How you can get to know a girl: places, appearance and demeanor

Despite the fact that historically the right to approach and get acquainted belongs to the male sex, its representatives often wait for the first step from the girl. This comes from a lack of experience, lack of self-confidence, not knowing how to behave and what to say in order to please. This task is not so difficult, but it is not as simple as it seems at first glance. Knowledge of the basic rules, adherence to simple recommendations will definitely give you the opportunity to feel freer, and therefore find your only one. Psychologists believe that you can find a way to the heart of any girl.

The main question that arises before a man who wants to start a relationship with a girl is where to look for her. In fact, although it can happen anywhere, choosing the right location will increase the chances. We bring to your attention the most popular places where you can interest a girl you like.

You can make an acquaintance even on the street, a large percentage of relationships arise this way. If you don't know where to start, just take a look at the girls around you. The main signal that they have shown sympathy for you is an open, interested look.Even if you just looked into each other's eyes, but at the same time saw disposition and friendliness on your face, this may be enough to give it a try. Many meetings never took place because the view was not considered a sufficiently weighty argument. There is no need to get lost and pass by if you notice the look of a girl who impressed you.

It is very important to get into the conversation correctly, the first phrase often decides everything, so it is worth thinking about it. The said stupidity or vulgarity will instantly devalue all your chances. Try to start by making eye contact, after which the said phrase will no longer shock the stranger. Do not make long ornate phrases, just say hello, offer to meet you. You need to communicate positively, kindly. You can start with a compliment only if you are confident and know how to do it, because the banality about beautiful eyes is unlikely to surprise anyone.

If your goal is a long-term acquaintance, then you should demonstrate this immediately. If the first phrase was received favorably and the offer to meet you was not rejected, it is important to interest the unfamiliar girl. If the degree of affection is not clear from the feedback, try to joke or attract attention with your achievements (but not in the form of bragging). Participation in interesting events, competitions, interesting work - everything will do. If the girl is still polite, but no more, it is worth referring to being busy and asking for a phone number, suggesting to meet another time.

A shy man is quite common. Such people cannot get to know each other personally, but there is a way out - Internet resources. Social networks are the most popular sites where you can find a girl. However, do not think that it is enough to send one message to make the acquaintance take place. First of all, take care of your account, put a real photo on your avatar, where you are in a good perspective and a decent look.

Pages with frank pictures are unlikely to interest an adequate girl. If you are in search, do not be lazy to fill out the account form in full and in detail. Be sure to show your hobbies: sports, photography, books, travel. Another important point is literacy. If you are not sure about the spelling, then you will have to use electronic helpers. Be sure to check emails before sending. An illiterate text will cause nothing but irritation.

This is a very popular dating place, which, however, rarely leads to something serious, as the atmosphere in the nightclub is relaxed, frivolous. Of course, there are exceptions to any rule, but the girls themselves do not take such acquaintances responsibly. Getting to know each other and having fun together one evening is the maximum you can count on when meeting in clubs. But as a practice, gaining experience, overcoming embarrassment, this option is almost ideal, because the situation is conducive to easy communication.

If you have everything in order with your appearance, figure, you feel confident enough in bathing shorts, then the beach is a good place to meet.The girls come there to rest, so they are in no hurry - you will have time to think over tactics, to take a closer look. A great way is to involve the girl you like in some kind of beach entertainment, games.

Girls love shopping, so getting to know each other in a store is one of the most promising. Moreover, there you can get acquainted not only with a spectacular customer, but also with a seller you like. The latter is much easier to do, since the girl will have to communicate with you by her status. Ask for help in choosing a shirt or jacket, perfume for mom as a gift, a handbag for your sister.

Once upon a time it was considered bad form to meet each other in transport, however, the situation when you drive opposite each other in the metro for a long time and look at each other is a great chance to make a new acquaintance. Almost the same rules apply here as when meeting on the street: look, first phrase, interest.

An excellent chance to get to know each other is provided by regular group activities: for example, sports, fitness. You are already united by some common interest - a gym, horse riding, swimming. On the basis of this hobby, you can get to know each other easily and naturally, and there is already a topic for conversation, therefore, you are definitely relieved of the painful search for how to interest a stranger.

Another great way to get to know each other is a concert of your favorite band, a hockey match, or a festive event. The atmosphere is relaxed, and the general topic for the conversation is already ready - the singer, the music, the team play. It will be much easier to continue such an acquaintance than on the street.

This method of acquaintance is completely forgotten in vain. If you haven't been to the theater for a long time, give it a try. You will be amazed how many girls and women of all ages and statuses there are. There are very few men there, which means that it will be very easy to submit a coat, offer a program, discuss the performance during the intermission in the buffet.

In an educational institution (college, institute), the easiest way to get acquainted. Moreover, you know many girls. This is the same as the relationship at work, when people communicate within the same institution on a daily basis - making a long acquaintance in such conditions is easier. At least you can catch your eye every day.

Appearance is the first criterion by which we evaluate people. Subsequently, it becomes not so important, but at the moment of the first acquaintance it is necessary to make a positive impression on the chosen one. If you want to be liked, you have to take care of yourself. Be sure to pay attention to your posture, stay upright. Take care of your teeth and oral cavity, wash your hair on time and visit the hairdresser on time. It is not necessary to dress up in an original way, but a tidy look is always a plus when meeting. If you are slovenly dressed, your clothes are wrinkled, your shoes are dirty, you are unlikely to succeed with the opposite sex.

Learn to choose the right clothes - this is important not only for women. Which store you prefer for this does not matter, but size is very important. There is no perfect style for dating, however, there are directions that increase the chances of making a favorable impression. First of all, it is casual - free and versatile style. Classics are good too, but not always appropriate. Shirt, cardigan, coat, blazer, chinos - this is a simple set of things that will allow you to look modern and dignified.

It is not enough for a modest guy to just approach a girl; it is important to behave correctly, unobtrusively. First of all, accept the idea that girls are not aliens, they are people just like men.Therefore, you absolutely do not need to jump over your head to please. Of course, there are differences in interests, but this is more a plus than a minus. First of all, girls love compliments and considerate attitude. Appropriate behavior will be a huge plus. A sincere, slightly embarrassed smile always works great.

The most difficult thing in dating is the stage when you need to build a dialogue, and practically nothing is known about the girl (it is especially difficult if you are shy). The most effective way is to focus on the interlocutor and give her the opportunity to conduct the conversation.

If you don't know what to talk about, then the active listening method will help you out in any situation. You just need to ask more questions about the girl herself - everyone loves to talk about themselves. Ask such questions that your chosen one will be pleased to answer, then the acquaintance will certainly be successful.

You can start a dialogue with questions about age, name, occupation. At the same time, be sure to introduce yourself and name your age and status. In a conversation, be sure to emphasize the peculiarity of your chosen one - this always causes a positive reaction.

Before getting to know each other, you should give the girl the opportunity to consider herself properly - hardly anyone will like it if someone approaches him from the back. A return glance and a smile is a signal to start communication. In addition, adhere to the following advice from psychologists:

• start with a compliment;
• Commenting is a great way to retain attention at the initial stage, so be observant: a movie poster is an excuse to talk about it or go to the cinema together;
• refrain from templates, try to be non-standard;
• try not to drag out the conversation, even if everything is going well - it is better to take a phone number, come to your senses and continue;
• try to get to know each other wherever possible - experience will add self-confidence to you;
• unobtrusive persistence is the path to success;

• do not portray who you are not: being natural within the bounds of decency is the best way to really interest a girl, you still won't be able to play all your life;
• it is important to be motivated if you want to get to know each other - you will be able to overcome shyness or fear.

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