Tips for raising an Aquarius child
If an Aquarius child appears in the family, then many questions may arise about his upbringing. How do you find an approach to the difficult nature of the child? What distinguishes those born from January 20 to February 19, at the junction of the coldest winter month and such an ambiguous harbinger of spring, we will talk in detail in this article.
general characteristics
Aquarius is a sign that is difficult to understand in our standard concepts. It will not be easy with a child, but it will be interesting. But all your efforts invested in its development will pay off. Such a child will not work with the classical system of instilling obedience to adults. You should not seek absolute submission, because such a person needs a rather large degree of freedom to realize and express his individuality.
He steadily strives for the future, is constantly ready to change, a lot of ideas are boiling inside him, which are difficult for others to keep up with. They are characterized by an indefatigable desire for everything new and unknown, the need to develop in their own way, high mental and physical activity, independence of judgment and the presence of their own point of view.
At school, the Aquarius child will study well largely due to his natural abilities. To please his parents, he can become good, but he will show deep knowledge only in those areas that will be of interest to him.
Problems can arise with discipline, because the little thinker does not recognize any rules and authorities.
It is good if you come across a wise and democratic teacher who will not drive the child into a rigid framework, but will allow him some independence in development within the limits of his individual capabilities.
Among classmates, Aquarius can become both a popular activist and a calm contemplator. In any case, his leadership will be rather informal. He does not seek outward trappings of success and power. For him, calmness and harmony around are more important. Sensitive to the emotions and moods of others, he can only act in a fairly calm and psychologically comfortable environment. Therefore, prepare in advance that your student will need a secluded corner or even a separate room for homework.
The Aquarius child is a forward arrow. You should not be intimidated by this and ask questions about whether you can give an appropriate upbringing to such a small, unusual person with complex inclinations. Where the vector of his personality will be directed depends on you.
Aquarius boy
Perhaps these are the brightest individualists among the signs of the zodiac, conductors of new ideas, very lively and always sociable. They will not be led, but will invariably offer their vision, solution and path. To persuade a child to your side, you will have to explain everything logically, remaining on the side of reasonable discipline and rules of life. Then Aquarius himself will understand the validity of such requirements dictated by life itself.
Your son will definitely not have communication problems. In the circle of friends, he will not get lost, firmly taking the position of a champion of equality and justice for all. Next to such a child, according to his own attitude, everyone should feel good and comfortable.
The defining element of air in the sign gives the Aquarius child a craving for the creation and implementation of creative ideas. He is also attracted to all aspects of a person's inner spiritual life. Various fields of science, modern technologies and engineering, programming are attractive for an inquiring mind.
Do not expect compliments from your son Aquarius, he will rather show his love through small pleasant signs of attention: a bunch of flowers or a poem of his own composition.
He spends most of the time with his friends, but he also enjoys the time spent with his family.
Despite all your attempts at successful cooperation, at one point your son will suddenly cease to be nice, smart, sociable: the teenager begins to react negatively to advice and criticism and perceives all your attempts at educational activities with poorly hidden sarcasm. This is how his freedom-loving personality manifests itself, the need for individualization, expression of himself. This is the next stage in the development of little Aquarius. Trying to restrict the child in this, you, most likely, will only harm your trusting relationship.
Be more condescending, let the young Aquarius make his mistakes. The main thing is to create in the child the feeling that you are there and ready to help, but only when he himself asks about it. And of course, do not forget to outline the social norms for your son. Explain in an unobtrusive way what is acceptable and unacceptable behavior.
Aquarius girl
The Aquarius girl also strives for freedom in all its manifestations, as well as for obtaining vivid life experiences. She seems to be collecting various hobbies: hobbies change one after another. Do not be afraid of superficiality: this is how she searches for herself. One month your daughter can read books about a student at the magic school of Hogwarts, and the next she will say that she would like to draw - almost nothing is impossible for her.
The Aquarius girl has no communication problems. She will always find a company to her liking or gather like-minded people around her. Do not be surprised that these will be children with completely different views from your child and from different social backgrounds. Aquarius girls do not recognize most of the social norms we are used to, including such as the division of people into races or classes.
Your daughter can easily communicate on all sorts of topics. She quickly makes new acquaintances and happily maintains a conversation. Often the girl Aquarius becomes an ideological inspirer, talentedly tells invented stories, which is why people are drawn to her. She herself adores and values her friends.
An equally important quality for your daughter is compassion. She treats her parents with tenderness, is ready to take care of her brothers and sisters. Our smaller brothers also find a response in her kind soul. With great enthusiasm, your daughter will defend her unfairly oppressed girlfriend, or may even dream of creating a nature reserve, an animal shelter. Maintain these emotional impulses in her, even if they do not quite coincide with your own outlook on life. Such spontaneous kindness is a rarity these days.
Your child has another great feature: from an early age, the Aquarius girl already knows what she will do. She reads books and watches films about the chosen field of activity, which, by the way, can be very unusual: from the desire to become an actress or writer to the profession of an architect or mathematician. Her good sense of style should also be noted. Your daughter will be partial to beautiful clothes, while not always following the latest fashion trends.
Don't forget: Aquarians have their own view of everything.
We take into account the eastern horoscope
- Aquarius-Rat is a child with high intellectual abilities who has a talent for writing books.
- Aquarius-Ox is a sensitive nature, characterized by tolerance and calmness in solving important issues.
- Aquarius-Tiger is a prudent and intelligent representative.
- Aquarius-Dragon is a moderately self-critical child who sees not only advantages, but also disadvantages.
- Aquarius-Snake is a baby who has mystical powers.
- Aquarius-Horse is a child with clear leadership qualities.
- Aquarius-Rabbit is a devoted comrade and friend, has a penchant for journalism.
- Aquarius-Goat is a mysterious and capricious child.
- Aquarius-Rooster is a selfish child who thinks only of himself.
- Aquarius-Dog is an intellectual who studies well.
- Aquarius-Monkey is a rather reserved child.
- Aquarius-Pig is a small representative, distinguished by intelligence and poise, who will always achieve success.
How to educate?
Do not forget about the combination of the zodiac signs of the parents and the child. So, vain dad Leo or detailed mother Capricorn will often find it difficult to understand his teenager Aquarius. And if the father of the child is Aries, then periodically repeated collisions cannot be avoided. It will be a lucky coincidence if at least one parent in the family is born under the sign of Cancer: the representatives of this zodiacal constellation perfectly find contact with Aquarius.
The Aquarius child already has innate wisdom. He is able to understand everyone and accept alternative conditions of action. But he also counts on a similar attitude towards himself. You will be required to be tolerant, there are no restrictions on the inner, especially spiritual, freedom and choice of life path. Sometimes it will not be clear who is raising whom: you are your child or he is you. And this is quite natural: the Aquarius child, with his special depth of comprehension of things, even at an early age, has a lot to learn.
Actively learning about the world, children born under the sign of Aquarius often puzzle adults with difficult questions. You must be prepared for the fact that it is impossible to find definite answers for them. It will not work to dismiss the child with standard formulations - it is important for him to comprehend the very essence of things and concepts. But, having spent a little time on serious and detailed explanations, you will acquire in the person of the child an admiring listener and a friend who trusts you.
The stages of Aquarius upbringing will not always go consistently and smoothly. At some point, it will seem to you that the teenager has completely got out of hand.This is how new stages of growing up of a little person make themselves felt. Your son may start to break the rules of the family, your daughter will withdraw into herself for a short time, or begin to follow informal directions in her hair and clothes. In this case, it is worth demonstrating sincere calmness and wise indulgence. Even if a volcano of emotions is boiling in your soul, do not show your indignation and indignation. The child should feel your confidence. You are that quiet and calm haven for him, where he can always nest after the next eccentric search for truth.
Many parents are worried about such personality traits of a little Aquarius, such as: stubbornness, spontaneity of thinking, unpredictability, self-confidence. We will not call them negative character traits. Think of it simply as a personality trait for your child. It is in your power to turn them into the strengths of the future extraordinary personality.
Choosing a name
For many of us, it is no longer a secret how important it is to choose a name for an unborn child. Someone chooses a name by lot, someone relies on the advice of relatives, others take into account the eastern horoscope. It is obvious that the character of those born in the year of the Dog is different from those born under the influence of the year of the Rooster or the Boar. Knowing the energy of your child's year of birth and its combination with the zodiac sign will help you to approach this decision thoughtfully and responsibly.
So, 2019 will be marked by a happy event in your life - the birth of a new family member. Here is something in common that unites people born in the Year of the Pig: gentleness, kindness, responsibility, hard work and dedication. A child born this year will be a good family man, regardless of gender. He is not afraid of difficulties and adversities on the path of life. Good conversationalists and loyal companions, they attract people's attention and easily become the center of any company.
For girls born this year, names are suitable: Anna, Valeria, Victoria, Vasilisa, Daria, Eugenia, Inna, Irina, Christina, Ksenia and Svetlana.
For Aquarius boys, the names will bring success: Anton, Vladimir, David, Denis, Daniil, Egor, Ivan, Ilya, Kirill, Maxim, Miroslav, Nikolay, Roman, as well as Taras and Yuri.
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