woman gives in, because of the two sexes, it is the weak one who is more willing to compromise - only then two identical signs will get along. As for Taurus, he perfectly understands Scorpio in everything, both partners perfectly see each other's shortcomings, and most importantly, it is completely unusual for both to remain silent about this.
With whom a relationship with Scorpio has practically no chance, it is with Libra, Leo and Gemini. In the first case, harmonious Libra, which initially attracts a partner with their poise, are able to drive the Scorpio to madness because of their frivolity and ability to easily change landmarks, while the partner's hysteria is usually a bright stop signal for them. A similar situation is with Gemini - they value their freedom too highly to endure the partner's attempts to subdue them for a long time. Paired with Leo, the difficulty lies not only in the enormous selfishness of both partners, but also in the difference in views on relationships - Scorpio is more interested in passion, while his companion will prefer tenderness.
Advice
Being with a Scorpio is not an easy task, but if you really want to, you will have to pay great attention to following some important tips.
How to conquer?
Representatives of the sign do not immediately distinguish anyone from the crowd and are ready to pay a little attention to everyone - you should not regard this as sympathy. Such a person can be liked not so much by his appearance as by his mindset and character, therefore it is worth acting deliberately. The point is to stand out from the crowd and be an original person - only then will they begin to clearly distinguish you.
Flattery is not for Scorpio, who always keeps in his head that there is no better one, therefore, clearly stretched praise is perceived by him as an attempt to achieve something.
Since such a person loves to constantly prove to himself that he is the best, you just need to be a worthy opponent for him - even if only in defending your own opinion. It is important not to go too far here, because the logic must always be reasoned so as not to look stupid.
Scorpio is very fond of eroticism, so you can play on this. You need to find a fine line between seductiveness and availability and not cross it, but a significant delay in the first intimacy can simply scare a partner away.
How to keep?
To keep a Scorpio, it is important not to lose all the benefits that were initially demonstrated. Scorpio's partner must always remain a worthy rival and an interesting personality for him; if the emphasis was on weakness, then the companion should always need the support of Scorpio. If everything is done correctly, such a person will not quit - after all, he is a monogamous person. He can make peace in the event that the partner admits his mistake and himself will be engaged in restoring the relationship, but if the reason was jealousy, the task will become much more complicated.
How to return?
Scorpios are not those people who part too easily, and if he leaves himself, then there was either no relationship at all, or there is disappointment in a partner, and then it is hardly possible to return him. Parting is usually provoked by a routine that the representatives of this sign cannot stand and from which they rapidly flee. In general, a Scorpio who has fallen out of love is a contradiction, therefore, in the presence of sincere love, Scorpio himself is often left behind, rather than vice versa.
For a general psychological characteristic of Scorpio, see the following video.