Ox and Horse Compatibility
People born in the year of the Ox and the Horse can create a union, relations in which develop according to the most controversial scenarios. After all, they are, as the people say, "from a different test," but sometimes it unites strongly and for many years. Interesting that in love, a relationship can be doomed, but business cooperation can become strong... Sometimes a family that has a large business project stays together for a long time precisely because of a common cause. But as soon as it fades into the background, the Horse and the Bull become strangers.
Character features
What is the difference between the characters of the representatives of these symbols, and what they have in common, we will consider further.
Bull
This is a stubborn, hardworking, whole person. He knows how to work, and he considers winter the best time for his professional achievements. In the summer, his activity declines, he gets tired, and it's great if the Ox's vacation falls precisely in the summer.
In childhood and adolescence, these are very dreamy people who love to fantasize in between real work, study and household chores. Fantasies merge so closely with reality that the Bulls forget about the invented and are disappointed in people whom they managed to endow with features from their own dreams.
It is believed that Bulls often lead a stable, but a little monotonous life.
It is not cloudless, but people of this sign have enough strength, will and hard work to overcome problems. If he copes with them, at a new stage in his life it will be easier for him, more pleasant. Together with the difficulties passed, the Ox learns to value what he has. And myself - including.
These are not always people who are fair to themselves. They are afraid of criticism, although they do not show it to the mind.They are prone to self-criticism, and in those areas where their tactics of behavior can only be envied.
In the family, they will be loyal and responsible partners, they will love and pamper children, but they may lack sexual temperament. They love to play ardent lovers, but in fact, feelings for them are more important than physical pleasure.
Horse
These people are spectacular outwardly, they are not indifferent to how the environment perceives them. They like to dress fashionably, for the sake of beauty, they will endure more than one diet. They are sexy, noble, they know their own worth. But what they lack is composure.
Horses pay a lot of attention to emotions, are sprayed with petty criticism and worry about the discontent of even practically strangers.
They are sociable, know how to joke, and can win over. But the constant desire to control the situation often does not allow them to relax. And all this can coexist with self-confidence and inner strength.
Deep down, they are vulnerable and restless people who hide these qualities away. It is difficult for them to open up, it is difficult to meet their internal problems, which makes them snowball.
They are characterized by inconstancy, changeable mood, long doubts about the right choice of a life partner. They can be sweet and courteous in the family, but before going to bed, they are haunted by the thought that they have chosen the wrong person as their spouse. They are prone to dramatization, but they know how to solve problems. They do not like to argue, make choices with difficulty, easily acquire emotional dependence, value physical freedom.
Union between signs
Consider how the relationship will develop in various combinations.
Ox man and Horse woman
These are conflicting personalities, who, however, often pay attention to each other. Such a couple will be noticeable - they are bright in appearance, they like the spectacular image that they create together. Since they really do stand out from the crowd, this feeling fuels their ambition. And only on this external factor can their relationship last for a long time.
The woman in this pair is flexible, emotional, sensual. She does not like routine, prefers creative pursuits or rare professions, focuses on her "peculiarities".
But the Ox men like it: the girl's uncommonness feeds them and in some way demonstrates their own uniqueness.
Relationships will be long-term and promising if sex does not take a leading position in them. The woman of the Horse is usually passionate about it, she will miss this in the rapidly cooling Ox. But if she is fixated on herself, if sublimation occurs through self-expression, career or creativity, she will agree to a sexual lull.
This union can be successful if the man is older and may have already been married.
A girl in such a pair is allowed to be frivolous, not very obligatory. A man will appreciate her for her outward showiness, she will inspire him like a muse. He will even close his eyes to the fact that she is not very economic. But if the muse becomes sad and loses its charm of "subtle nature", he will be disappointed in her.
Relationships can start quickly, the Ox man is not ready to win an interesting girl for a long time, but she does not hesitate with reciprocal signs of attention. Their difference in the first months will only add fuel to the flames of the flaring romance. If this is a casual relationship, the relationship can be even more interesting - they will have more sensuality than those who systematically go through the bouquet-candy period.
A marriage will be good and lasting if the Ox has a life work in which he is wealthy and which brings him a good income.
Only one thing is required from the wife - loyalty and sincere enthusiasm for the success of her husband. The marriage will be long if the Horse woman is ready to deal only with home and comfort, and her husband is a real stay-at-home.
Problems can overtake a couple amid financial disagreements.They will not be able to agree on family expenses and savings, Bull reproaches his partner for unpaid bills, and she cannot remember where the money that her husband left her to pay for the communal apartment went to. In such a family, a break can also occur because of the secrets accumulated by the spouses.
For the Ox, loyalty is very important. If he finds out that his wife is hiding a lot, that her friends know much more about her than he does, he will be crushed.
And she will not forgive the stable and strong-willed Ox for his secrets: latently, the woman realizes that this is the end, that she is losing his disposition.
Horse man and Ox woman
Literally from the first minutes of communication, these people can feel that there is a special energetic connection between them. They feed on this feeling, and it works like "rose-colored glasses": carried away by the attraction to each other, they do not want to see the true portrait of their partner at all.
Relationships will develop according to a more successful scenario if the woman takes the lead.
If a man is inspired by his chosen one, considers her smart and insightful, his perseverance and hard work will be her best support. This can lead to a promising relationship that is built on mutual admiration.
The main thing is that the partners do not begin to compete. If at a certain moment it seems to the Bull woman that the chosen one does not show due zeal for work, that she begins to pull everything on herself, this is the beginning of the end. It is easier for her to forgive betrayal than laziness and unwillingness to develop.
The main thing is that the partners do not begin to compete. If at a certain moment it seems to the Bull woman that the chosen one does not show due zeal for work, that she begins to pull everything on herself, this is the beginning of the end. It is easier for her to forgive betrayal than laziness and unwillingness to develop.
If the husband tries to reconcile his wife, and especially begins to give instructions about work, the marriage is doomed. The Ox woman loves active and bright, she can be greedy for flattery and compliments, since she herself is rather awkward in this. And if the husband is ready to answer her requests, she will forgive him for other shortcomings.
In order for the union of the Ox woman and the Horse man to develop successfully, it is necessary that the spouse be ready for transformation, development, and the ability to deliberately take risks. If the wife is patient and ready to take control at a difficult moment, the marriage will hold on, and the couple will successfully overcome difficult moments. But if people have stopped communicating, if everyone has accumulated claims against their spouse, if they have ceased to be friends, this union fades.
Business and career
According to the horoscope, this union can have very good business communication. They are honest to business, know how to delve into details, do not give up at the first setbacks.
Short-term business projects will bring good dividends, but long-term cooperation is less likely to bode well.
The Horse will crush the Bull with his assertiveness and impatience, but he will never be able to explain to her that it is necessary to be able to wait, and that "it is important to harvest on time."
friendship
Representatives of these signs have not so many chances to make friends. They rarely understand each other. It's one thing when a relationship is built on passion and charm, an open and honest friendship is quite another. They look at the world differently, and the Horse will quickly get tired of the Ox's stubbornness and adherence to principles, and he will not be able to come to terms with the inconsistency, capriciousness, emotionality of the Horse.
But friendship can happen if they are already experienced people who have learned to understand and accept themselves. In such a relationship, they will feed each other.
The bull will learn spontaneity, riskiness, the ability to externally present oneself, lightness in relation to someone's criticism. And the Horse will be fascinated by the Ox's tenacity and hard work, his humble attitude to his own talents and his willingness to take on large-scale projects.
The compatibility of people born in the year of the Ox and people with the sign of the Horse is far from ideal.But these unions can gain strength and durability if each person in a couple knows himself well, realizes his own shortcomings and is willing to compromise.
The following video presents a characteristic of the relationship of people born in the year of the Ox, with other signs of the eastern horoscope.
