The dance of a son and a mother at a wedding is a touching wedding tradition
Children's weddings are one of the most exciting and important events for parents. Perhaps even more significant than for the newlyweds themselves. On this day, parents let their children go on a free joint flight through life.
It is very important to show your parents on the day of your marriage your love and tenderness, respect and admiration. And the dance of young spouses with their parents is one of the ways to express filial / filial feelings.
Groom dance with mom
This is one of the most important moments of the wedding, the same as the first dance of the newlyweds. He must express by himself the strength of the bonds of mother and child, feelings that continue to bind them, despite the beginning of an adult, independent life. Mom gives her son into the hands of his beloved wife, and the son must show his mother all his tenderness and gratitude for the years of warmth and support.
This dance evokes tenderness, nostalgia for the carefree childhood and adolescence.
When choosing a style of performance, do not forget that your mother is not a young girl, it is already difficult for her to dance a lot. Talk to your mom about what kind of dance she likes. Usually it is a slow waltz accompanied by beautiful music.
But other options are also possible.
- Cool dance to songs from cartoons. You can write a small script for the performance yourself, make a funny and touching show.
- Energetic dance to a potpourri of incendiary mixes. Complex movements are not needed here, it is enough to learn a few simple dance steps and rehearse them.
- A mixed style of performance - at first a slow dance to a lyric composition, then an abrupt transition to a passionate tango or any other exciting dance. A well-prepared number will cause a storm of delight.
- In her youth, your mother most likely loved to dance to folk songs - please her, learn her favorite dance (if this does not contradict the style of the whole celebration).
- The best option is to dance to a song of your own composition and performance (ideally). You will be able to express in your own words the depth of your feelings for your mother - the woman who raised you from the cradle, brought up, worried with you and for you all your failures and mistakes. If you are unsure of your voice or self-control at the celebration, write down your song in advance and ask the host to include it in the banquet program.
Preparation
You can invite a specialist choreographer to stage this, of course, beautiful and touching dance, or you can try to do it yourself.
Pros of calling a specialist:
- he will be able to assess the strengths and weaknesses of you as a dance partner;
- advise musical compositions and performance style;
- find suitable movements and practice them with you.
The disadvantages include the cost of his services. In a situation where the budget of the festival is limited, of course, it is better to do it yourself.
It is best to prepare and rehearse this performance in advance in order to avoid unpleasant surprises.
When preparing, pay attention to the following factors:
- suitable musical composition;
- banquet hall flooring material;
- shoes;
- mom's outfit;
- photo and video filming of a wedding.
The first step, of course, is to choose a song composition to which you will dance with your mother.
Ideal for a slow dance would be a themed composition about mom. You can choose from the list.
- B. Takhtakhunov - "Thank you, mom."
- A. Maklakov "Mother's eyes".
- E. Martynov "Gratitude to Mothers".
- M. Zadorin "Mom".
- R. Karimov - "Thank you, mom."
- Bon Jovi - "Thank you for loving me."
- Elvis Presley - "The Wonder of You".
- Any other - there are a great many songs about mom in any language of the world. Perhaps you and your mother have a common favorite song, then the problem of choosing a song does not exist at all.
For an energetic dance to a medley of hits from different years, look for songs on the Internet, choose the right one and learn the necessary dance figures.
When choosing a folk dance, consult with your parents - they know it better than the younger generation. Ask your father to show you the dance moves.
It would be ideal to start rehearsals long before the celebration, because the last days before him are too hectic and crammed to the limit with all sorts of things and worries... You can do this at home, but try to rehearse at least a couple of times in wedding clothes and shoes in the banquet hall, where the celebration will be held, in order to evaluate the interaction of the shoes and the floor - whether it slips too much, creaks, and so on.
The mother's outfit for a wedding celebration should be comfortable and beautiful, in the style of the wedding itself, but not like the outfit of a young bride. Too wide sleeves will mask hand movements, and a tapered silhouette of a dress will hinder movement.
Try to dance in such a way that the camera and video operators have the most advantageous shooting angle. The ideal option would be if you consult with them about it before the celebration.
A great idea would be a background design in the form of a slideshow of your baby photos.
How do you choose the right moment?
Sometimes the dance of the young spouse with the mother is announced immediately after the dance of the newlyweds. Often, a solemn wedding banquet is divided into three sections: the first is opened by the groom and the bride, the second - by the groom and mother, and the third - by the bride and her father. Consult with the host - the host of the celebration, he, as a professional with vast experience, must choose the ideal option.
What can you say in the end? Dare, be creative, choose what you like - this is your day! Express all your feelings in the dance! And to the bride and to the mother.
You will see the beautiful and energetic dance of the son and mother at the wedding in the next video.
