Sagittarius and Gemini: characteristics of the union and the secrets of harmonious relationships
Sagittarius and Gemini are intelligent signs, so they will always have something to talk about. The rapprochement of these representatives of the zodiac first occurs on the basis of friendship and common values, and then on a love and sexual basis.
Characteristic
The governing planets of the signs are social and intellectual planets, for Sagittarius it is Jupiter, and for Gemini it is Mercury. Jupiter makes Sagittarius a person who is interested in business, study and self-development, which is the main value for Sagittarius. Such a person can ignore the creation of a long-term relationship for a very long time. Due to the lack of desire for marriage, it is more likely that the relationship between Sagittarius and Gemini will be created and developed by the sign of Air. Despite the fact that Venus in the sign of Gemini is not very developed, representatives of this sign are very interested in weddings. Sometimes it seems that Gemini creates families out of sporting interest. This is like the first point in the race of life that they strive to achieve. Although in the family itself, Gemini has a calculation that permeates their entire essence, because Mercury is not so much a planet of intelligence as of communication and commerce.
Sagittarius are often attractive to Gemini in terms of calculation., because they can demonstrate career achievements, showing themselves as very promising individuals or demonstrate material values.Therefore, it all starts with the fact that Gemini aims to create a family with Sagittarius and consistently goes to her, using all sorts of tricks and manipulations. After all, it simply does not know how to do otherwise, it is necessary to put the sharp mind, given by nature, somewhere. Mercury makes Gemini not only study and work in the field of commerce, but also makes them great communicators. Gemini can keep up a conversation on any topic.
At the first stage of communication, this quality creates ease in communication with Sagittarius.
Possible meeting place
The acquaintance of Sagittarius and Gemini is most likely in common groups, where representatives of these signs love to rotate so much. However, in a formal setting, they behave stiffly, and the real interest wakes up at parties.
It can be:
- corporate evenings;
- presentations;
- contests;
- Birthdays;
- weddings.
There are always a lot of Gemini at such events. Sagittarians often rotate in various locations where rewards are distributed. They love to study and receive degrees.
To get acquainted with Sagittarius, it is enough to start being interested in his successes and achievements, ask him to show the received diplomas and certificates. Gemini know how to ask Sagittarius in detail, be sure to give him a few compliments, and the more, the better. It's hard to overdo it.
To get to know a Gemini man, you need to find a group of people where the most lively discussion of a topic is taking place, the Gemini man will be in the center of the discussion. The Gemini girl at the event is dressed in the brightest and most tasteless dress, walks with a glass of champagne and talks to everyone in a row. In general, Gemini has a mood of walking and wandering at parties, so it's the easiest way to get to know them. Most often, Sagittarius thinks how to get rid of Gemini. Therefore, in order to seduce the sign of Fire, you need to have a sense of proportion both in communication and in the use of alcoholic beverages.
Union types
Sagittarius and Gemini are of different types and are drawn to each other, guessing hidden features unconsciously. The characters depend on the constellation in which the planet-ruler of the zodiac sign is located. For example, if Jupiter in a Sagittarius representative is located in Capricorn or Cancer, then he will be serious, responsible and inclined to create a family, and if in Aries or Aquarius, then he will be risky and frivolous. The same applies to Gemini: if the representative of the air sign has Mercury in the sign of Libra or Gemini, then he will be talkative and cunning, and if in the sign of Virgo or Capricorn, then serious and intellectual.
Starting a family
The Sagittarius man, belonging to the serious subtype, respects family values and is aimed at finding a wife, but is inactive in a relationship and is engaged in a career and study. Such a Sagittarius may be interested in a Gemini woman who wants to show her qualities as a life friend and muse. Gemini women usually "know how" to get married, they have such a talent. After all, they perceive marriage as one of the projects that they are implementing. An intelligent and serious Gemini woman discovers in Sagittarius what she is looking for in her future husband: calm, respected by friends and colleagues, authoritative at work, smart and talented.
These qualities attract women of different zodiac signs, but Gemini is the one who knows how to build communication with Sagittarius.
With someone who is shy and shy in a relationship, she will be the first to take the initiative. The seduction of a Sagittarius can be carried out for some time on his territory by the method of sequential assault. First, the woman hugs him in public, then she sleeps with him, her things are in the apartment, but she does not stop there and connects the man to common business projects. The last step is a joint journey, where, according to the woman's plan, Sagittarius must propose to her.
However, the Gemini woman is not always patient, and if at one of the stages the plan fails, then the lady may simply not stand the Sagittarius passivity in the relationship and switch to someone else. Sagittarius wants to marry, but he does not know who, and does not know what to do in a relationship, and therefore takes a passive position, allowing the woman to conquer him. If Sagittarius misses his chance and the Gemini woman leaves for another, then he will certainly have jealousy, because Sagittarius is proud and will make attempts to return his girlfriend.
Holiday romances
Jupiter is the ruler of the 9th house, therefore it causes a desire for travel in Sagittarius. Gemini are also fond of tourism, and, using the qualities of a strong Mercury, they are able to find profitable travel deals. Therefore, acquaintances between Sagittarius and Gemini on a journey are not uncommon.
The meeting is likely by the seashore or on the plane, at the hotel, behind the bar. Such novels are distinguished by a limited duration, Sagittarius behave differently abroad than at home, their Jupiter becomes even stronger. Show curiosity and strive to see everything or learn something.
Gemini also travel with friends or find them locally. Therefore, their only chance to prolong the romance is to start being interested in something together. It also happens that, having quickly met abroad, they are added to friends on social networks and remember each other a little later.
Compatibility in love relationships
Compatibility between Sagittarius and Gemini arises under the influence of the interaction of their strong and weak planets.
Venus is responsible for the ability to love in the horoscope., which is in a weak position for both Sagittarius and Gemini, so they do not particularly know how to fall in love and idealize the object for a long time. Relationships in their understanding are friendship, communication, mutual understanding and sex. If feelings arise in the process, then good.
But they do not like to experience feelings without concrete relationships.
Sagittarius and Gemini are often fugitives from intimacy. After all, they always have where to go. Sagittarius love to go to conferences, on business trips, to the dacha. But Gemini can just get into the car and drive away wherever they look. Therefore, for any problem in the relationship, they run away.
If they wanted something, then immediately. This is how these signs discourage each other. They can force intimacy without feeling the partner's willingness simply because they don't want to wait. On this basis, conflicts can arise. Also, the couple do not like to wait when the other is offended or wants to be alone. This is especially true of Gemini, who will write and call exactly when Sagittarius wants loneliness.
Sagittarius takes positively the idea of marriage only speculatively., in fact, she scares him at an unconscious level, which is due to the fact that Saturn, who is in a weak position in Sagittarius, is responsible for shaping the relationship. After all, Jupiter is responsible for expansion, and marriage is in some way a limitation of possibilities, which contradicts the very principle of Jupiter. Therefore, Sagittarius are considered the most incorrect signs of the zodiac.
From this point of view, Sagittarius can be sympathetic to Gemini, who by nature are windy and fickle, want to start a family, but also in theory. In practice, they run away from one relationship to another at the slightest problem. Keeping Gemini in a relationship can only be a stable partner, which Sagittarius is not. Therefore, the relationship of signs is a constant parting and reunion.
Compatibility in feelings of partners is poor, because their emotions arise at the most inopportune moment: Gemini is too fast, and Sagittarius is too slow. Gemini are inquisitive and are attracted to everything new, which provokes falling in love right away, however, seeing that this is inappropriate, people do not reveal their feelings. They have to communicate for a long time, without showing what is happening in the shower, this makes Gemini vulnerable.Sagittarius still does not even suspect that the other person is interested in him, and can say a lot of unnecessary things.
The level of compatibility in sex will depend on the external attractiveness and relaxedness of the partners. Sagittarius can be shy and shy sexually, they are very difficult to conquer. They will run away at the first opportunity. Their modesty is associated with a hidden lack of confidence in their attractiveness. The second sexual type is, on the contrary, overly relaxed Sagittarius, who can have sex at the first opportunity. However, it doesn't mean anything to them.
Many Sagittarians behave after sex as if nothing had happened.
Gemini are usually very relaxed and take sex just as easily. This applies to both men and women. Modesty is not about them, because Gemini is interested in everything, they are very sociable, and even superficially fall in love, all this helps them to try different partners.
This is one of the qualities that attracts a Sagittarius.
Sexual relationships are often based on the following scenarios:
- Sagittarius and Gemini periodically have sex while remaining friends;
- after sex, both diverge, not attaching importance to it;
- Gemini woman tries to seduce the cold and inaccessible Sagittarius.
Sagittarius women put their personal life in the background, believing that they need to be conquered. Remaining passive in love, they wait for the perfect man, refusing many who claim their attention. The Gemini man has every chance of intimacy with such a woman, because he is very pleasant to talk to and smart, can literally seduce a Sagittarius woman with his brains. Men of the sign of Air love to show off their erudition, to quote various facts from the encyclopedia, which they read in the evenings.
Sagittarius women are interested in conversations about philosophy, psychology, business, different countries and cultures. But the ideal option is if communication starts already in an atmosphere of common interests. Therefore, it is important that the partners belong to the same team, where there are common topics for conversation.
Also, image is important for the relationship between Gemini and Sagittarius. The Gemini man has a talent for ladies' man and can dress beautifully. This man suits suits, as well as informal clothes like printed shirts. Sagittarius women appreciate just a status or just a stylish look, so a Gemini man can cause sympathy for himself already with his image. The style of the man of the air sign also appeals to the woman.
Sagittarius girl loves brave men: she can ride a motorcycle or a car, demonstrate skills in playing billiards, and equestrian sports can impress such a woman. The fiery woman is brave and loves field conditions, but sometimes she is so busy with work that she does not have time to think about it. If a Gemini man allows her to plunge into the atmosphere of entertainment, she will appreciate this and respond with her feelings, and if a woman of the Fire sign experiences love, she will also want sexual intimacy.
Therefore, a passionate romance is quite likely.
In a relationship where Gemini is a woman and Sagittarius is a man, you should also expect more initiative from the lady. The thing is that Sagittarius men are usually either very serious or very fickle. The first subtype can be identified by their appearance, which matches the work dress code. That is, if it is customary to walk in a suit at work, then they will walk everywhere in a suit, if Sagittarius is a trainer in the gym, then they will walk everywhere in sportswear. This suggests that Jupiter and achievements on this planet are reflected in individuality. Such men attract Gemini women not only at the level of the soul, but also at the level of calculation.
The woman of the sign of Air becomes a companion, student, colleague and begins to follow the man everywhere, catching every word and literally writing down quotes after him.Gemini can drive other women away from him by their mere presence and play the role of his secretary, for example, answering calls and booking tickets.
Ideally, Sagittarius is a businessman, and the Gemini woman works for him. A work relationship creates a wonderful backdrop for a relationship. The fact is that it is difficult for Sagittarius to stay in an informal atmosphere long enough.
When meeting a Gemini girl in a club, it will most likely end on one passionate night, and in the morning the man will rush to his business. To win the place of a life partner, you need to penetrate literally all spheres of a man and his life, which a Gemini woman can do, but only if she has enough tact and patience for it.
Secrets of a harmonious marriage
Suppose that a man and a woman of the sign of Fire and Air went through the initial stage of conquest and decided to get married.
The idea of marriage can only occur to a Gemini woman, which will allow her to bring Sagittarius to this decision with gentle hints. Sagittarius men can offer to get married only if there is no other way out. Although the state of a married man is pleasant to Sagittarius, because it gives him a new status in society, which can be proudly demonstrated. Their wedding is luxurious if a male careerist uses it to create new business connections. If a man belongs to the category of travelers and philosophers, then the wedding can be boho, beach or just romantic.
In family life with Sagittarius, the main thing is to respect his personal space, which the Gemini wife may not be able to do right away. Women of the sign of Air want to intervene in everything that concerns them.
How compatible a Gemini wife and a Sagittarius husband are in everyday life can be determined by whether they love the same music, food, drinks, and whether they have a common hobby.
It is important for a man that his wife shares his hobbies, since all his hobbies are stable and do not change over the years. If a Sagittarius man plays football, he will play football for another 20 years, if he loves a certain cuisine or is on a diet, then imposing other habits is a path to misunderstanding.
Misunderstanding is, perhaps, what can destroy the union. For Sagittarius, understanding is agreeing with him. The wife just needs to learn to say "yes", "you are right" as often as possible, and also to give compliments. The more praise, the more Sagittarius becomes attached to his wife.
For the Gemini wife, it is important how successful their marriage will seem in the eyes of others, which makes her want to accept invitations to parties and holidays of friends and relatives. This area of life can be a source of conflicts, however, provocations of others are possible here. Gemini react to provocations instantly and love to get involved in various scandals. If a Sagittarius husband sees his wife swearing with someone, he may doubt whether the combination of their characters is a good one. The fear that the wife is a brawler can make the husband doubt her, because he has a weak loving intuition, which causes uncertainty that the other person suits him.
Also, one of the sources of possible problems in marriage is Sagittarius flirting at parties with other women. Spouses should agree in advance on the acceptable boundaries of flirting, because the Gemini woman also loves to flirt for fun, but she herself does not consider it a sin. Therefore, keeping each other on a short leash is a bad idea. Flirting in revenge on a partner can lead to bad consequences, because Sagittarius is one of the most led signs on female initiative, his intuitive desire to expand opportunities in the sexual sphere defies any restrictions. ...
Only the iron hand of the Gemini woman can save from possible betrayal, which will take her husband away from a potential seductress in time
Sagittarius and Gemini are afraid of marriage, so among these couples there are several types of unions that arose as if by themselves.
- Student marriage is a family that arose under the influence of circumstances. At first they studied in the same course, then rented a room together, then decided to get married. Both zodiac signs are intelligent and love to learn, so they often meet at universities or in courses.
- Marriage with a difference in age: in such a union, a Sagittarius woman is not getting married for the first time, and the Gemini man is younger than her. Sagittarius women consider it their duty to get married in the interval of 30-40 years. After all, the spouse is a reflection of their female attractiveness. Therefore, if such a woman has been engaged in a career all her life, then by the age of 40 she is already firmly on her feet, the Gemini husband is the man who will be outwardly pleasant and will be able to teach her how to have fun.
- An office romance is a relationship that grew into a wedding under the influence of close communication at work. Streltsov women are physically turned on by the official atmosphere, which makes them want to spin office romances. Passionate kisses in the office and the opportunity to wear a sexy business suit are what motivates a fire sign woman to run to work.
The secrets of a happy marriage with a Fire sign woman are simple, but difficult to keep.
- It is good if the spouses create a common business together. The Sagittarius woman does not need to be supported, she cannot stand dependence, usually she enters into a relationship with her material base. But if she is on maternity leave, then she needs to be given the opportunity to work.
- You should not flirt with her friends, the Sagittarius wife does not forgive this.
- The Gemini husband should propose new joint travel projects and organize leisure activities.
If you use these simple guidelines, then the marriage will be happy and interesting for both.
Friendly relationship
Friendship between air and fire signs is possible due to common interests and the same intellectual level.
Friends Sagittarius and Gemini meet at school and help each other in their studies. Moreover, Sagittarius always knows how to please the teacher, and Gemini always prepares a thousand cheat sheets. In entertainment and parties, the Sagittarius lady may be more modest at first, but her friend will show the most fashionable places in the city and introduce her classmates.
In an older age, girlfriends try not to lose their youthful enthusiasm and meet mainly for entertainment. After all, next to them, a craving for adventure awakens.
These girlfriends go to clubs and meet men, and they can also go on trips together, short and long distances.
Friends Sagittarius and Gemini can be both frivolous and serious. Sagittarius is often the organizer of leisure activities in groups and loves to organize parties, Gemini always go to the rescue, bringing a large number of friends. If men met at work, then they are more interested in discussing commercial issues than having fun, which will allow them to become business partners.
Friendship between a man and a woman is possible, but difficult., since Sagittarius loves meetings on official occasions, and Gemini, not seeing feelings for themselves, quickly lose interest. If the Sagittarius guy is friends with the Gemini girl, then they will most likely be connected by some common goals, for example, helping with their studies or work. If the Sagittarius girl is friends with the Gemini guy, then this can only happen in a common company.
Possible difficulties
Difficulties in the relationship of signs are the result of their independent natures.
Here are the main problems in a relationship:
- Sagittarius avoids close communication, constantly referring to work and travel;
- Gemini do not pay attention to Sagittarius, because he has enough things to do and fans;
- both partners want a relationship with someone else or are already married.
Both partners do not have strong motivation for rapprochement, so their relationship can develop fully only under the influence of circumstances.
Sagittarius and Gemini must have something in common to create a full-fledged relationship:
- Work;
- studies;
- joint travel;
- common cause;
- social activities.
If one of them has a strong desire to build relationships, then the best way is to start participating in the social life of the other. Sagittarius are often the leaders of some associations or teach something, you can get closer to them in the classroom. However, don't expect a leader to mix work and relationships. In the classroom, Sagittarius may look unapproachable, but after them he may want to have fun. If you create such situations regularly, then Gemini can get closer to the sign of Fire.
Making peace with Sagittarius is easy, because he is unforgiving and always ready to resume communication, but Gemini usually change their attitude once and for all if he is offended. Gemini will not waste time on a hopeless relationship for a long time. The sign is ruled by Mercury, and he also monitors the effectiveness of the pastime. Therefore, most often the relationship of these signs develops on the basis of unobtrusive communication in some kind of company, created on the basis of common interests.
Astrotypologist Dmitry Shimko will tell about the compatibility of Sagittarius and Gemini in the next video.