Faithful girl: what does it mean and how to find her?

Meeting a faithful girl or woman is every man's dream. What the representatives of the stronger sex put into this concept and where to look for such girls is not always clear. Let's try to understand fidelity from the point of view of psychology and tell you what kind of faithful wives they are.

In the process of evolution, man has gained a lot, but, unfortunately, he has also lost a lot. So, now it is not customary to make a choice once and for life, and it does not matter what it is about - a car, a profession or a life partner. People admit the very possibility of impermanence, variability under certain circumstances. The times of sacrifice, when one's own "I" could easily dissolve into "You" (the wives of the Decembrists) or "We" (giving up one's life for the sake of a great idea, for example, a revolution), are left behind, to the great regret of idealists.

Loyalty has also undergone changes, but is still considered one of the main qualities of the world's best wife and girlfriend. With the progress of mankind, the attitude towards female infidelity among men hardly changes - they are still, in the overwhelming majority, absolutely sure that a woman is simply obliged to remain faithful. But women, after a wave of emancipation and the sexual revolution, discovered a new world for themselves - the world of betrayal.

Sociologists who have tried to study loyalty have come to the conclusion that about 20% of women are real loyal to their partners. Up to a quarter of all ladies cheat on men, and the rest at least once thought about adultery, flirted, kissed on the side, but did not come to sexual intimacy.

Every third woman says that adultery in marriage is unacceptable. Only 5% approve of extramarital affairs.Most believe that anything can happen in life, and no one, as they say, is immune. That is, a possible thought and even an excuse for infidelity subconsciously already exists.

What is she - the most faithful girl? She can be blonde or brunette, shy or mischievous.

A faithful girl is usually from a family in which there are certain foundations, traditions, but it is not enough to look at relatives in order to understand whether the girl will be a faithful wife. This is generally quite difficult to understand.

Only one thing is known for certain - the majority of faithful women are deeply unhappy in life. They are often abandoned. Men first want loyalty from their chosen one, and then they get bored with it, there is no fear of losing their beloved, because it is obvious that she is faithful and will not go anywhere, there is no point in conquering her, everything has already been conquered. Naturally faithful women often grow old and die alone, never finding happiness with men. Psychoanalysts claim that subconsciously they strive for suffering, want to be abandoned, being unable to do it on their own.

And yet loyalty is the greatest value, a diamond in the rubbish of various human relationships. There is nothing surprising in the fact that everyone is trying to find her, not really thinking about what exactly to do with her later.

You can often hear that representatives of certain nationalities are the most faithful, or vice versa. So, frivolity and frivolity are attributed to French women, frigidity and lack of emotionality are attributed to English women, Italians are considered passionate, Chechen women and Kabardians are called modest. But the question of loyalty is not as simple as it seems. This is not a characteristic of temperament or national mentality. Therefore, it is difficult to answer unequivocally which nationality bride you need to look for in order to marry a faithful girl.

Every nation has heroes and scoundrels who have gone down in history. There are faithful and unfaithful women in every nation. In those countries where religion is of great importance, where they try to fulfill the commandments, where in the old days a woman could be stoned or publicly flogged for infidelity, the ancestral memory is still strong, which is also in the upbringing of girls. Thus, representatives of the Caucasian peoples, Arab women, are distinguished by their obedience to her husband, obedience and loyalty. But there is another trouble - guys usually do not appreciate this given and they themselves are not distinguished by chastity.

The first thing that men should remember is that the women who surround them have already formed as individuals, it is more dear to reshape and remake them, and is it worth it, because this is real violence against a person.

This is especially necessary for those who hope to create a faithful life companion out of any girl. Will not work. All ladies by their 18 years already have some kind - either good or bad, but quite solid, formed personalities.

Where such girls live who will remain faithful to their beloved, it is impossible to immediately answer. They are everywhere. They are not grown in a greenhouse, they are not cloned in an incubator, and therefore the widespread myth that one cannot find the right one in a nightclub is just a myth and nothing more. A girl can come to a nightclub for a reunion, for a friend's birthday. It is clear that there are no such ladies among the regulars of entertainment establishments - upbringing does not allow.

Experts in the field of psychology recommend paying attention not to bright beauties with daring manners, if the task is to find a faithful spouse, but on more modest representatives of the feminine gender. But especially you need to pay attention to the girls with whom at first it seemed a little boring in communication. It is in this case that the man will not exceed the value of the girl because of fleeting enthusiasm, it is in this case that your assessment of her qualities will be the most objective.

Signs of future fidelity can be found not at the first meeting, but with closer communication. Observe how sincerely she takes an interest in you. A faithful girl rarely throws tantrums and scenes of jealousy, does not flirt with your friends and does not flirt, does not "like" photos of unfamiliar half-naked men on social networks. Usually she has a rather modest profession - educator, seamstress, decorator, decorator. But there are exceptions, although you should never forget about professional deformation.

If loyalty is the criterion that has the most important role for you, then the question of how to make sure of its loyalty will be very relevant. It is better to live together before marriage in order to observe how her behavior and attitude towards you will change with the beginning of joint everyday life. Her style of relations with her friends and relatives can tell a lot.

You cannot become faithful by your own decision. They can be originally. It is easier to soberly assess the chances of fidelity than then to check the spouse for adultery, which is often reported after the fact.