34 years of marriage: features and traditions of the anniversary, tips for choosing gifts

During thirty-four years of marriage, the couple creates their own atmosphere. She is quite comfortable, and no one wants to change her. The life experience gained in the process of building a social unit becomes a valuable baggage that can be passed on to your children and grandchildren.

This significant date is called the amber wedding, because the relationship of the spouses matures to an ideal form, like amber. It is his properties that characterize the relationship between a man and a woman in the 34th year of marriage. Few manage to overcome this milestone, preserve their relationships and not lose affection and respect for each other. The actions committed at the beginning of the creation of the marriage union no longer evoke negative memories, and 34 years of marriage turned their relationship into understanding without words.

Amber is a gemstone obtained by hardening the resin of coniferous trees. This metamorphosis takes quite a long time, and as a result, a mineral of a perfect form is obtained. This sunstone has an amazing range of colors - from yellow-red to almost black. The color of the hardened resin symbolizes solar energy, it is a pleasure to hold it in your hands. Strength and firmness are inherent in him, such are the relations of spouses.

The stone has long been known in Russia, since ancient times it was set in amulets and charms. There is a belief that it protects against evil and adversity, harmonizes the biofield. The spouses managed to overcome numerous difficulties, survive quarrels and conflicts. Likewise, amber is influenced by natural forces in order to become stronger and more reliable.If the spouses foresaw how many obstacles to home happiness they would have to overcome, they accepted them with gratitude - after all, this only strengthened their union even more.

Each year lived together is a reason for joy and celebration. Not every couple has 34 years of experience behind them. It is not for nothing that each anniversary has its own name and symbolic meaning. The celebration of this joyful event often takes place with the family or alone, since the date is not round. Many celebrate this momentous day on a grand scale, inviting friends and family to a restaurant.

But even in this case, a homely and cozy atmosphere will create an atmosphere of unity of family ties. The choice of place depends on the preferences and financial capabilities of the initiators of the celebration. Guests choose clothes in orange colors. Newlyweds will complement their image with accessories in yellow colors. An elegant dress with golden inserts will suit the wife. Decorating the festive table and interior should be honey-colored items. The table is covered with a golden tablecloth, and dim lighting with warm light is installed. Elegant garlands of the appropriate palette will add charm to the room.

At the festive table, the presence of:

• yellow and orange vegetables and fruits;
• dishes from sea fish, as amber is mined on the seashore;
• red wine;
• sweets;
• compositions of bright colors;
• candles in sunny tones.

The married couple, who have preserved intimacy and tenderness in a couple, will be glad to accept congratulations and share their joy with their relatives. On this solemn day, it is important to say pleasant words and express wishes for a long family life. The heroes of the occasion share with close warm memories of the past years. Shouts of "bitter" will periodically interrupt the holiday, and the kiss of the newlyweds should last 34 minutes. On this day, the spouses renew their vows of allegiance, repeatedly confessing to each other their love and fidelity.

Items made of amber will become symbolic, embodying the strength of the marriage bond. If a couple needs more mundane things, pay attention to household items. When choosing a present, it's best to stick to an amber color palette. It can be:

• jewelry with amber - earrings, rings, pendants, cufflinks;
• interior items with amber chips - vases, figurines;
• sand-colored bedding or bedspreads;
• dishes in autumn colors - a tea set, a set of plates, a salad bowl;
• indoor plants with yellow flowers;
• honey as the owner of an amber color palette;
• photo printing - mugs or t-shirts;
• family photo session, an autumn landscape is well suited as a background;
• a photograph of the newlyweds in a saffron-colored frame;
• lighting devices - chandeliers, lamps;
• signs of attention that will remain in memory for a long time - an invitation to the theater, to an exhibition, to a cinema, to a country trip.

Think over text congratulations to the smallest detail, make them sincere and touching to the core. Practice your speech ahead of time. Use epithets and metaphors, poems of various kinds, linking the wedding anniversary with the properties of amber.

Traditionally, on the anniversary, husband and wife exchange amber items. The best gift will be jewelry made in an interesting design. A man will be delighted to receive a tie clip or key ring. An unusual pendant or cigarette case is a good option.

It is not at all necessary to give precious things. If your spouse has a hobby, show your respect with a practical present. Fishing or hunting items, sports equipment, computer gadgets - there are no limits for your imagination.

Men are considered to be the best cooks. If your husband is one of them, then the kitchen utensils will give him doubly pleasure, because he will certainly be able to thank you with an exquisite dish prepared especially for you.

A good option is to attend some courses or master classes together (in cooking, drawing, pair dancing), because the greatest happiness is joint activities. If your husband is an incorrigible romantic, arrange for him a romantic date at a restaurant, then walk hand in hand on a moonlit night to your house. An alternative is a horse or boat trip.

If your wife loves jewelry, this is a little easier. Present her with a stone ring or a set of earrings. Many ladies will gladly accept a pendant or bracelet as a gift. An inlaid box for storing small trinkets will suit your half's taste. Don't limit your imagination. An original and memorable gift will delight her for many years.

You can organize a romantic trip to the place that the lady of your heart dreams of visiting. Any travel agency will offer you a trip of your choice with sightseeing. This will be your next honeymoon.

A very touching thing will be a letter you wrote to your spouse with declarations of love and admiration. You may not be a writer, but your half will remember your message for life.

In the morning, prepare breakfast for your companion as a sign of gratitude for happiness and harmony in the family, for care and tenderness.

Gifts from children are perhaps the most valuable and dear to the hearts of elderly newlyweds. Knowing perfectly the tastes and preferences of the parents, they will be able to choose the most successful present. After all, this is not only a gift, but also a sign of admiration for your mom and dad. Express your boundless gratitude to them for a wonderful example of warmth and dedication.

Video congratulations are fashionable these days. Such creativity always evokes violent emotions and delight. This can include photographs of children, family chronicles, interviews with family and friends. A well-chosen musical accompaniment will not leave anyone indifferent.

A beautifully inlaid frame for a general photo or an elegantly designed family album can be a delightful surprise. It is not difficult to find a money tree with leaves from a golden stone in a store. The main thing is to put it in the sunny part of the home in order to reveal all the shades of the precious stone.

On this memorable date, you can bring joy to your parents and present a certificate for a massage or tickets for a trip for two to where they have long wanted to visit.

The idea of ​​making a gift with your own hands is very successful. They put their soul into such presents and make them with great love. Parents love to receive souvenirs made by their own children.

You can organize a festive event with contests and dances. Invite your parents on a trip to the countryside, organize a picnic. Creative people can decorate a beautiful wall panel depicting the highlights of a couple's life. Such a work will pleasantly surprise and inspire the heroes of the occasion for romance. For the newlyweds in autumn, give a self-made bouquet of maple leaves with rowan sprigs.

If you know how to knit, knit an emblematic plush toy, scarves, hats and mittens in a sandy color palette.

An example of an interesting DIY gift for your husband, see below.