Temperament Compatibility

Temperament compatibility is an important component of any relationship. For a couple to exist for a long time, they must match each other in outlook on life, habits and temperament. Interpersonal relationships of a choleric person with other types. Choleric people are people who overreact to situations emotionally and often commit rash actions. Such actions are due to the fact that in these individuals, excitement always prevails over emotions.

Let's consider some of the features inherent in the psychotype.

• Excessive irascibility, intemperance, impatience and harshness in behavior.
• In most cases, choleric people are too active, prone to authority and self-confidence.
• Such people try to protect their rights, constantly seek justice and can advocate their opinion. Choleric people can easily raise their voices and scream.
• Temperament is distinguished by decisiveness in actions, in actions one can notice recklessness.

• The choleric person needs constant communication, as he must express himself.
• Often such people stubbornly insist on their point of view, and are not always able to adequately assess the situation.
• In most cases, choleric men are good lovers. Women also attract the opposite sex with their activity. In family life, they are characterized by explosions in character, aggression and passion.
• In a team he behaves inattentively and it is difficult for him to sit in one place. For this reason, monotonous work is not suitable for him.

• People with a choleric temperament treat love relationships with pragmatism and purposefulness.When meeting with a potential partner, they begin to study him in order to determine how he is suitable for them for a relationship.
• The priority for them is people who have the ability to listen to their interlocutor, as well as individuals who know how to regulate conflicts. Choleric needs not quantity, but quality. They rarely fall in love, so they have several serious relationships in life.
• If a choleric person is not interested in a partner, he may ignore him or behave impatiently towards him. Due to decisiveness, he is able to abruptly end the relationship.
• At the same time, the choleric person believes that if the chosen partner is worthy of time and moral costs, he can fully concentrate on him. In this case, a person with a choleric temperament becomes a romantic, fulfills the desires of his half.

As for love, here it is necessary to highlight several requirements of the psychotype.

• Service. Such individuals value partners who are not prone to laziness and love to work. To show them that you care, you can cook dinner, be there when needed, and look after them.
• Respect and dedication. The choleric will demand everything from his partner, even if he cannot give it to him. To be with such a person, he should obey and not try to explain himself.
• Physical intimacy. These people are characterized by a high level of libido, so this issue is vital for them.

The relationship of choleric people with other temperaments is as follows.

Two choleric people can create a union that is full of passion and emotion. Relationships will be accompanied by a lot of positive emotions, quarrels, scandals and tears. Mutual assistance will be minimal, since choleric people like to do everything on their own. Constant attempts to take the lead lead to large-scale scandals.

Choleric and sanguine are well suited to each other. This is due to the fact that the disruptive nature of the choleric temperament is not strong enough to bring what was started to the final stage. In this he will be helped by a sanguine person who is able to implement everything conceived by his partner in life in the shortest possible time. Also, such people can live well together due to common interests and affairs.

A choleric with a melancholic is an incomparable union. In most cases, representatives of the first temperament are characterized by irascibility, straightforwardness and impatience. Such a psychology scares the melancholic, and he tries to avoid such people. If the couple tries to get together, there will be constant quarrels in it, where the hot-tempered choleric will be the winner. In such a marriage, the melancholic will be a victim who always and in everything agrees with her partner. The melancholic will be lucky if he comes across an unforgettable choleric. Only in this case can a love relationship exist. Also, the union can be long-lasting if a partner with a choleric temperament tries to lower his straightforwardness with exactingness, and defends the melancholic.

A choleric person and a phlegmatic person is an ideal union if the phlegmatic person is responsible for routine and responsibility in a relationship. Here the choleric person will act as a generator of ideas, and the phlegmatic person will be able to implement them.

Phlegmatic people will seem boring to many, but they also have several interesting features, we will consider them below.

• Calmness, balance of the nervous system.
• Such a person is difficult to bring to emotions.
• Ability to work.They are characterized by easy tolerance of difficult and nervous situations. Such people rarely get angry at failure.
• Slow action, untimely response to unexpected situations.
• Phlegmatic people love to change their lives, so they often experiment with social circle, work and habits. However, it is difficult for them to get used to the new environment.

• The slowness of a phlegmatic person can be annoying, but after a while it is possible to come to terms with this trait.
• While other people are subject to passion and emotion, phlegmatic people tend to be down-to-earth and pragmatic. For them, it is important that the chosen man or woman are first and foremost assistants. They value predictability and loyalty.
• A phlegmatic person tries to avoid a showdown in a relationship, so he often chooses a partner with a similar temperament. They do not start a relationship impulsively, since they have a dependence on the opinions of friends and relatives.

In love, people with such a temperament are distinguished by the following requirements.

• Spending time with family. Phlegmatic people need to be given full attention without interruption to the phone and TV. Make eye contact during communication.
• The moral support. A phlegmatic person needs to constantly be told how smart, handsome and attractive he is.
• Touches. Sex for people with this temperament is not the basis in a relationship. Simple touches and even tickling are important to them.

Psychologically, a phlegmatic person will be compatible with a soul mate with a similar type of temperament. In such an alliance, there will be a calm atmosphere and real mutual understanding. However, it may happen that one of the partners gets tired of passivity and carelessness. A phlegmatic person will be fine with a melancholic. Phlegmatic personalities are patient with the constant depression of the melancholic, and they can act as a support for their soul mate. Melancholic people will bring freshness to the usual life of a phlegmatic person due to their rich inner world.

The interpersonal relationship between a phlegmatic person and a choleric person is a combination of opposites that can become a harmonious couple. In a family, a phlegmatic person will need to become a "lightning rod". Only he is able to cope with the restless choleric. The marriage will be strong as long as the phlegmatic is patient. However, you should always remember that temperaments are completely different, and it will be difficult for such people to understand and communicate with each other.

Melancholic people are people who are characterized by indecision, constant hesitation. Let us dwell in more detail on the characteristics of the personality.

• Hypersensitivity, which is often the cause of emotional fatigue.
• Frequent mood swings. However, this is carefully hidden, and emotions are not shown to people.
• The melancholic is easily hurt. He is constantly worried and insecure. These people often feel inferior and withdrawn.
• People with a melancholic disposition are not suitable for work in which they have to deal with stressful situations. They do not want to communicate with strangers, as this can reduce productivity.
• Melancholic people in love are the most sensual. In future partners, they seek commonality in intellectual and emotional contacts and are very upset if they are repulsed.

• They cannot relate to relationships with the same ease as a sanguine person. When meeting, they are aimed at a long-term relationship with a further marriage. In their union, melancholic people completely surrender to their partner, and sometimes they are able to get so tired mentally that they can no longer create a relationship.
• When a person with a melancholic type of temperament finds love, he tries to maintain a trusting relationship, avoids conflict situations and is ready to give in. All situations that occur in the family are analyzed and weighed by them.
• Since melancholic people have a rich imagination, they often idealize their soul mate. But over time, it may become clear to them that the person is not perfect, and the couple breaks up.

If you choose such a partner, it is worth considering several of his wishes in love.

• Pleasant words. These people need affection and touch, a gentle and caring attitude.
• Confirmation of words. Despite the gullibility, the melancholic needs to be constantly told that he is loved.
• Calmness. You cannot raise your voice to such people.
• Touches. Touches and kisses are of great importance.

The melancholic will feel good with the following temperaments.

• With a phlegmatic. Melancholic personalities are shy, shy and suspicious. Therefore, they will feel good next to a calm and reliable phlegmatic person. Next to a melancholic woman, any man will feel like a master, she will constantly admire her husband.
• With a sanguine person. The melancholic will be pleased to be near him. His partner is also not opposed to directing the half in the right direction. This couple can become harmonious and exist without unnecessary quarrels.

Sanguine people are individuals who love to be everywhere, they adore communication and do not imagine their life as dull and gray. Let us dwell on the main features of the psychotype described by psychologists.

• Activity and cheerfulness, along with balanced nerves.
• The reaction is quick, but many actions can be accompanied by thoughtlessness.
• Such personalities can easily cope with new acquaintances and quickly become “their own” in the team.
• A sanguine person likes to be in the center of events, so he has a large number of acquaintances and friends.
• Due to the fact that long-term anger is unusual for this type of temperament, it will simply be in a relationship with him.

• Sanguine people are looking for a partner with whom they can share their interests. He will appreciate the soul mate with whom you can talk about everything. Such personalities like to make dates, surprise their partner. Since a sanguine person strives for diversity, he boasts a wealth of experience in love relationships, is able to adapt to various situations.
• They are distinguished by friendliness, do not seek to control their partner. For this reason, it is easy and comfortable to be around them. Also, this temperament is distinguished by generosity - constant gifts will accompany the entire period of the relationship.

In love, sanguine people are distinguished by the following features.

• Craving for touch. They need to hold their partner's hands, hug.
• Attention. You need to listen to such people with a smile and constantly show what is interesting with them.
• Delicious food. When communicating with them, you need to remember that gastronomic pleasure is important for a sanguine person.

The union of two sanguine people can be a good example to follow, since these people tend to understand their soul mate at a glance. Often, these alliances are created based on the same interests and identical views on certain things. Both partners have activity, intelligence, the ability to adapt to the mood of the soul mate, along with the prompt search for a hobby to their liking.

Partners will solve all problems together, and no one can become an obstacle in their relationship. This is a union that is durable due to the fact that both partners are very sympathetic to each other. However, sanguine people, who are active and energetic in love, often show themselves unreliable in difficult life situations. Only this factor can affect the fact that the couple breaks up.

A sanguine person is a person who is distinguished by pronounced leadership. He will like his partner's choleric temperament with his ideas, emotionality and enthusiasm. Such an alliance will be fruitful and vibrant until the question of leadership arises. Eternal attempts to seize power do not give a couple the opportunity to exist normally. A sanguine person will feel comfortable with a melancholic and will be able to direct him in the right direction. Such a union is distinguished by strength and reliability, since these relationships are almost always aimed at success.

Temperament compatibility is a necessary component of any relationship. Despite the fact that some temperaments are considered incompatible, you can always find exceptions in which one of the people is inferior to his soul mate.

If there are different temperaments in the union, you can use the following tips to help you get along better.

• If a choleric man is present in a couple, the woman should remember that he can be sharp, emotional, but quickly quick-witted. Such a temperament can say too much, but then he will definitely regret it. Therefore, psychologists recommend not to take offense at your soul mate and accept it as it is.
• A phlegmatic wife will be calm and slow. Such people are reasonable and they need to weigh the pros and cons before taking action. Do not rush your soul mate and scold her for slowness. Praise is considered the best behavior. Psychologists advise praising the phlegmatic's wife for her deliberation and seriousness, because you can always rely on such a person.

• A melancholic woman is a sensitive and sentimental nature. If the couple has different temperaments with the husband, the partner should be patient and understanding towards his soul mate. The melancholic is easily hurt, and he can easily withdraw into himself. Therefore, one should be restrained in his "attacks" and experiences.
• When paired with a sanguine person, you should not fight for leadership. Also, you can not put pressure on him with seriousness of intentions.

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