Why are friends jealous and what to do about it?

Every woman at least once in her life has experienced the envy of her friends. Some of the fairer sex, sensing the threat in time, immediately cut off all contacts with bad people. By these actions, they saved themselves and their environment from very unpleasant consequences. Others, on the contrary, trusted hidden opponents and got into unpleasant stories.

Envy is a factor that brings together various forms of social behavior. It is usually directed from one person to another. This phenomenon occurs due to the fact that one person has such advantages that are inaccessible to another person. Therefore, one side treats the other side badly and has a hostile feeling towards it. I must say that all people are jealous. However, some may struggle with this feeling, while others may not. In the modern world, the problem of envy has only intensified due to increased competition in interpersonal relationships.

Usually, an envious person carefully conceals this manifestation and, in spite of everything, tries to maintain friendly relations. Therefore, sometimes it is difficult for a woman who is envied to understand that she is in danger. However, this can still be recognized by certain factors. Jealousy manifests itself in copying your life. For example, your friend suddenly starts dressing the way you dress, or she imitates your behavior and speech. Usually envious people act blindly, because they do not reflect on their behavior. Therefore, you will easily notice the absurdity in actions and subsequent actions.

You can find out that there is a bad and envious person in front of you by certain actions.

• It constantly diminishes and nullifies your achievements and successes. For example, a friend makes fun of your behavior or clothing all the time. You need to understand that a normal and kind woman (girl) will not do this in any case. At best, she will quietly hint that something is wrong with you (with clothes or with behavior), and will help fix it.
• All envious people become very happy if failures occur in your life. For example, you lost your job, and your friend was noticeably cheerful from such news and even tries to joke. Only her jokes make you feel hurt, not funny.
• Conversely, your success affects your friend's mood negatively. After your next triumph, she becomes irritable and rude to you all the time.
• A friend accuses you of being in a better position than her all the time. Keep in mind that usually envious people do not say such things aloud, but you feel them on a mental level.
• If there is a person next to you who is very jealous of you, then you gradually plunge into a vacuum. As a result, even those people who respected you very much do not want to communicate with you.
• You feel that you are constantly exposed to some kind of negative influence from your friend. Sometimes it seems to you that her gaze makes your blood run cold. If this happens, then you should not ignore these feelings. It is possible that your intuition is not deceiving you.
• An envious friend constantly advises you of some kind of nonsense. For example, she invites you to quarrel with your partner just because he did not give an expensive ring. You understand that her demands are ridiculous, and you do not want any quarrels.

All people have in their subconscious the desire to be always and everywhere first. This is especially true for women. If men can control their feelings, then women always act emotionally. When a bright and successful rival appears, some persons begin to behave inappropriately and even aggressively. Often, the fair sex can be jealous of every little thing, but in most cases there are special reasons for this. Let's consider all the options in more detail.

• School envy is not uncommon. The Troechness is jealous of her classmate for her knowledge and good grades.
• A girl with an ordinary appearance is often jealous of her beautiful girlfriend. She cannot come to terms with the fact that she looks much better and is liked by the opposite sex.
• Others are jealous of their thinner girlfriend. The new appearance of the friend haunts especially those representatives of the fair sex who have been on a diet for a long time.
• There are women who envy them with their luck in their personal lives. For example, they do not deny themselves anything, as they live well. Envious people say about such: she has a rich husband, a new apartment, she does not work after marriage.
• It also happens that both women are sympathetic to the same man. In this case, one of the rivals, who remains on the sidelines, is capable of very unpleasant actions. Sometimes it comes to a boiling point that leads to tragedy.
• If one friend got married and became pregnant earlier, then another, not very decent friend, certainly begins to envy her pregnancy and relationship with her husband.

Any inappropriate and negative actions against you will always put pressure on you and make life unbearable. You cannot even imagine how your life will change if you are subjected to black envy.Envy is the worst impact on a person that can be. Let's consider this issue in more detail.

• Your finances can quickly run out. This will not happen by chance. Money loves peace and a pure aura. If your aura is breached, the stream of well-being will quickly diminish.
• The luck that was on your side will also quickly go away. The black energy of a hating person will simply destroy this favorable flow.
• If you are full of love energy, then this channel will cease to exist due to the influence of a bad person on it. An envious person will simply lure your luck in love to her side.
• Health will also decline. It's not a secret for anyone that a person has a certain energy. If a person who is angry with you connects to this energy, then, willingly or unwillingly, she will take your healthy energy. Therefore, you should not be surprised if you feel a lack of energy and even suddenly get sick.
• So, as a result of friendship with an envious friend, you can lose everything: your job, your family's health. And even if an evil person cannot influence you energetically, he can harm you with quite tangible physical actions.

Envy that comes from a person should never be tolerated. You need to immediately break off communication and switch your attention to other, more decent people.

First, you need to make sure of this. How to do it? Show off your new dress or tell her the news that is only good for you. If you feel a chill and inappropriate reaction from your girlfriend, then perhaps she is jealous of you. Please note: self-envy cannot be confused with any other manifestations. After the situation clears up a little, remember some points: it is possible that your friend previously treated you unkindly, only you did not want to notice it.

Next, you should weigh everything and think: what will you lose if you stop communicating with a person who does not like you? It is possible that friendship with this person has long bored you. Then this friendship must be broken off urgently. If you continue to pretend that you do not notice anything, then soon the situation can only get worse. Your friend's envy will not go anywhere, but will only grow.

As a result, multifaceted negative actions on the part of a friend, like a powerful mudflow, will destroy your own life. A person who wishes you harm will sow it around you at every opportunity. So don't be surprised if you start having health problems first. Then her friend's actions will affect her family and work. As a result, you can lose everything that was so dear to you. As a result, the false girlfriend will only rejoice at your grief. So, if you suspect something was wrong, take action immediately. For starters, minimize contact with the toxic person and go about your personal affairs.

Everyone knows that envy is a bad feeling that needs to be fought. What if it doesn't work out well? You still need to get rid of such a negative manifestation. And here everything depends only on you.

• Self-examination of your personality and your merits will help you to stop being jealous. It is possible that you are much more successful and prettier than your girlfriend. You just don’t want to notice it, and you suffer from the same.
• You can overcome envy with the help of an “order” to your “I”. As soon as bad thoughts begin to creep into your head, try to redirect them in the other direction. For example: think about the fact that you too can reach certain heights in this or that business.
• Love yourself for who you are: with all the flaws.Remember that any shortcomings can easily turn into advantages if you put in the effort. For example: you think you are ugly. Well, let. The main thing is not beauty, but personal happiness. Then set a goal and find yourself a partner who will not be so attractive outwardly, but will be beautiful in soul. Believe that over time, external beauty fades, and internal, on the contrary, comes out.
• If you cannot cope with the desire to be as successful as your friend, then direct all your energy to fulfill the desire. Stop being jealous of a successful person, and start learning from her.

If you have problems, then in most cases you yourself are to blame for the fact that they appeared. Therefore, you yourself will have to correct difficult situations. If you are an unenviable person and live by your own mind, then you can surely see in your environment someone who envies you at least a little. It is possible that the envy of this person is of a fleeting nature and has no basis under it. Then you should not focus on this and spoil the relationship.

If you notice black envy on the part of your friend, then you need to be on your guard. First of all, stop trusting the person who treats you badly. Keep all secrets to yourself and do not give details about your personal life. Otherwise, your words may turn against you. Try at least a little, but be closed. In an unfamiliar company, you need to be at ease and talk only about trivial topics. Thus, you will prevent gossip and become uninteresting for envious girlfriends.

Always smile and be friendly. However, keep people you think are unreliable at a distance. For example, let's say you went to a cafe with some friends. In the company of unfamiliar women, be casual and have fun. Also, let everyone know right away that you are far from gossip.