Taurus and Aquarius: features of the development of relationships
It is believed that Taurus and Aquarius are not the best combination for creating a harmonious union. The elements of Earth and Air are opposite, and while one partner is firmly on his feet, the other is in the clouds.
However, such couples exist - both in family life and in friendships, work and business relationships.
Characteristic
Before discussing the compatibility of airy Aquarius and earthly Taurus, we briefly characterize both signs.
So Taurus. The element of this sign is Earth, the planet that rules it is Venus. Of all the earthly signs (Virgo, Taurus, Capricorn), this is the most "earthly" - his nature is whole, simple and healthy. But you don't need to think that Taurus is primitive, no.
People of this sign are soft, perhaps somewhat carefree, poorly perceived stress and unable to work and make decisions in time pressure. The familiar environment, daily rituals and routine are very important for them. Anything that doesn't go according to plan knocks Taurus out of a rut.
A common feature is characteristic of Taurus - these people solve other people's difficulties much easier and faster than their own. They quickly and easily win others over to themselves, gaining their trust due to their gentleness and optimism. Advice may not always be pleasant, but it is fair and rational. When communicating, Taurus exude goodwill, have a great sense of humor and an amazing ability to listen.
The more happy the representatives of this sign are in their daily life, in their routine, the more optimistic, cheerful and kind they are. Such people are very easy to contact with others, they can talk to any person about anything.As a rule, Taurus are people with a very broad outlook.
At the same time, Taurus have a realistic mind, very practical and sane. They are not lyricists, but rather physicists, so they always think first of all about the material side of any issue, and not about its emotional component. Taurus are always realistic.
One of the weaknesses of this sign is the tendency to hoard, that is, to acquire a large number of things. As a rule, these people love everything beautiful - costume jewelry or jewelry, outfits, shoes, bags, perfumes. I must say that Taurus, especially women, have excellent taste, and the purchased items have both beauty and high quality.
The Taurus woman is always well-groomed, she has a fresh manicure, beautiful and shiny hair, while she looks natural. The abuse of decorative cosmetics is not typical for her, makeup is moderate.
"Bulls" are stubborn, have a huge reserve of patience. Taurus is more of a tactician than a strategist, but a very good tactician. The strong side is a large resource of inner strength, which is why he copes with tasks of a large scale.
People of this zodiac sign often work well with their hands, that is, they have practical skills in one or more crafts. They cook deliciously, embroider, knit, perhaps are fond of pottery. At home, Taurus is always cozy, and they know how to create comfort with little means.
Taurus are rarely avant-garde, they are more fond of classics, retro. They often keep old things that are dear to them - diaries, notebooks, wedding invitations, vintage jewelry, and more.
For Taurus, consistency is one of the main priorities in life. He is afraid of change and perceives them very painfully. It takes him a long time to accept and realize them. That is why this sign is difficult to climb, for him even a vacation is stressful, and such large-scale things as moving, drive Taurus into a stupor.
This brings us to the main disadvantage of this in all respects positive zodiac sign - slowness. He sways for a long time, takes a long time to do something. In addition, for many representatives of the sign it is typical for a long time to think over and "twist" within themselves the events that happened to him and the conversations that took place. In science, this is called "psychological chewing." Oftentimes, great witty answers only come to them by scrolling through the conversations within.
Another disadvantage is hoarding. It's hard for him to give, although often Taurus people like to give gifts to their loved ones.
The substitution of emotional impressions with the acquisition of material wealth turns Taurus from the most pragmatic sign into a hedonist, not burdened with thoughts of tomorrow. Greed can make him indulge in his constant material desires.
When confidence turns into self-confidence, Taurus ceases to be a pleasant conversationalist and becomes an arrogant egoist.
As a rule, people of this sign have an excellent memory. This does not always mean that they are vindictive, but no one ever forgets what the person said or did. It's just that in every situation, Taurus makes a decision - to forgive or not to forgive. If the same person hurts him repeatedly, it will be difficult to earn the forgiveness of the offended Taurus.
Taurus' anger grows slowly, he is able to ignore grievances for a long time, but knowledgeable people argue that in no case should these "bulls" be brought to an emotional outburst. An insignificant, in the eyes of an outsider, trifle can overflow the cup of Taurus' patience, but a blast of indignation will sweep everything out of the way. The anger of an angry "bull" is terrible, and thanks to his excellent memory, he is able to list all the past "merits" of the offender, including those that he has long forgotten or did not attach importance to them in his time. After a flash of irritation, Taurus departs for a long time, but his mood remains bad.
Taurus are creepy owners of both things and people. This can cause a lot of discomfort in interpersonal relationships. He wants to know literally everything about his partner, and he must control everything. Of course, few people like it - most people value and guard personal boundaries. If Taurus is not interested in where and with whom his half is, it only means that he no longer considers this person to be his mate.
Most “bulls” are introverts, and therefore they get along with people for a long time, but when they completely trust someone, they become great friends. True, it often happens that Taurus falls into the power of delusions and entrusts their soul to the wrong person. Frustration makes them skeptics and makes them more and more withdrawn. After every mistake made in interpersonal relationships, it becomes more difficult for them to open up to someone new. Each disappointment in love makes them a little more pragmatist and a little less emotional.
Taurus usually thinks it over for a long time before saying anything. That is, it is not typical for him to say the first thing that comes to mind. And if he made a decision on some issue and voiced it, then he does not intend to discuss what was said anymore. He defends and argues only on those issues that are fundamentally important to him.
The Taurus man has the following traits:
- hard work and efficiency;
- love for coziness and comfort;
- striving for stability and clarity;
- good orientation in financial matters and their competent management.
The appearance of a Taurus man speaks more about the desire for convenience than the desire to look edgy and stylish. However, these males value natural fabrics and quality tailoring, which allows them to be expensive and well-dressed.
As for Taurus women, they are characterized by:
- the ability to fall in love easily and passionately;
- indomitable shopaholism;
- striving for the worship and admiration of others.
In addition, they often have a charming low voice and a look that makes men's hearts beat faster.
Now let's talk about Aquarius. The element of this sign is Air, and the planets are Uranus and Saturn. This is an easy, sociable sign, endowed with the ability to move away from routine, everyday problems, including financial ones. Its representatives think more about world peace than about daily affairs. This very often leads to the fact that close people of Aquarius are left without attention.
Aquarians are bad about control, they are not very good with subordination and submission. Attempts to put pressure on a person of this sign are doomed to failure. In adolescence, Aquarius is often a supporter of free relationships, many adhere to these views and in a more mature age. Often they deliberately refuse monogamy, fearing too much attachment to a particular person and falling in love with him.
The nature of the representatives of this sign is rather difficult, Aquarians strive for independence with all their might, suffice it to say that such "lumps" as Bob Marley and Oprah Winfrey belong to this sign. A rebellious soul and eccentric nature often make Aquarius vulnerable to everyday difficulties.
Aquarians are great originals, they are attracted by everything new and non-trivial. Routine is what the representative of this air sign fears most. In addition, for these dreamers, even the very thought of the practical part of being is intolerable - minor repairs, buying daily necessities, replacing bulbs and sewing on buttons. They are always thinking about ideas, theories, concepts. Aquarians are very fond of talking about all sorts of utopias, revolutionary opinions (and they understand them quite well, it should be noted), however, a decisive action, "breastfeeding the barricades" is most likely not about them. Most of all, Aquarians love to think and reason.
In search of eccentricity and attempts to hide from the surrounding routine, Aquarius often come to the occult sciences, esotericism and achieve significant progress there. This is their element, everything is clear and interesting there. In addition, representatives of the sign are very successful in medicine, and also become excellent social workers.
Aquarians' sense of humor is very developed. Perhaps for people with an increased sensitivity to words, this may seem too sharp and sarcastic. Aquarius tends to see the essence of people and, if necessary, they can touch any human being. The representatives of the sign are unusually perceptive.
To give up life principles for Aquarius is tantamount to losing yourself as a person, therefore, next to a person who requires this, he will not stay for a minute. Aquarius is noble and honest, often with external openness and sociability, it remains very emotionally withdrawn. African passion is not his trait, he is not inclined to experience this either in relation to himself or in relation to others. At the same time, Aquarius is inclined not to be mistaken about himself, evaluating his abilities and skills very highly.
Aquarians are rare visionaries. Their logic is non-standard, rather, they are intuitive. At the same time, these "dreamers" pay much more attention to the rational component of things than to the emotional one. Sentimentality and affection are not their features. Due to excessive rationality, "revolutionaries" sometimes tend to think one-sidedly, missing important details. However, their horizons are unusually wide. Aquarius has much more significant knowledge than many other people.
The life credo of Aquarius is the desire for change, the search for new information. Stability, balance - these are not the traits that are characteristic of them. Routine kills them, makes them feel wingless. Aquarians love to travel, they love to try new things, their hobbies are unusual and often change. Any most unexpected adventure brings joy, they love to accumulate both knowledge and impressions.
Aquarians are completely devoid of such a feeling as jealousy - both in love and friendship. For them, community of souls is much more important than physical intimacy. "High relationships" often lead to the fact that Aquarius's partner does not feel loved, needed, while Aquarius himself does not understand what they want from him. He does not need too strong attachment of another person, it scares and frightens - after all, in this way his freedom can be infringed, and this is the main thing for the representatives of the sign.
When you turn to Aquarius for advice, you need to be prepared for a somewhat paradoxical logic. In addition, the remarkable intuition and insight inherent in the representatives of the sign make it possible to see in the situation what is inaccessible to others. But asking him for physical intercession is not worth it - the character of Aquarius is not a fighting one. If you talk rudely with Aquarius, cause him to conflict, then the probability that all communication with him will stop is very high - your "dreamer" will simply evaporate, ceasing to answer calls and SMS.
Aquarius men are distinguished by the following features:
- a rare gift of diplomacy and respect for people;
- sharp research mind and craving for new knowledge;
- urge to change places and desire to travel.
Aquarians are adorable and easily conquer women's hearts, no matter how old the lady is. They love to flirt, they often change affection. In any team, Aquarians are trying to take a leading position, to attract everyone's attention.
As for the women of Aquarius, they tend to:
- flirtatiousness and unique charm;
- ease of communication;
- the presence of a sober mind;
- willingness to support other people's endeavors;
- the ability to communicate with anyone.
If a stranger on the street gets sick, the first girl to rush to help is likely to be Aquarius. She has a lot of friends and good acquaintances, as this young lady is responsive and sincere.
Pros and cons of the union
Traditionally, astrologers are of the opinion that the Taurus-Aquarius union is unfavorable. The first one is too mundane, and the second one is too dreamy, and this does not bring peace of mind in the relationship. However, if both partners learn to put up with each other's shortcomings and appreciate the merits, the union can mutually enrich both. Taurus will be able to provide the material component of the union, and Aquarius - to inspire a partner and engage in general spiritual development.
How compatible?
In friendship
Making friends with these signs is perhaps even more difficult than entering into a relationship. This applies to both opposite-sex friends and same-sex friends. Taurus and Aquarius are very different signs both in communication and in demeanor. In this way, they can extremely irritate each other. Aquarius for Taurus is too superficial, frivolous, immature, and Taurus in the eyes of Aquarius is a kind of young "old man", too solid, heavy, boring, sane. Therefore, representatives of these signs are unlikely to make friends, they are very different.
If Taurus and Aquarius have known each other since childhood, then there is a likelihood of their strong friendship. Aquarius will generate ideas, and Taurus will embody. A sense of humor is inherent in both, and a strong long-term affection for each other will reconcile with the existing shortcomings.
In love
Taurus will run after Aquarius to the other end of the world only at the very beginning of the novel. As soon as the relationship has passed into the stage of more or less stable, the "bull" will not rush anywhere, nor will the partner allow it. Taurus are couch potatoes, for them the saying “my home is my fortress” is not an empty phrase.
Aquarius can outsmart Taurus by luring a loved one out of the house to where this hedonist likes - to a new restaurant with interesting cuisine, to an exhibition of jewelry or to open a corner of a perfume brand. The "bull" will not refuse these pleasures for anything, on the contrary, he will go there with joy and will not reproach his partner for spending the evening outside the home.
The Aquarius girl can attract a young Taurus man with her lightness, "airiness". She is like a breath of fresh air. For Taurus, it is surprising that the air fairy does not "load" those around her with her feelings, emotions, bad mood. For a girl, the Taurus guy is a guaranteed way out of the most difficult situation, he is a man of action, this is convenient for a carefree fluttering "dragonfly". As a rule, their acquaintance is from the category of those stories that are told over and over again at different events as a legend or a fairy tale. If there is a girl that a Taurus guy can fall in love with at a glance, then this is Aquarius - airy, ephemeral, beautiful.
The feeling of lightness emanating from an Aquarius girl would be ideal if the guy was not a Taurus. However, since he is an earthly person, a feeling of stability and complete clarity is very important in a love relationship. Aquarius cannot give this, therefore Taurus is always in suspense - after all, it is not known what to expect from her tomorrow.
Change is hard for him, so the girl has to put in a lot of effort to get him out of the house and force him to try something new - from restaurant to cinema. This can quickly get boring for both.
If in a pair Taurus is a girl, and the young man is Aquarius, everything becomes even more complicated. The guy is too frivolous for her, who is looking for stability and clarity in a relationship, and for him, on the contrary, she is too solid and heavy. Relationships will develop only if the young man is somehow dependent on the girl. If there is no calculation, the couple has no future, because the Aquarius man is greedy for new impressions, diversity, and the Taurus woman lives on schedule, any change in the schedule knocks her out of the rut.
For Aquarius, who met a Taurus woman in a difficult life period, this meeting can be a real salvation - a homely, cozy girl who knows how to listen like no one else.But as soon as the consolation is received, Aquarius will be fed up with a calm life and will rush off into the distance for new impressions. And only if the girl really wants to preserve this relationship and close her eyes to the frequent absence of her beloved, the couple can exist for some time.
In family life
If the couple he-Taurus and she-Aquarius still got to the registry office, the husband will always take care of his wife. He will automatically take on the role of the elder in the relationship, no matter if he is actually older, the same age, or even younger than the spouse. Taurus is fully engaged in the material side of life - purchases, repairs, investing money - his diocese, and he does not consider it necessary to coordinate this with his wife. If Aquarius is happy with everything, she will not argue and interfere. If not, the couple will face constant bickering and scandals.
Paradoxical as it sounds, the marriage of Taurus and Aquarius, concluded by calculation, will be the most durable. It is good if the family is united by a common goal, then there will be fewer conflicts, and there will be more quality and harmonious interaction. If a couple entered into a marital relationship for love, the lack of stability for Taurus and the complete disregard of Aquarius in material matters can very quickly kill feelings.
The husband needs to remember why he once fell in love with his beautiful, carefree and light wife. With this fairy, the down-to-earth nature of Taurus will never get bored, because she will not let family life turn into a boring swamp. And if you consider that the representatives of this sign, being airy and fluttering, are by no means stupid and superficial, but, on the contrary, have a sharp and sometimes even caustic mind, the family life of this couple can become stormy, interesting, non-standard, but neither in any case not trivial.
As for the marriage, in which he is Aquarius, and she is Taurus, it is also difficult. In fact, spouses live different lives under the same roof. It is more interesting for my husband to think about the fate of humanity than about what wallpaper to glue in the bedroom. The wife wants to be at home alone on the weekend, and the spouse wants to be social and active. Over time, the Taurus wife will begin to wonder who is more important to her husband - family or numerous friends? A compromise is possible only when none of them tries to remake the other. Accepting the interests of the partner and, if possible, sometimes following them will save the couple.
For example, to spend Saturday at the request of the wife, and Sunday - of the husband, will help to establish harmony in the marriage. For Aquarius, narrowing the circle of communication to one person, even if this is a beloved wife, is unbearable, and for Taurus, a husband is the whole world. Changes are not possible, but compromises are quite.
The Taurus woman will have to come to terms with the fact that she is the guardian partner in this relationship, but in no case remind her husband of this. Proud Aquarius already knows perfectly well who this marriage is based on (including often financially), but he cannot stand it if they poke him with it. And Aquarius needs to take into account that an introverted wife keeps most of her experiences in herself and does not want to share them with her partner.
The sexual compatibility of the spouses of Aquarius and Taurus is not the best. Aquarius expects relaxedness, variety, and imagination from a partner in bed. Taurus, on the other hand, adheres to tradition in matters of sex and the demands and requests of the spouse sometimes surprise and alarming.
In the vast majority of cases, the sexual experience of Aquarius is much more extensive than that of Taurus. If a Taurus is young, chances are high that he or she has not yet lost virginity. But even if this is not the case, the quantitative and qualitative experience of the partner is several times higher than his own.
In any case, wanting to save the marriage, Taurus will have to become more relaxed, otherwise Aquarius will start looking for new experiences on the side.And since a representative of the air easily acquires sexual partners (and a woman - partners), then a permanent one may appear - one or one for whom the desires of Aquarius will not seem strange or incomprehensible. And then it will be difficult for Taurus to keep the marriage.
Oddly enough, children can become the unifying factor in marriage. Representatives of both signs have a similar approach to raising offspring. Both Taurus and Aquarius are madly in love with their children and strive to spend as much time with them as possible. For their sake, both parents are ready to compromise, planning joint leisure activities taking into account the interests of all family members.
In work
Oddly enough, in a working relationship, these signs can achieve the greatest mutual understanding if they accept each other's strengths and weaknesses. A smart, stable and materially oriented Taurus will take over finance and procurement, and an intelligent Aquarius will become a business mastermind, charming clients in negotiations and applying innovative methods of doing business.
What is worth working on in a relationship?
So that Taurus and Aquarius can coexist harmoniously, astrologers give a number of recommendations.
- Aquarius should not criticize Taurus, he cannot stand it. It is especially dangerous to do this in the presence of other people, for Taurus it is like a knife in the back.
- The air sign loves freedom and does not tolerate being forced to do what he does not want. He will not resist loudly, as an earthly partner does, but Aquarius's stubbornness is no less strong.
- The more a couple has common interests, the more they do together, the stronger their union will be. Provided that the interest or hobby is truly reciprocal.
- Representatives of both signs are crazy about subtle compliments.
- In no case should a Taurus be silent if he doesn't like something. Aquarius suffers if there is no communication.
- Acceptance of the partner's interests makes any union harmonious, even if astrologers do not give favorable forecasts and claim that the representatives of the signs are not suitable for each other. This should be remembered by all signs of the zodiac.
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