How to meet a guy at school?

School years are full of various events, emotions and impressions. Youthful love is unforgettable and touching. In girls, this feeling is accompanied by shyness, shyness, self-doubt. How to start talking, how to start communicating with the object of your sympathy? Our article will talk about how to meet a guy at school.

Of course, I want to make a good impression on a boy who I really liked. Girls begin to torment themselves with the question of how best to approach him and start communication. The situation is often complicated by the fact that the young man is from a different class and is older, say by 2 or as much as 3 years. In this case, meetings only take place in noisy corridors. Yes, and this cannot be called meetings, because often you just walk past each other. It is simply not possible to strike up an unobtrusive and natural conversation under the many gazes of other teenagers. And you can wait for a very, very long time for a suitable situation that could bring you closer.

To start chatting with a stranger at school, use the following tactic.

• Find out as many details as possible about him. To establish friendship and further relationships, you will need information about his interests, social circle, hobbies, inclinations. In this case, you will already be aware of what topics you can start a conversation about.If he goes to any sections or attends school electives, you can try to enroll there and get closer against the background of general studies.
• A good platform for acquaintance is the general learning process. True, it can be used as an excuse only if you study in the same parallel. For example, in a situation where a test on a subject was held in his class, you can come up and ask what tasks you can expect on the upcoming test.
• It is very good if you have acquaintances in the class in which the guy you like is studying. You can stop by to chat with them at recess. And in the process of such friendly visits, you can find points of contact with the object of your sympathy.
• If you trust your fellow classmates of the guy you like, you can ask them to invite him to any joint event or walk. For example, a joint company to visit a cafe or go to a concert. In an informal setting, making friends is much easier, even if he is 2-3 years older than you.
• Find out what activities he attends outside of school and, as if by chance, appear there in his field of vision. It is very likely that when he sees a familiar face from his school, he himself will want to say hello and be the first to start a conversation.
• Use the information you have about the attracted boy wisely. For example, if you know for sure that he is fond of computer games, come and ask him for a disc with the game or ask any questions about the specifics of its passage.

To substantiate their request, they agreed on some common acquaintance, for example: "Pasha Ivanov said that you are an excellent gamer, but I just can't get through one level in the game." Thus, you will simultaneously compliment him and present your appeal to him logical and unobtrusive. Similarly, you can take advantage of interests in other areas: music, cinema, sports, science.

• If you are attending electives together, turn to him with any question on the subject being studied. Or, on the contrary, try to offer your help in a suitable situation.
• A good excuse to start communication and friendship within the walls of the school is to ask for a pencil or pen. But do not forget to thank the person for their help and be sure to return the things you took.
• Often take part in school activities in which you can prove yourself from the advantageous side. So you will be in sight, and the boy may even become interested in you and take the initiative. But even if the first steps do not follow from him, you will have a reason to intersect at events, and, therefore, common topics of conversation, for example, a discussion of a concert, the results of a sports competition or a school Olympiad.
• Don't forget about social media. It is a large and convenient platform for communication. You can leave an unobtrusive comment under his posts or rate the photo positively. It is also a good option to participate in a joint online discussion on any issue.
• Try to look good, but don't overdo it. Often, girls make the mistake of making their appearance unnecessarily provocative and pretentious. This, of course, is a matter of taste, but too many guys are simply repelled by excessive "brightness".

Now a few tips on how to conduct a conversation so that it is interesting and conducive to further communication with you. It is clear that chatting about anything will quickly get bored and tired of the interlocutor, and he may eventually lose interest in you.

• In a conversation, be able to listen. The interlocutor will be interested in communicating when he himself can fully express himself.
• Be able to accept his point of view.
• Try to ask specific questions. Common phrases like “tell me something” are confusing. It seems that the interlocutor is not interesting to you.
• Talk with him more often on general topics, be interested in his successes, hobbies.
• Be yourself in communication. Natural, relaxed conversation is the best way to bond.Do not create a false impression of yourself.