Libra man in love

Libra is rightly considered one of the most mysterious and changeable signs of the zodiac, whose representatives are truly difficult to predict, the more difficult it is to build a long-term relationship with them. However, a good knowledge of the horoscope will help here, because such people, like everyone else, have certain typical features that somewhat dispel their unpredictability.

One should start with what a Libra man is - not even in love, but in general in life. The easiest way to say about such guys is that they are in constant search of themselves and are difficult to predict. Like the object that gave the name to the sign, they can be in perfect balance, and even restrain others, but such balance can be lost - then Libra can go to extremes. In any case, such a person is always looking for an opportunity to achieve balance and greatly appreciates everything that helps him in this.

The ideal state of Libra is complete calmness, not interrupted by any problems. Such a guy loves balance in literally everything - even global justice is important to him. As for stressful situations, they hurt such a man too much, because he always tries to be proactive, sparing no effort or resources for this.

It is believed that Libra is quite sociable, but the width of their social circle can be very different. On the one hand, this sign is often credited with striving to be at the center of society, on the other hand, it is possible that individual representatives will deliberately avoid large companies. In general, Libra is not against new acquaintances, but can be quite picky about them.

If we talk about the positive aspects of this zodiac sign, then usually the following traits are distinguished in most men.

• Heightened sense of justice. It is not for nothing that Libra is a symbol of justice - apparently, the representatives of the sign of the same name would make a good judge. This characteristic usually only aggravates with age, and often such a guy is ready to admit things that are completely unpleasant for himself, if only they correspond to the truth. This outlook on life is especially valuable due to the fact that Libra traditionally wants the maximum benefits for themselves.
• Intelligence and charm. Most guys born under this sign are well aware of their intelligence, and some, deep in their hearts, even despise a little narrow-minded people who are unable to rise above the average level of society. However, the same intelligence does not allow them to express such thoughts aloud, and some are even tormented by remorse because of their own seditious thoughts about the inequality of society. With their intelligence and erudition, Libra is able to charm many, although to their antagonists the encyclopedic nature of the opponent's knowledge may seem unreasonable reason for bragging.

• Diplomacy and tact. An increased craving for justice leads to the fact that such a man rarely keeps his thoughts in himself, and after all, harsh remarks to others could significantly ruin the life of his own author. Fortunately, Libra is able to present even the most unsightly information so that it is perceived softer, even without hiding any details. It is not for nothing that such guys are considered a good friend, who will not only defend the interests of a friend in society, but also point-to-eye in time to point out to him what urgently needs to be corrected.

Of course, every zodiac sign has certain "standard" disadvantages, and although not all Libras are endowed with them, it is also worth mentioning the potential risks.

• Unusual. Libra men often see in themselves a lot of differences from the surrounding crowd, and although they do not always exalt themselves over it, many may not like it. Such a young man can focus a significant part of his rhetoric not on general hobbies or topics for discussion, but on the difference. At first, such communication can bring interest to the keen interlocutor, but over time, many people turn their backs on Libra, considering them overly snobbish and fixated solely on their understanding of the truth.
• Doubts. Libra as an object is a symbol not only of balance, but also of hesitation, and representatives of the zodiac sign of the same name quite often suffer from such a trait of their own character. Such a person almost immediately sees the advantages and disadvantages of all available options, but it can be difficult for him to weigh them in a short time. The situation is further aggravated by the desire to be proactive in order to avoid problems in the future - the guy begins to calculate everything too far in advance, and as a result, he may completely lose a unique opportunity, be it a career or a relationship. Perhaps the presence of a loved one nearby, who can gently push Libra at the right time, will only benefit the latter.

• Self-righteousness. With their eternal striving for justice, Libra quickly gets used to the fact that their opinion is considered authoritative and justified, and therefore they often forget: in some cases, everyone may have their own truth. A man born under this sign is not always ready to accept an alternative point of view; in an attempt to defend his opinion, he may become overly tough and even despotic. Being able to make a fair decision to his own detriment, he reacts rather painfully to the recommendations of outsiders who advise him to do the same.

As for work, here Libra has a life position located exactly in the middle between an absolute slacker and an avid careerist. Such a man does not refuse to work, realizing that without this material resources, which are important enough for him, cannot be obtained. A promotion for such a guy is joyful, he expects him in advance and is always happy when he achieves success at work, especially since intelligence and fairness often lead to an adequate assessment from the management. At the same time, such a person cannot be called a workaholic - on the contrary, he tries his best not to overwork. Libra does not believe that you need to live for the sake of work, and if it takes too much time and effort, then such a man will gladly leave her - no bonuses in the form of an excellent salary or excellent career opportunities will help.

The ability to refuse a high-paying job could hit hard on Libra's love for comfort items, but the representatives of this sign are rescued by their frugality and frugality. Such a person is able to temporarily abandon many costs if he sees what it is worth saving money for. The craving for saving finances for such men is quite high - they almost always collect for something and are really capable of reaching the desired amount, even if it was initially frightening for its size. It is better to save from such a guy if he does not do it abstractly, but for the sake of a long-invented goal that has overcome all doubts.

Libra is exactly the guy who is interested in her zest in a woman. The external beauty of such a man, of course, will attract, but the doubts typical for representatives of this sign will very quickly enter into the business, because there are many attractive women.

Probably, there is no specific way to the heart of such a person, but he must be sure that his chosen one is the very best. Here the fact that Libra themselves do not see themselves as part of the crowd will play an important role, and therefore they probably will not want to choose a girl for themselves from the gray mass. As a result, just a beautiful woman can interest Libra only as a fleeting attention, while real long-term recognition will go to the one who is able to hook with something else - erudition, sense of humor, or at least maximum understanding of the mental organization of a potential partner. In fact, such guys belong to those few signs who are sometimes able to completely ignore their appearance for the sake of a woman's personal qualities, although it is also undesirable to go to such extremes - the problem will lie in the same doubts of Libra, and whether it was possible to find a prettier companion.

If the relationship is gradually developing and acquiring prospects, you need to remember that the representatives of this sign are very critical of the problems in their lives and the people who create them. The ideal girl for such a guy should not rock the boat, but rather balance the state of mind of her partner. Tantrums and scandals, especially those organized out of the blue, will make such a man very quickly put an end to the chosen one, who only yesterday seemed like an ideal. It's time to remember that Libra will not recycle because of someone's whims and will not be delighted with the opportunity to spend a lot of money on a thing that they think is unnecessary.

Libras, due to their notorious tendency to doubt, relatively rarely make the first step, often expecting too obvious "green light" from the young lady.Often such men are liked by ladies, but the latter may be somewhat scared off by the fact that the guy does not really hide - he may be interested in other girls as well.

However, if such a man loves, then it is not difficult to understand - he behaves quite specifically. A woman feels needed, because such a young man usually has a very romantic nature and is inclined to compliment her beloved, as well as shower her with gifts. The chosen one will not experience a lack of time for meetings either - as already mentioned, Libra despises work that interferes with life, but they are ready to devote absolutely all their time to their beloved.

Separately, it should be noted that the Libra man is quite picky about his chosen one and wants her to be the best of the best. Usually this is expressed in a kind of versatility of the partner, who should be beautiful in photographs, sexy in bed, interesting on joint outings to people, an excellent mistress of the house. With such significant requirements, the guy expects the girl to appreciate the fact of choosing in favor of her. Any manifestations of hysteria will be perceived with hostility by the young man.

Representatives of this zodiac sign are considered good psychologists and are always ready to help a person who complains about their problems to them, but a woman should be ready to voice those out loud. It is generally accepted that Libra does not seek to guess what is wrong with the partner and why she is silent - this behavior either does not bother them at all, or annoys them.

In sex, the Libra guy will try his best so that his partner does not remain disappointed. - the obviousness of the pleasure she has received becomes an excellent bonus for the pride of a young man. Many consider the representatives of this sign to be one of the most advanced in terms of foreplay. It is also believed that such a man will not be at all opposed to experiments, sometimes even somewhat unusual ones - like a relationship on the side. Many Libras are relatively non-jealous, and can allow an additional partner not only for themselves, but also for their companion, although generalizing in this case, of course, is unacceptable.

With regard to marriage with a Libra man, reviews can be found rather contradictory. On the one hand, such a husband can become an excellent party for almost any girl, since he usually considers his chosen one to be the best, and he is ready to carry that in his arms. He is romantic and tries not to fly too far into heaven, remembering the same material well-being of the family, albeit not at an exorbitant level. On the other hand, there are also certain pitfalls, since such a guy wants free space for himself, but is not always ready to provide it to his partner. Roughly speaking, a companion must at any time find time for him, if he wants to, but he himself may sometimes insist that he would like to be alone or go about his business.

However, the problem is relatively easy to solve. Libra always carefully cherishes inner harmony and is looking for a muse, therefore the task of a woman is to become that very muse without being too intrusive. If a man manages to get rid of any doubts about the correctness of his choice, he becomes an excellent husband and father. The only thing to remember is that he is still not ready to do this one hundred percent of his time, therefore from time to time he needs to be given a small outlet, and then the family idyll will last as long as possible.

A typical Libra needs a girl who is inherent in brightness and vitality. Theoretically, a union is possible between any two signs, but in some cases certain concessions are required from both sides, while in others everything turns out harmoniously without any additional effort. Let's briefly consider all the possible companion options for the Libra guy.

• Aries. In general, such a couple is very harmonious, but there is one point that poses a significant risk - a woman is inclined to think that she is more important in this duet, but Libra quietly pulls the blanket over herself, which can provoke an explosion. The main advice for such partners is to focus on finding compromises, then the inherent romance of both will keep them together for a long time.
• Taurus. One of the most successful combinations is that few women suit Libra just as well. In most moments, their views on life coincide and complement each other, the only thing that is very important is the timely distribution of roles in a couple. This is where the role of contradictions will play: she strives for material prosperity - even if she takes on the role of a breadwinner, while Libra is the only man who will interest this lady not as a successful careerist, but a polite and gallant gentleman, to whom household duties are not alien ...

• Twins. From the outside, such a union looks more like friendship than love - both partners can afford to openly flirt with others in the presence of their soul mate. The potential danger lies in the frivolity of the Gemini girl - she, according to the man, may not pay enough attention to household chores. Another difficult moment is the sharpness of the lady's tongue and the seeming coldness of her gentleman, which comes with time.
• Cancer. In general, such a couple is very promising, since sympathy between such people arises quickly and lasts for a long time. Here everyone feels at ease - the girl likes to take care of her beloved, and he feels real satisfaction from this. The risk lies in the fact that Cancers are usually quite unsure of themselves - a woman often thinks that a partner will easily exchange her for another, and after all, scenes of jealousy are exactly what Libra would gladly avoid.

• A lion. And this combination will already be quite unpredictable. On the one hand, a man likes the brightness of his partner's personality, and she, being a representative of a selfish sign, is not indifferent to his romantic adoration. On the other hand, the Lioness does not like that her partner often doubts and does not show much zeal for work - in this she is able to see his weakness, and such a strong sign will not tolerate anyone near her.
• Virgo. Typically Libra, such girls are very interesting, since they have a certain unplayed sophistication - exactly the trait that is capable of conquering such a man. Both are quite romantic, because at first the relationship will seem like a fairy tale, but everything can spoil the Virgo's desire to live according to a pre-drawn plan, while their partner is prone to a certain spontaneity.

• Scales. This is the case when the same zodiac sign is not a problem, on the contrary - partners have a lot of common interests and outlooks on life. Even an unfavorable financial situation will not destroy such a couple - both understand each other's unwillingness to work hard. The main thing here is to remember your partner's resentment and your own diplomacy when you want to tell the hard-hitting truth, otherwise the quarrel of such partners will be extremely stormy.
• Scorpion. The beginning of such a relationship is similar to that with a woman Leo - a bright, mysterious lady and her madly romantic gentleman.However, Scorpio loves to play with a potential partner, because he loves courtship as such, and this only provokes a man. Such an alliance will require compromises on both sides: a man should pay attention to a career in order to meet the high requirements of a companion, and she should give the guy more freedom. If you love - let go, this is the perfect advice for a lady in such a pair.

• Sagittarius. Here, relationships often begin with friendship, which not only does not count as a minus, but also strengthens mutual understanding in a couple. Such a union is equivalent, since representatives of both signs know how to truly love and clearly express this that they both like. The potential danger here is that such a woman is very susceptible to mood swings and tends to constantly try on masks, which completely confuses her partner.
• Capricorn. Such a couple may have very vivid feelings for each other, but the main problem in a relationship will be an excessive desire for leadership on the part of a woman. Libra does not mind giving up a number of responsibilities to a partner, but they still want a certain freedom, as well as to be interested in their opinion. The question of the couple's success is how quickly a woman can understand and accept these simple truths, and whether the young man will wait until this moment. If so, he will make his chosen one a queen.

• Aquarius. Almost the only common feature between the representatives of these two signs is the ability to easily get carried away with everything new, which can destroy a couple at the very initial stage of a relationship. The feelings of such people for each other often turn out to be very light - so much so that the girl sometimes seems not completely absorbed by them. The situation is somewhat aggravated by the fact that her sex is much less interested than him, because the lady will have to more actively demonstrate that she needs it.
• Fishes. The connection begins with some common interests - for example, with mutual passion for the beautiful, and only after a while it develops into something more. A plus for the relationship will be a general desire to avoid scandals and tantrums, although she often disappoints him with a lack of desire to work around the house, and he is able to amaze her with coldness. A man will become the leader of the couple, but in everything except the financial sphere, he will voluntarily agree to share responsibilities with his wife, if she accepts the role of the classic keeper of the hearth.

Girls who want to build a fruitful relationship with a Libra guy should prepare for the fact that the young man will turn out to be unpredictable, and of all that has been described, the set of qualities will have at most two-thirds, in the remaining third being the complete opposite. However, some of the "basic" features do not disappear anywhere, so it is worth considering the tactics of building relationships with such a man.

It is quite easy to win the attention of a man born under this sign, but it is more about just to please or seduce. If you want to attract and conquer forever, you should have certain signs that such guys fall in love with. Numerous reviews indicate that for the most part they are not so original and look quite logical, given the characteristics of a typical Libra.

Originality is the first and obligatory feature, without which the girl runs the risk of remaining a fleeting hobby. It is important to find a fine line so that unusualness does not resemble shocking - for Libra, who is looking for inner balance, such an image will rather become a reason for irritation.

Libra is not looking for an iron lady, but a girl must have a certain strength of mind - it is unacceptable for her to be "a mess." Since the young man himself is rather indecisive and doubts a lot in life, he needs a companion who can sometimes make a choice for him.

Libra's darling does not have to be a written beauty, but a lady should be at least minimally well-groomed - such a man is looking for a lady, and other options will not suit him. External well-being for such a guy also plays another role - he is not chasing money, and therefore he is usually not ready to take on the maintenance of anyone, but he will not pull too "expensive" woman.

Libra men are among those people who like to joke and joke, but intelligence and sharpness of mind make them come up with jokes that not everyone understands. Consequently, a gloomy lady is not suitable for such a man - he would like to find a cheerful companion who can understand his jokes and joke back.

Libra is indecisive, and therefore such an important step as parting will be thought out by him a hundred times before the man moves on to action. Another thing is that in the process of thinking, such a person gradually convinces himself of one of the solutions, and if it turned out to be to the detriment of further relations, it will be difficult to make peace with the guy. For this reason, in a relationship, you can never slide down, reduce requirements for yourself in relation to what was at first after meeting.

Hysteria, as we already understood, will only aggravate the situation, but logical arguments are the only thing that can influence such an intellectual. At the same time, it is necessary to recognize all the existing shortcomings and point out that there are much more potential advantages. If there is a specific reason for the breakup, you should offer very specific steps to eliminate it.

Libra rarely part on impulse, because their decision is almost always comprehensively weighed, so that after parting on their own initiative, they often completely disappear from the life of the ex-partner. It will be difficult to return such a man, because he is always looking for his ideal, and, once disappointed, he will draw certain conclusions. Only a significantly changed situation can make him change his mind, when after a while the former passion not only eliminated the reason for parting, but also acquired some advantages that it didn’t have before.

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