How to arrange a meeting of the groom without the ransom of the bride at the wedding?

A wedding is a special day in the life of every couple, so I want it to be remembered for a lifetime. The bride and groom plan their wedding day so that it becomes bright and interesting - contests and entertainment events are held for this. So, today a rather old tradition of the bridegroom buying out the bride has been preserved. To do this, the bridesmaids build various obstacles in the path of the young man. However, not all couples want to follow this traditional scenario on their wedding day. Moreover, there are many ways to meet the groom without ransom.

The rejection of the ransom can be explained by the following reasons:

• considering that for many decades weddings have followed the same classical scenario, this tradition has exhausted itself;
• most couples cohabit before marriage, so ransom seems inappropriate;
• any couple wants their wedding to be exclusive and original, therefore they do not want to adhere to generally accepted canons;
• a simpler option is to meet the future spouse at the bride's house, from where he (with the permission of the parents) takes her to the registry office.

Besides the outdated tradition, there are other ways of meeting young people. In a well-planned scenario, it will not be necessary to buy out the young one. Let's take a look at some modern alternative ways of meeting the bride and groom.

• For lovers of exclusiveness, an unusual option would be to meet at a fountain, on the embankment, in a park or other picturesque place. This meeting can be arranged so that young people move towards each other to the accompaniment of beautiful music.
• Couples can also arrange a meeting at the Wedding Palace.The bride and groom can drive up to the registry office in different cars at the same time.
• If the couple lived together before the wedding, then you can arrange a joint exit from the hotel room (or your house, apartment). You will get quite stylish photos.

• You can arrange a meeting of future spouses in the form of a quest. The bridesmaids give tips to the groom to follow to find the bride. The bride, for example, might be sitting in a nearby cafe. And from there they can go together to the Wedding Palace.
• At the time of the arrival of the future spouse, a meeting with the parents of the future spouse takes place - they speak, give parting words and wish happiness in family life. The bride is in the next room at this time. Further, the father takes his daughter out, takes the hands of the young and holds them together, thereby giving his daughter's hand and heart.
• Another option for meeting the groom without money is to simply pick up the bride from home. At the time of the arrival of a young man, the girl must be dressed in a wedding dress, the room must be smartly decorated, the table must be set. In a calm atmosphere, young people take vows of eternal love and fidelity to each other. Then everyone drinks a glass of champagne and moves to the registry office.

• It is best to meet the bride's young parents. If you don't want to meet him with a loaf, you can meet him with glasses of champagne or wine.
• It is possible to arrange a meeting of the bride and groom in an unusual way. For example, he can come to meet her on a white horse or in a superhero costume.
• The groom can appear in front of the bride's house effectively - together with his friends, he can perform any enchanting number: a dance, a scene, etc.
• There is an idea for an extreme meeting between the bride and groom. The groom can go up the fire escape with a bouquet of flowers in his mouth, climb into her window. The bride and her parents will be waiting in the groom's room, as well as a small buffet table. If possible, you can order a lift, decorate it with balls, flowers. On the lift, the groom goes up to the bride's window, and then together they go down to the cars.
• An interesting option will be the meeting of the bride and groom according to the traditions of other nations. For example, you can revive the old traditions of Jewish, Ukrainian, Tatar, Moldavian, Chechen and other weddings. It will be very creative.

For the wedding to be remembered for a long time, you need to think over the whole scenario to the smallest detail, and not just the meeting of the groom with the bride. Also, it is not at all necessary to completely abandon the ransom - it can be carried out, but remade in a modern or humorous way or use only certain elements of this tradition. Whatever the idea of ​​a wedding, the main thing is that it will be remembered by the young for many years.

Wedding experts will show you how to arrange a meeting between the groom and the bride without buying her out in the video below.