Compatibility of Rabbit (Cat) and Rat on the Eastern calendar
People who are fond of astrology cannot but admit that certain coincidences speak of the validity of all "star" judgments. And they listen to the advice of astrologers, descriptions of signs, when it comes to important issues. For example, about choosing a life partner. But even if the horoscope does not portend an ideal relationship, it can point to those "bumps" that are easy for lovers to stumble over. Knowledge is power, and if people of different signs are compatible, they can also help.
Description
Representatives of different symbols of the eastern horoscope also have different character traits.
Rabbit (Cat)
The Chinese call the 4th year of the 12-year cycle the Year of the Cat; the Japanese call it the Year of the Rabbit. The description of this animal breaks some stereotypes. In many Slavic tales, the rabbit appeared to be a cowardly creature, but in Eastern legends this animal was able to defeat the dragon. An animal (cat, rabbit) has a quality - after falling, it lands on all 4 paws. And the same property is inherent in people born under this sign, they know how to endure falls and get up even with their last strength.
These people can be called lucky - they, indeed, are often lucky. They win at gambling, they get easy tickets in exams more often, they win lotteries. But not only due to luck, they gain authority and respect. People of this symbol have rich intellectual potential. As a rule, they have a good memory, excellent logic, excellent self-presentation skills.
They are gifted, ambitious people who clearly weigh the situation.Sometimes they cannot make a choice even in something mundane, because of the habit of weighing and analyzing, they end up without benefit. In love, they are loyal and affectionate people, but only to those who love them no less. Unrequited love is not about them, even if such a story happens in the life of the Cat, he loves himself in this suffering and artificially prolongs it.
Male cats are polite, sensual, know how to seduce with words, but they do not always decide on actions. Knows how to pretend, but it's not always a bad thing. He can give false hopes, but not from a negative message, it's just that it's always hard for him to upset people.
The woman's cats are a little melancholy, brooding, hovering in the clouds. But this gives them a certain charm. The behavior of a woman is such that she can become a wonderful socialite, the best wife of a diplomat. She knows how to present herself, knows how to please. The Cat woman is not very sensitive to marriage: she will not fight for it, as for the main value, if the discomfort in marriage deprives her of happiness. She will not follow her husband to another city if she is sincerely good at her own.
Rats
The Year of the Rat is the first year of the cycle. The rat has a dangerous charm and takes advantage of it a lot. She knows how to get people to help themselves, she knows how to manipulate and achieve her own through someone else's labor. Even a good and well-mannered person with these characteristics cannot isolate himself from this natural trait: but this quality can acquire a positive color if a person becomes an excellent manager-organizer who knows how to delegate authority.
There are many choleric people among the Rats. These people know how to speak beautifully and convince, they love to criticize. They excel in activities related to communication, communications. At work, they are pragmatic people who know how to cope with a critical situation. They often use their cunning, and even more often disguise it.
In love, Rats are the most vulnerable. Strong feelings paralyze her will, reason and all rational calculations. Unhappy love can lead the Rat into severe depression. People of this sign do not know how to fully open up to others, because a love trauma, which they do not displace beyond the boundaries of their hearts, can affect their entire subsequent life.
The Rat man will prefer intellectual work to physical work, and this is often a justified choice. He knows how to manage money, prudent and thrifty. At the same time, he is generous, and can easily part with a large amount, simply by helping someone. These men are characterized by mystical thinking: many of them are superstitious, although they do not show the mind.
Rats women are real realists who do not run away from everyday life and routine, they are well in charge of the economy and organize order in difficult times, while others will be in a bad mood and despair. By nature, they are sexy, attractive, do not suffer from bigotry. In the family, material wealth and stability are important for them, and passions can remain in the premarital period.
Matching in love
Consider the relationship between a woman and a man of these signs of the eastern horoscope.
Rat man and Rabbit woman
The compatibility of the Rabbit (Cat) of a woman and a man born in the year of the Rat may be good, but with the condition of great efforts on the part of the lovers. Such a union can be long and strong, of those marriages that only gain strength over the years. But this rarely happens, simply because people cannot come to terms with the difference in worldviews. Those who have already experienced setbacks, failed relationships, and learned lessons are more likely to have a long marriage.
These are people who are ready to accept each other for who they are. In this case, the Rabbit woman will respect the intellectual strength of her partner and, in a sense, serve her. And the man will be fueled by this admiration. Such a puzzle is not always enough for a strong marriage, but it can be the anchor that will prevent people from jumping out of their place and breaking a love boat.
According to the horoscope, they are prescribed a quick start of a relationship. Sexual attraction in this couple can be strong, lightning fast, but when the first passion subsided, it may turn out that people are extremely different. And when it comes to young people, the collapse of the relationship is great. Men begin to blame their partner for spinelessness, lack of vivid emotions. In bed, they become dull, and in life the melancholic Rabbit may not show them at all. And the Rat needs them for general tone, for the taste of life.
This couple will be strong only if the man has already lived a passionate relationship with smashing dishes and scandals, and began to appreciate calmness. The domestic woman Rabbit will arrange for him comfort and a quiet pier, where she will purr and create a relaxing environment. If a man has enough expression at work, he will not complain about the tranquility at home. Sometimes questions of jealousy may arise: the Rat will want to make sure that his wife is interesting not only to him. But the Rabbit does not need such provocations, the woman thinks about herself and her quiet happiness, and not about seducing everyone around.
Relationships will be happy and long if people have already matured, began to value self-sufficiency and understand that no one is without flaws, and the missing emotions can be obtained in work, sports and other things.
Rabbit man and Rat woman
And this combination cannot be called simple - people of these signs can become implacable enemies. A woman is able to give a harsh rebuff to a man, and even such that he will be dumbfounded and enraged. A man is too lazy for romance and expression in a relationship, and a Rat woman will be burdened by this all the time.
It is also noteworthy that the safety of the family, its wealth and strength - all this will fall on the shoulders of the woman. And she does not always understand this right away, such a revelation can come to her only after 1-2 years of marriage. The rabbit often puts all the household chores and problems on the partner, at first she herself can famously take on the arrangement of the house, financial issues, and will completely take over the children. But the strength ends, and the husband is in no hurry to share this fate. And this is where strong disagreements begin.
Another possible problem in marriage is Rabbit's unwillingness to let the Rat go into the "big world." A woman needs gatherings with friends, parties, camping trips, corporate parties and various other public events. This energy feeds her, and facilitates her fate as a mistress and mother (for her husband, she is also a mother). It is unusual for a rabbit to be so deeply immersed in society, and he considers the Rat's desire to "walk" an idiot, unacceptable behavior of a married lady. A household labyrinth is what drives the Rat to a dead end, and it can cut a marriage in one day.
Sexual relationships will be interesting only if the Rat man is handsome, charming. Then even his laziness and passivity will not turn his partner away, she will try for two.
friendship
Friendship of signs is rarely real, lasting, in which friends are equal. The Rabbit will be sickened by the bragging of the Rat, as well as the easy admission of principles, which the Rabbit cannot stand. The Rat, on the other hand, may feel indignation at the boredom of the Rabbit, corrosiveness and meticulousness, not realizing that its own lightness is perceived by a friend as frivolity and recklessness.
Only those friendships can become successful when each person in this pair becomes a kind of alter ego for each other. Deprived of the ability to take risks, cunning, undertake adventures and provocations, the Rabbit can be fascinated by the "Bendera" mind of the Rat. And he will compensate for his own lack of these qualities by friendship with such a negatively charming friend.
For the Rat, the Rabbit can be like a sedative. He will console a friend in moments of despair and failure, can cool his ardor and be a "brake" in dangerous situations. In the world of his passions and intrigues, the Rat often lacks such a calm and intelligent person like the Rabbit.But often this complementary friendship ends in betrayal. People get tired of each other, get tired of using each other, and one of them does not leave the relationship very nicely.
Business Compatibility
Business partnerships can be successful if they are mature people who know how to reflect. If the Rat slows down in the operation of the Rabbit, the business may well "burn out". A partnership will be successful if the Rat is older than the Rabbit, and she is more cautious, less intriguing and, finally, more delicately learned to shift her responsibilities to others. In business cooperation, this tandem will be more successful than in the same friendship.
The difference in characteristics, ideological conflicts, severe contradictions - this is what can spoil the relationship between the Rabbit (Cat) and the Rat.but it's also something to work with. There are no bad signs in the horoscope, each person, having analyzed his natural characteristics, strengths and weaknesses, can learn to live with them. To live happily and fully, converges with other people unlike himself, and build a solid bridge of understanding.
Next, watch a video with the participation of a psychologist describing the nature of people born in the year of the Rat and Rabbit (Cat).