What do they give for matchmaking?
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Matchmaking is a fairly old tradition that goes back to the distant past. This ceremony is interesting and is still important for many families. And in the Eastern and Caucasian countries, the bride is still not given to the groom's family without official matchmaking. This article will tell you what to give for matchmaking when meeting the parents of your significant other.
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What it is?
Matchmaking is an important tradition, which consists in the fact that the groom's parents send relatives, friends, or come themselves to the house of a potential bride and ask her father and mother for her hand in marriage. The custom is very touching, it shows the real attitude of a young man to a girl, because not everyone dares to go to visit the parents of their beloved with the whole family to ask them to give up their daughter. Paying tribute to matchmaking, the guy immediately rises in the eyes of future father-in-law and mother-in-law.
One of the main reasons to send in matchmakers is to get permission. to unite not only two loving hearts, but also two families, which from now on become dear to each other. Previously, the ceremony was performed strictly according to the rules. Guests were greeted and escorted to the hall, where there was a table with treats. The conversation went exclusively between the parents. As a kind of payment, both parties exchanged gold coins, which indicated a positive decision.
Now there are no such requirements. As a rule, matchmaking is very fun, because the young have already known each other for a long time. They adhere to only one formality: the groom's side asks for permission from the girl's relatives, and after obtaining consent, jokes, feasts and congratulations with gifts begin.
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Gifts for the bride
First of all, you should purchase beautiful bouquets for the bride, her mother and older married sister.
It is advisable to know in advance the favorite flowers of women in order to win the approval of the host. If it was not possible to get the information, you can present the traditional views (the bride - red or white roses, and the mother and sister - chrysanthemums, peonies or lilies).
If you have a younger family member, you need to pay attention to him, giving chamomile or chocolates. No matter how old the child is, he should also receive a small present.
Perhaps the most important gift will be the engagement ring, which the bride does not take off until the wedding. During the ceremony, he is replaced with an engagement party. The adornment is a medium-wide gold rim with one stone. The price depends on the possibilities. Additionally, you can present your beloved with a beautiful watch or a gold pendant with a chain.
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The mother-in-law should also present the future daughter with gifts of gold. Usually they give a chain, pendant, earrings or bracelet. A diamond jewelry that is passed down from generation to generation will become a manifestation of the greatest respect and trust. You can also donate perfume, a bag, a pretty shawl, or cosmetics. It is customary for some peoples to give the bride a lot of clothes, shoes and accessories so that she can enter the groom's house in everything new. The same applies to the bride's parents in relation to the son-in-law.
An important attribute of matchmaking is a loaf or a large beautiful cake., symbolizing the future sweet life of the newlyweds. He is brought into the house on a large, beautifully embroidered towel. When the cake is put on the table, the girl should divide it into parts and serve it to each guest. You can bake the loaf yourself or buy it in the store. The same applies to the towel. They decorate it with bright inscriptions, hearts, woven rings, swans and other symbols of love and fidelity. The embroidered names of the young look very nice.
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Gifts for the bride's parents
It is customary to give future relatives practical gifts for the home. Each hostess will appreciate a beautiful picture, an embroidered tablecloth, clock or floor lamp. You can consult with your beloved and find out the preferences of her parents. In any case, the gift shouldn't be too personal. Even if your dad loves fishing, you shouldn't bring him a rod or fishing tackle, no matter how expensive. Save it for your birthday.
It will be good to bring food into the house for a feast. A large basket is filled with wine, whiskey, fruits, sweets, all this is beautifully decorated and brought into the bride's house. Of course, the table will already be laid there, but such a sign of attention will not be superfluous.
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What to give mother-in-law?
Previously, the girls did not always know when they would come to match, so there were no return gifts. More cunning young ladies prepared in advance gifts for the father-in-law, mother-in-law, sister-in-law and brothers of the groom. Now the fair sex is much easier, they have enough time to prepare for the arrival of matchmakers. It is best to consult with the groom prematurely and find out the preferences of his parents. Anyone is pleased to receive what they like, but you can give neutral gifts as well.
You can present your father-in-law with a warm scarf or a ticket to a match of your favorite football team. The mother-in-law will be pleased to receive perfume, a beautiful silk scarf, a set of cosmetics or a beautiful picture for the home. A set of silver spoons or a porcelain tea set will be an excellent present.
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If you want to show how an economic and caring girl you are, you can do something with your own hands. Each mother-in-law will appreciate a self-embroidered or painted picture, designer soap, hand-painted service. Modern stores offer a wide variety of gifts that you can add yourself to. Another great option is a large, beautiful and tasty cake, which the bride will bake herself and serve for tea.
Also, a girl should not forget about the groom's sisters and brothers.Small children can be presented with chocolates, soft toys or books. Adult sisters will appreciate cosmetics and jewelry, while brothers will appreciate fashionable sweaters or purses.
The bride's parents, in turn, should also present their son-in-law with gifts. For example, it can be cufflinks, an expensive watch, a gold bracelet or a chain with a pendant.
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Other guests
Often not only relatives, but also close friends of the future groom act as matchmakers. The custom does not dictate any rules for them, but still everyone will be pleased to receive a small present. Such guests can be presented with small souvenirs in the form of decorative figures or small sets with sweets.
Friends should not come into the house empty-handed. The mistress of the house needs to get a box of chocolates, and the bride needs something for the house. Kitchen utensils, towels, bed linen are perfect. You can distinguish yourself and give a comic gift. For example, it can be a beautifully packaged rolling pin with the inscription "for being late", at the same time it will turn out to check if the future wife of a friend has a sense of humor.
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You can find out about gifts that are suitable for a woman at any age from the video below.