Bachelor party before the wedding: how to spend it and what to give the groom?
On the eve of such an important event as a wedding, many guys have a bachelor party. The article will talk about who should organize the event and pay all expenses, as is usually the case for a bachelor party, and what is given to the groom.
What it is?
Before the wedding, it is imperative to hold a bachelor party - this is the opinion of many modern guys. Throwing a party in honor of the groom is a kind of tradition that has long taken root in many countries of the world. As a rule, such an event is very fun. A company of friends led by the groom gathers, and everyone celebrates the last days of their friend's bachelor life.
Usually the bachelor party is held so that later the groom, and all the other friends, would have something to remember. The young groom should feel all the delights of a riotous, bachelor life at this party, arranged in his honor.
There is such a stereotype that at the bachelor party a variety of alcohol must flow like a river, there must be crowds of dancers ready for anything, and so on. This is usually the opinion of brides who always oppose such parties. But very often bachelor parties are completely different from what the girls think. The event can be interesting, fun, and well within the bounds of decency. Let's consider some ideas on how to organize such a bachelor party. But more on that later.
Who organizes and pays for?
According to the established tradition, the groom's witness is taken to organize such an event as a bachelor party.
Usually, as a witness to the wedding, guys invite their best and closest friend or someone from close relatives.Therefore, it is the witness who must know all the tastes and preferences of the groom who will be able to organize an unforgettable party for him.
Often all the financial costs are borne by the groom's witness. But it is quite possible to join forces with those who will be present at the party. In this case, all finances are divided equally between all participants in the bachelor party. It also happens that the groom himself also invests in a future party. Such delicate issues are resolved in advance, jointly between friends and acquaintances who will definitely be present at the bachelor party.
It should be noted that very often friends, led by a witness, secretly organize such an event for the groom and arrange a grand surprise for him. And how the financial issue will be resolved, and who will pay for the event, it already depends on the personal capabilities of each.
When is it held?
As a rule, after the engagement and until the wedding day, the young have at least a month left. Therefore, a bachelor party can be arranged any day before the celebration itself. Of course, it is better not to arrange such events just a day or two before the wedding itself. After all, the last week before such an important event is always stressful, and there are still a lot of things to do before the wedding. Therefore, the ideal time for a bachelor party is to organize it two weeks before the wedding itself.
If there is very little time left, you can organize a party for the groom at least five days before the wedding. Just this time will be enough for all the participants in the bachelor party to come to their senses after the party and attend the wedding in full health.
How to organize?
It is quite possible to go with a large and noisy male company to the nearest bar, and there is just a lot of fun. But surely everyone wants such a party to be somehow unusual and remembered by the groom and his friends for a long time. There are several ideas that will definitely come in handy for all those who are planning to organize a bachelor party in the near future.
Agree that every man loves extreme and speed. Therefore, you can organize a bachelor party in some unusual place, for example, arrange a real kart race. All guys love to drive cars and go-kart is the best option.
It is also quite possible to organize a small buffet there, so that later together to celebrate the victory of one of your friends. In addition, original and commemorative diplomas can be ordered in advance for each participant in this impromptu competition. Of course, the main diploma should go to the groom.
If the groom does not like cards, but loves speed, then it is quite possible to go out of town to drive quad bikes with all his heart in nature. And if the season has already begun, then you can also go on snowmobiles. Being in nature, it is quite possible to arrange a kind of quest. You can organize everything in advance, and they will help you make cards with interesting tasks. It will be fun to drive in nature, go through various obstacles, and eventually find the main prize. At the end of such a quest, it will be possible to present the groom with a pre-prepared gift, or arrange a party in the forest house. The guy will definitely like such a bachelor party.
A bachelor party is a party for the groom. And therefore it would be quite logical if his old dream would come true at such an event. For example, if you know for sure that the groom has long dreamed of flying in a wind tunnel or jumping with a parachute, then why not all together fulfill the old dream of the hero of the occasion. And after such an extreme start to the bachelor party, it is quite possible to go to the nearest nightclub or bar, and continue the fun there.
In the event that the celebration is scheduled for the winter season, then it is best to go to the mountains. There you can rent a cozy cottage for this fun event. To have something to do during the day, you can go snowboarding or skiing.After such entertainment, it will be very pleasant to continue the evening in a warm and cozy cottage, warm up by the fireplace with a glass of mulled wine, and then arrange a noisy party with dancing.
Wherever you organize a bachelor party, in order for it to be fun and unforgettable, you should definitely prepare various contests in advance. For example, the groom's oath that he undertakes not to forget his friends and to meet with them at least once a month has already become a traditional and integral part of a bachelor party.
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What to gift?
Since a bachelor party is as significant an event in a guy's life as a wedding, friends often give the groom for the bachelor party original and memorable gifts. Of course, organizing the event itself is already a gift, but you always want to present something that will remind the groom of this fun evening.
The present does not have to be expensive, because you will also be giving gifts for the wedding. And as a gift in honor of a bachelor party, a small memorable and comic present is quite suitable.
For example, you can give the groom a luxurious bathrobe with the original inscription, some kind of joke that only you know about. And also a T-shirt with a commemorative inscription about the past bachelor party is quite suitable as a presentation.
Every man will be happy with such a gift as a bottle of his favorite alcoholic drink. By the way, such a present can be accompanied by a comic postcard, and then take an oath from the groom that you will sing it together, for example, a year later.
If you know for sure about the hobbies and hobbies of the hero of the occasion, then you can give him accessories or gadgets that will definitely come in handy. For example, it can be a spinning rod for a fishing fan, a collectible coin for a numismatist, an original lighter for a cigar lover, a new helmet for a motorcycle lover, and so on. The groom will definitely be happy with such a present.
In addition, you may well give him a present that he can use with his young wife. For example, this is a voucher for a few days to a country boarding house, a certificate for a parachute jump for two, for a photo session, for a horse ride, and so on. Such attention from friends will be appreciated not only by the groom himself, but also by his young bride. The girl will immediately understand what good and caring friends her future spouse has, and will gladly let him go to meetings with friends.
