How to meet a girl on the street?

In the fast paced pace of life, a person gets used to trusting computer technologies, so ordinary communication or even acquaintance on the street can cause difficulties for many. Often, modern young people, when they want to approach an unfamiliar beautiful girl, often have awkwardness, insecurity, fear of being misunderstood or rejected.

The first thing to start with is the look. It is necessary to create an attractive image, because often one glance is enough for a girl to understand whether it is worth starting a conversation with a guy who comes up. To do this, it is worth clearly identifying the main guidelines that will help you feel confident in any situation.

• Purity. Few people will like it if a shabby-looking person turns to him. You need to start with basic hygiene - that is what is the basis. An attractive man is always shaved, his nails are cut short, and his hair is neat. Bristles are one of the repulsive factors - they are not always understandable by girls. The sweaty smell is unacceptable - it repels the representatives of the opposite sex.

• Neatness. Clothes should be ironed and clean - it is important to iron not only the shirt and trousers, but also the T-shirt. Pilling on a sweater, hat, spots or bruises on a jacket are unacceptable. Special attention should be paid to shoes that require daily care. Dirty shoes can ruin the whole picture, because for a girl this indicator is one of the sure signs of male sloppiness, so she will try not to keep the conversation going.

• Clothing size. Everything that is in a man's wardrobe must correspond to the size of the person. If a shirt or trousers hang on the figure, then this will create an image of a person who does not take care of himself. This means that in the future, such a task may fall on fragile female shoulders. Girls do not need such an alignment. In the same way, they do not like it when a man's clothes are almost bursting at the seams - with this the guy not only does not emphasize the dignity of his body, but also creates the image of a narcissist who cannot live without constant compliments. In this case, a stranger often passes by, without stopping for a single phrase.

• Style. Not every man knows that girls pay attention to the clothing style of the opposite sex. This does not mean at all that you need to dress in expensive boutiques, choosing a dandy set - in most cases it is not appreciated in women's eyes. However, a duo of an oversized T-shirt with skinny jeans will not work either. It is also worth giving up leather skinny and tightly buttoned shirts - for these little things, the girls have certain character traits of the interlocutor, and far from the best.
• Posture. Rarely does a man not pay attention to a woman's gait. Girls also notice male posture, because male stoop looks ugly - it speaks of insecurity and, as a result, low status, since an insecure person rarely achieves anything in life. If the guy has a few free hours a week, then you can go swimming or devote time to the gym.
• Perfume. A confident man always smells good. However, this does not mean at all that you need to douse yourself with perfume or use something sharp. Harsh aromas have an extremely negative and repulsive effect on girls - they care about the subtle scent of perfume mixed with the aroma (not sweat) of the body. The cheap scent has a pungent marine scent. If the guys like him, then the girls are diametrically opposed.

First of all, you need to be in the line of sight of the girl you like. In order not to scare her, you should not approach from behind or block the road - these approaches are erroneous and doomed to failure. If there is no fear of acquaintance, then you can come up from the side and ask about something. When she has already noticed you, you can catch her eye and smile slightly.

In a minute, you can meet your gaze again, without sliding over your chest and hips - she will notice it. You can't look at her for a long time, because this can lead the girl to bad thoughts, and in this case, all chances can be reduced to zero. Also, do not wink and try to shower her with compliments on the fly.

The female gaze clings to the male image that stands out from the crowd. It is better to choose a casual style - it is informal and at the same time quite attractive. It's easy to create: you can use trousers, jeans, a shirt, a polo here, but you need to choose the right clothes. Its elements must be combined with each other.

It is rare for a girl to be delighted if a stranger immediately praises her ass or breasts and offers to relax together. However, there are words and phrases that she cannot pass by. You should not sacredly believe that they will work 100%, but if the guy behaves naturally and relaxed, then he will succeed. You can just walk up, smile and say the magic word "hello".

By answering your greeting, you can already understand whether further conversation and acquaintance will take place. At this stage, the girl has already appreciated the appearance, neatness, the ability to present herself and naturalness. Her positive reaction to the male greeting suggests that the acquaintance can continue.

Now is the time to say one of the phrases below.

• “After your smile, I completely forgot where I was going. My name is (for example) Eugene. "
• "I liked you, and I wanted to hear your voice."
• "I could not walk past seeing your smile."
• "This dress suits you so well - I could not help but say about it."
• “There is a cafe nearby. I'd like to treat you to a cup of aromatic coffee. "

It is not at all necessary to repeat exactly the phrases from the examples - you can say what you feel at that moment. If the girl really liked, then you can tell her about it. If the man noticed that he has a chance, you can resort to a little trick, without giving her time to think. Saying just one phrase, he will be able to get the coveted number of her phone.

For example, you can use the suggestions below.

• "Hey. I could not get past your eyes and smile, but now I have to go. If you give me your mobile number, I will call you. "
• “You are charming, but I have to go now. We could sit in a cafe. Let's discuss this later, just give me your number. "

You can resort to using props. To do this, you need to buy a nearby colored ball or flower and give it to her with the words: "I really wanted to please you this morning (afternoon, evening)"

The situation in which an ordinary conversation with an unfamiliar beautiful girl on the street can turn into an acquaintance can be different. If a man is attentive, then he will notice such details. You can use even a cool evening as an excuse for acquaintance, inviting the stranger you like to visit the nearest coffee shop. You can say the following: "Hello, you must be cold in this thin blouse, take my sweater."

If she is carrying a heavy bag, you can say, "I can help carry the bag, let me take it."

You can approach from the other side. If you have a notebook or notebook with you, then you should ask the girl for a pen literally for a minute. Write something down on paper - even if it is a phrase about how good she looks, or a description of her beautiful eyes. After that, giving her a pen, you can say: "Thank you very much, I had to write down an important thought."

You should immediately ask if she has such a thing. If you want to take a phone number so that she doesn't guess right away, you can ask her to help out in a vital situation. For example, you can say that the phone is down, but you urgently need to call. At the same time, it is important to have time to put your mobile phone on silent mode. Then all you have to do is dial your number.

You can exchange phrases that in our time there are few sympathetic people, so I want to thank her with a cup of coffee.

Here your own imagination can already come in handy. For example, you can capture yourself in time at the moment when she will be photographing something, or you can invite her to take a picture herself in such a beautiful place. Further conversation will depend on your own naturalness and confidence.

You can play on common interests with the following phrases:

• “Good technique, I also like to take photos”;
• “I also read it, but I would like to know your opinion”;
• "I propose to discuss the ending over a cup of coffee not far from here";
• "I would like to know what exactly attracts you to the photo"

It is important to present yourself in an original way, regardless of the place of acquaintance. For example, if you approach the question correctly, then you can have time to get to know each other at the bus stop, while the girl is waiting for her bus. Approaching her, it is worth asking about which route leads to happiness. If she almost always refuses or ignores a banal question, then in this case she will hold her gaze and smile. And this is already a chance to continue dating.

We must not forget that time may be limited under different conditions.Do not delay and be afraid to approach, because the bus can take away a stranger while you tune in to the desired wave. Choosing the right phrase shouldn't take too long.

You need to understand that girls do not like it when they start to touch them from the very beginning - from this, their interlocutor instantly turns into a maniac preoccupied with sex who cannot restrain himself. If you really liked the girl, you need to have restraint. You should not play, showing your brutality - it is better to keep naturally and be yourself, because she will notice any falsity. Confidence will be a good friend when trying to get to know each other.

It is important to be calm and positive - these are key success factors. The girl should feel openness - this is conducive to communication. You can't complain about something, you can't play a loser - this approach is doomed to failure. A note of ridicule or outright seduction should not be allowed - today girls very quickly understand what a man needs.

Having chosen the first phrase successfully, you need to develop the conversation in this direction. In addition, you can find out the interests of the interlocutor as you talk, showing your own enthusiasm. It is interest that is important, but not obsession - the girl will feel the difference. Under no circumstances should you pretend to keep the conversation going if you don't understand the subject matter.

You can end some of your phases with an interrogative, thereby giving her a reason to answer. It is important to show cheerfulness - this image is liked by the opposite sex. At the same time, do not delay the acquaintance so that she wants to continue the communication. Having received the phone, you can end the acquaintance, leaving her with thoughts of you. If it is evening time, then it is worth taking her home.

If you are shy, then you should know a few rules.

Firstly, you do not need to convince yourself that the goal is precisely acquaintance, because you can simply communicate with a stranger - this will allow you to relax a little and find inner relaxedness.

Secondly, you need to understand that, in addition to normal people, there are also inadequate people. If you fell for such a girl, then you should not despair.

Thirdly, no refusal is fatal - it only allows you to gain experience of communication with the opposite sex. It should be noted that a girl can stop talking to a guy for several reasons.

For example, if:

• she already has a permanent partner;
• she is married and not interested in another acquaintance;
• the guy's manner of communication is boorish and leaves much to be desired;
• the look of the guy seems to her untidy;
• the approach to acquaintance is banal and boring.

In addition, she can refuse an acquaintance due to different social status and material status. In this case, you need to start with yourself. You should not expect that the girl will do everything herself - you can not wait for this, but you should not endure internal defeat, because every time your own cowardice will grow into a complex.

Here it is important to get into the field of vision of the girl you like. After the glances have met, you need to mentally count to three and go to meet her. You can walk up and say a simple hello. The further development of the situation will depend on her answer.

There are different recommendations for a successful dating. However, it's important to understand that it doesn't have to be clichéd. It is necessary to try to avoid hackneyed phrases and compliments - today this does not work.

Throw out phrases from your speech about whether your mother needs a son-in-law, whether it is possible to get acquainted, how to get to the library, or where the "nofelet" is.

It is worth understanding that the most difficult thing is to meet a beautiful girl for someone who has complexes. And this can be connected both with their external data, and with the fear of female self-interest.To get rid of your fears, you need long-term work, starting with the formation of a strong and strong-willed personality, because this is what will help to gain confidence both in terms of character and in terms of finances.

If you want to look beautiful, then you need to visit the gym, pool, responsibility and the desire for self-development are important. Also, we must not forget that it is the man who plays the main role in the development of relationships - rarely when a girl wants to meet a man, whom she will have to develop and support.

In order for a girl to think of you until the next meeting, the goodbye must be special. It is important to leave her a good emotion with which she can think of you. You can smile, offer to meet, discuss the place and day of the meeting. In addition, you need to give her the opportunity to decide for herself what you will do. It is definitely worth saying that you are delighted to meet her.

Regardless of the result, you need to leave like a gentleman - this will tell her about your gallantry. We must not forget to smile, because this approach works well. It depends on you in what way the beautiful stranger will remember you, and whether it will be possible to continue communication with her. Speech should be respectful, because these are elementary norms of etiquette that must not be forgotten.

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